Enslaving Farangs In Thailand

[Travel2003]

Hmmmm, I think I might have read this story before.

Maybe by someone else, and slighly edited.

Let me think (that's the noise you hear)........................yep, read something similar about 97 times before.

By the way, did I miss the regular farang=ATM in the thread?

[KarenBravo]

http://www.mythaibridefilm.com/

[TommoPhysicist]

By the way, did I miss the regular farang=ATM in the thread?

I think you will find anyone will be treated as an ATM if they allow it.

Nationality not important, seen it happen to many Thai men, and a few Thai ladies too.

[Travel2003]

By the way, did I miss the regular farang=ATM in the thread?

I think you will find anyone will be treated as an ATM if they allow it.

Nationality not important, seen it happen to many Thai men, and a few Thai ladies too.

Agree.

However, seems to be a large portion of the TV members who believe this is purely a Thai thing.

[Pormax]

Once again a post bashing Thai ladies.

It takes two to tango.

If men are blind or think with the little head and not the big head surely it is the man's fault..

[jamescollister]

By the way, did I miss the regular farang=ATM in the thread?

I think you will find anyone will be treated as an ATM if they allow it.

Nationality not important, seen it happen to many Thai men, and a few Thai ladies too.

Agree.

However, seems to be a large portion of the TV members who believe this is purely a Thai thing.

Best looking girl from my village comes home to visit her mother now and then. Mother lives in a nice new house, girl stays next door in her little villa style house, she arrives in a brand new convertible Merc. Mir noy to a BKK banker, no farang.

Not uncommon round here for those with money to keep a young Lao girl, it's the Thai way, we are just new on the scene and seem to think it's all farang aimed. Jim

[Gary A]

It's a tough old world and you have to look after yourself because no else is going to look after you. A man married to a Thai woman is better off than if he is married to a western woman in his home country. I have never heard of a Thai woman being able to tap her husband's home country assets.

I have posted my rules for surviving in Thailand a number of times and maybe it is time to post them again.

1 - Never spend more than you can afford to walk away from.

2 - Never be worth more dead than alive.

3 - Keep a low profile and mind your own business.

I find it incredible that a man would spend his life savings on property that he can't own. The fifty fifty divorce settlements are fiction. Yes, the court may indeed award you 50 percent but the divorce court is a civil court and has no power of enforcement. You will certainly die before you get a single baht.

I love my wife and consider myself very lucky to have a good wife but one never knows for sure. I can tell you that if she were to throw me out tomorrow, that I wouldn't miss any meals and I would still have a vehicle to drive and a roof over my head. I have not put myself in a situation that I have to worry about my financial future. I would be devastated if I lost my wife but NOT financially devastated.

[TommoPhysicist]

I love my wife and consider myself very lucky to have a good wife but one never knows for sure. I can tell you that if she were to throw me out tomorrow, that I wouldn't miss any meals and I would still have a vehicle to drive and a roof over my head. I have not put myself in a situation that I have to worry about my financial future. I would be devastated if I lost my wife but NOT financially devastated.

Same here.

Love is no excuse for being silly.

[somo]

I love my wife and consider myself very lucky to have a good wife but one never knows for sure. I can tell you that if she were to throw me out tomorrow, that I wouldn't miss any meals and I would still have a vehicle to drive and a roof over my head. I have not put myself in a situation that I have to worry about my financial future. I would be devastated if I lost my wife but NOT financially devastated.

Same here.

Love is no excuse for being silly.

Of course it is. Being in love or being drunk are the best excuses or being silly!

[jamescollister]

I love my wife and consider myself very lucky to have a good wife but one never knows for sure. I can tell you that if she were to throw me out tomorrow, that I wouldn't miss any meals and I would still have a vehicle to drive and a roof over my head. I have not put myself in a situation that I have to worry about my financial future. I would be devastated if I lost my wife but NOT financially devastated.

Same here.

Love is no excuse for being silly.

Of course it is. Being in love or being drunk are the best excuses or being silly!

