Say you are a single man out for an evening stroll. You wander down a new Soi and up around the bend you spot a little bar you've never seen before. Its small, dark and has a pool table in the back with 4 or 5 bored girls leaning over the bar. The woman behind the bar lets go a half-harted "Hello Welcome". You stop to take a closer look. A couple of the girls are just plain not attractive. A couple are cute, but average, and one is much better looking then the rest. They notice you have stopped and most of them perk up, except of course the hot one, who glances at you but continues to text on her smart phone.

You decide to ask one of these girls for a game of pool and see what the night brings. Which one do you ask? Do you automatically go for the one who is best looking? Or the one with the biggest smile? Or the one trying hardest to get you to come in and have a drink? Maybe the oldest fattest one as some kind of contrarian play?

Lets assume that they all speak about the same level of English. In my experience I have found that the really cute girls are the least fun . . . . in more ways than one. But on the other hand, they are really cute . . . .

Just interested to see how others go about this.

Not CM related. Moving to General.

Love it, seem it all now, someone on TV trying to get advice on picking up a hooker in Thailand..

OP its easy its all about the money and they love you long time...

The best looking girls are the most fun - when they want to be. Unfortunately, they often don't bother, but they sure are fun when they do.

The old saying is that if you are number two, you try harder. I think that is usually the case.

The best looking girls are the most fun - when they want to be. Unfortunately, they often don't bother, but they sure are fun when they do.

suspect its relative to the amount of money on offer

So what is the OP trying to tell us - only the ugly/plain prostitutes pay him any attention, his money not incentive enough to encourage the good looking prostitutes to lower their standards?

This is why beer was invented.

Sorry but if 'hansum man' was not included in the 'hello welcome' greeting then you are obviously not entitled to go for cute or best looking. Of course your handsumness can be improved by by showing a well filled wallet and indicating that you could be willing to part with a fair wedge. Even the best looking one ( yes, she knows she is) may stop texting.

Bottom line they are working, with enough incentive they could be yours for the hour/night..

I think the OP will find that as he matures, he will not need to ask others, what to look for in a partner. Those girls he is referring to have already been passed over by many of us and about half of those who have made a choice are looking for a way out.

Thank your lucky stars that the good looking one doesn't step up. Probably a bloke with make-up on, not that there is anything wrong with that if that's your thing.

The cute ones are tired as they can go every night if they like...and most do but lie about it. They are like a sports car, driven hard.

Best to take the one who is fun and shows you attention, if she is lovely that is....

Yeah....one lump or two....

Drink enough before you enter the bar and they'll look lovely.

Yermanee

You decide to ask one of these girls for a game of pool and see what the night brings. Which one do you ask? Do you automatically go for the one who is best looking? Or the one with the biggest smile?

I don't. I'm there for the drinks. If anyone of them wants to chat/drink/play pool then I'll go from there. I don't 'go' for any particular person, I let it happen. In doing so I also subconsciously send the message that I'm not all that bothered about anything, and as time progresses the pretty one may (or may not) notice that I'm a nice, fun, interesting (and modest ) guy. That may or may not warm up the pretty one either the same evening or at a future time and place where I least expect it.

Don't over-think this.

If there is any one girl that deserves extra positive atttention then it'd be the one who mixes my drink. That one gets the princess treatment first, regardless of looks.

I don't know how to determine which woman is the most fun. However the women should know that the older, somewhat overweight and balding men are always the most fun. They should offer to buy us a drink.

I don't know how to determine which woman is the most fun. However the women should know that the older, somewhat overweight and balding men are always the most fun. They should offer to buy us a drink.

Geez, this thread is hilarious.

The cute ones can get a guy every night why would they go for the guys they find appalling. The ugly ones don't get chosen that much so they go for every guy even the most ugly ones.

I spent over twenty years chasing around as a single guy in Bangkok before settling down fifteen years ago. In my day the trick was to be indirect in one’s approach, getting the pretty girls to come you and not the other way around. They are often bored with the awkward and badly delivered come ons that are showered upon them. (Then again I was in my 20s and 30s back then.)

I found that being polite and respectful to all the girls while maintaining a certain bearing, often had them competing for my attention, instead of me chasing them. As someone said the pretty ones can be quite interesting, if they are interested. If the pretty ones aren’t interested in you or act bored, it speaks volumes about your own looks and/or personality.

So am i getting this right? The OP wants advice on chatting up hookers?

They will be as fun and as interesting as you like pending on the wad in your wallet and when they call you hansum man they don't necessarily mean it

I tend to go for the ones with the devilish twinkle in their eyes......you just know they could suck start a Harley Davidson!!

I tend to go for the ones with the devilish twinkle in their eyes......you just know they could suck start a Harley Davidson!!

Instead of going to the expense of a Harley, take a length of garden hose and a golf ball to the bar, and start a competition.

When I started to read the OP, the first thing that popped into my head was the Bar Scene from A Beautiful Mind....

Governing Dynamics...

I spent over twenty years chasing around as a single guy in Bangkok before settling down fifteen years ago. In my day the trick was to be indirect in one’s approach, getting the pretty girls to come you and not the other way around. They are often bored with the awkward and badly delivered come ons that are showered upon them. (Then again I was in my 20s and 30s back then.)

I found that being polite and respectful to all the girls while maintaining a certain bearing, often had them competing for my attention, instead of me chasing them. As someone said the pretty ones can be quite interesting, if they are interested. If the pretty ones aren’t interested in you or act bored, it speaks volumes about your own looks and/or personality.

Polite is safest. Many yrars ago in the German Bar across from the Grace. This girl was walking around the bar, tapping blokes on the shoulder, and getting a no thankyou. She went up to this guy, tapped him on the shoulder, he spun round and told her to f off. She changed her game plan, and went around trying ashtrays foe size. Found the one she wanted, went back to him. Tapped him on the shoulder. " told you already, f..." Blood and snot every where. All the Germans jumped up "Rouse Rouse.".

I never went to bed with an ugly woman.....but i sure woke up with a few.

I tend to go for the ones with the devilish twinkle in their eyes......you just know they could suck start a Harley Davidson!!

Not to be confused with the ones who could kick-start one.................

if you really want, you can have every women...

there was a study... a man in a bar, looking around for a suitable female there...

a very pretty one, smiled at him, and "signalled" a bit...

the man of course immediately replied, smiling, looking etc etc...

then, the women all of a sudden, would not look at him anymore, show zero interest in him...

the man then did the same and some would start obvious flirting with other women... he was then asked, why he would ignore the women all of a sudden, and he said he had lost interest in her - none of the men admitted, they were turned down/ignored in the first place...

so much about "keeping face"...

phuturatica, tell me your not texting..............