Some play safe, others take a different approach, The play safe is the wise way. I on the other hand have had the devil may care attitude, all my life. No doubt why I am always broke, but life is for living. If you want to climb a mountain you may as well go for the biggest one. Tried and lost on many a time, when your life pass before your eye at it's end ,at least I will seen an interesting one.

Won't be the riches man in the grave yard that's for sure. Jim

[IsaanAussie]

Climbing mountains, fording streams and following byways until you find your dream. Cant remember the full wording, but that was the important bit. What I don't remember is the chain smoking and beer guzzling bits in the lyrics though?..

Life is to be lived. Much of mine is fairly mundane daily chores but still a part of my life and enjoyable. Sharks, snakes and crocodiles motivate me but even those dont seem so bad after many years here. Meet worse everyday.

I reckon His Majesty the King has it right with his sufficiency teachings. The trick is to adjust your life to make sure there is enough. If not its rice, tree leaves and frogs for as long as it takes.

Dont take yourself too seriously and you will never be Enslaved.

[TommoPhysicist]

Climbing mountains, fording streams and following byways until you find your dream. Cant remember the full wording, but that was the important bit. What I don't remember is the chain smoking and beer guzzling bits in the lyrics though?..

He was marrying a Nun, fairly sure the beer, ciggies and shagging would have been strictly limited.

[nanapong]

I love my wife and consider myself very lucky to have a good wife but one never knows for sure. I can tell you that if she were to throw me out tomorrow, that I wouldn't miss any meals and I would still have a vehicle to drive and a roof over my head. I have not put myself in a situation that I have to worry about my financial future. I would be devastated if I lost my wife but NOT financially devastated.

Same here.

Love is no excuse for being silly.

Of course it is. Being in love or being drunk are the best excuses or being silly!

Some play safe, others take a different approach, The play safe is the wise way. I on the other hand have had the devil may care attitude, all my life. No doubt why I am always broke, but life is for living. If you want to climb a mountain you may as well go for the biggest one. Tried and lost on many a time, when your life pass before your eye at it's end ,at least I will seen an interesting one.

Won't be the riches man in the grave yard that's for sure. Jim

“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!”

― Hunter S. Thompson

[somo]

Absolutely!

Going out in a cloud of smoke is the way they do it here

[jamescollister]

Absolutely!

Going out in a cloud of smoke is the way they do it here

Somo your in Thailand, they burn you no matter what. Jim

[somo]

Absolutely!

Going out in a cloud of smoke is the way they do it here

Somo your in Thailand, they burn you no matter what. Jim

Precisely! Thus the smiley.

[55Jay]

Link given to "mythaibride" is, I think, what Swissie had in mind (?).

They arrive daily at Swampy, at least one potential mythaibride future movie star in waiting.

[55Jay]

So renting a girl is a problem?

Nope, only if you let it become one.

You are not paying for sex.

You are paying for her to leave in the morning!

[nanapong]

Interesting read ... http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/ReadersSubmissions2012/reader7742.htm

Edited October 22, 2012 by nanapong

[TommoPhysicist]

Interesting read ... http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/ReadersSubmissions2012/reader7742.htm

Nothing at all interesting on a 'born again' former sexpat site.

Low paid TEFL teacher, who played with hookers for years, got himself an 'educated hi-so' went anti-hooker, educated hi-so screwed him over and upgraded to a man with more money..

He posted for years about how his girl was different . ..... tell me the old, old, story.

No credibility, as daft as any of us ever were.

Edited October 22, 2012 by TommoPhysicist

[nanapong]

Interesting read ... http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/ReadersSubmissions2012/reader7742.htm

Nothing at all interesting on a 'born again' former sexpat site.

Low paid TEFL teacher, who played with hookers for years, got himself an 'educated hi-so' went anti-hooker, educated hi-so screwed him over and upgraded to a man with money..

He posted for years about how his girl was different ........ ha ha.

Now bitter and twisted about the ex. ..... tell me the old, old, story.

No credibility, as daft as any of us ever were.

Do i detect a bit of animosity there. I don't particularly care about Stickman. To me it's interesting because a lot of whats written is true.

[TommoPhysicist]

Do i detect a bit of animosity there. I don't particularly care about Stickman. To me it's interesting because a lot of whats written is true.

I get tired of listening to these idiots, they all spout the same rubbish.

When you come to Thailand you pass through various stages.

1. Thai girls are wonderful.

2. I hear bad stories about Thai girls but mine is different, I trust her totally and she never worked in a bar.

3. Thai girls are evil cheats that only want my money, avoid them all.

4. Keep a firm grip on your finances and enjoy your life.

Depending on how foolish you are, you progress through the stages, some guys never get past stage 2.

Edited October 22, 2012 by TommoPhysicist

[nanapong]

Do i detect a bit of animosity there. I don't particularly care about Stickman. To me it's interesting because a lot of whats written is true.

I get tired of listening to these idiots, they all spout the same rubbish.

When you come to Thailand you pass through various stages.

1. Thai girls are wonderful.

2. I hear bad stories about Thai girls but mine is different, I trust her totally and she never worked in a bar.

3. Thai girls are evil cheats that only want my money, avoid them all.

4. Keep a firm grip on your finances and enjoy your life.

Depending on how foolish you are, you progress through the stages, some guys never get past stage 2.

Ahh , reading your descriptive slander of Stickman made me think you actually knew him personally and bore some sort of grudge. Obviously you don't know him at all. Remind me not to listen to him and all the other rubbish spouting idiots anymore. I'll just just lend my ear to your extensive knowledge on Thailand in future. You must have lots of followers coiled with anticipation awaiting your latest ramblings ?

[TommoPhysicist]

Ahh , reading your descriptive slander of Stickman ........

Don't believe I can see any slander in my OP ......... I suggest you read it again.

But if you or anyone else can, please use the 'report' button to have the post removed.

Edited October 22, 2012 by TommoPhysicist

[nanapong]

Ahh , reading your descriptive slander of Stickman ........

Don't believe I can see any slander in my OP ......... I suggest you read it again.

But if you or anyone else can, please use the 'report' button to have the post removed.

Oh phleeze , your description of him is shown in your words for everybody to see. How can you make such an assumtion of someone you don't know and you've never met. Personally i've always enjoyed reading his site and so have 1000s of others. Maybe you should start your own website to share your own insights and thoughts on Thailand. On second thoughts maybe you shouldn't. Report you for what. Don't be so childish.

[cbrer]

Thailand:

Rent everything.

Buy nothing.

[transam]

Ahh , reading your descriptive slander of Stickman ........

Don't believe I can see any slander in my OP ......... I suggest you read it again.

But if you or anyone else can, please use the 'report' button to have the post removed.

Oh phleeze , your description of him is shown in your words for everybody to see. How can you make such an assumtion of someone you don't know and you've never met. Personally i've always enjoyed reading his site and so have 1000s of others. Maybe you should start your own website to share your own insights and thoughts on Thailand. On second thoughts maybe you shouldn't. Report you for what. Don't be so childish.

Tommo and l could ''perhaps'' start a website, as our eyes are open, many eyes require blinkers to navigate, but those eyes have a jokey. ..............................

[nanapong]

Ahh , reading your descriptive slander of Stickman ........

Don't believe I can see any slander in my OP ......... I suggest you read it again.

But if you or anyone else can, please use the 'report' button to have the post removed.

Oh phleeze , your description of him is shown in your words for everybody to see. How can you make such an assumtion of someone you don't know and you've never met. Personally i've always enjoyed reading his site and so have 1000s of others. Maybe you should start your own website to share your own insights and thoughts on Thailand. On second thoughts maybe you shouldn't. Report you for what. Don't be so childish.

Tommo and l could ''perhaps'' start a website, as our eyes are open, many eyes require blinkers to navigate, but those eyes have a jokey. ..............................

Well yes you probably could but you'd need an awful lot of help with your punctuation. Not to mention the silly riddles and smileys. Goodnight ...

[transam]

<deleted> is punctuation.

But I am on time for everything.

Edited October 22, 2012 by transam

[jamescollister]

Well here I have just had a visit from a Brit, his wife came last year to to have a look at want we do. Is this poor girl from Pattayya, no she is an accountant [Thai[] in London owns over 1000 rai of land in Thailand. It's a big strange world. Jim