56 year age diffence in a relationship..good or bad?

[justcruisin]

Was with a friend tonight that looks younger than his age of 73, I would like to know if an age difference of 56 years in a male/female relationship will work?

It would be abominable in my opinion and he was surprised by the looks on the street directed at him whilst walking with a 16+/- yr old.. After explaining the Laws concerning age of consent which he chose to ignore, himself having been in Thai on and off since the Vietnam days.

Being unaware of the laws my friend was adamant that the age of consent is 15.

After explaining the laws pertaining to Thai law re:underage partners, he was in complete indifference.

[WinnieTheKhwai]

It is 15, assuming the parents don't object and approve of the relationship.

Would be good to get that cemented through a village ceremony with some pictures, etc. Either way that's a self-resolving problem in a year or two.

And Good or Bad..

If I was 73 I'd be well past the age where I'd care about anyone elses idea of good or bad, and enjoy whatever time I had left.

Edited October 2, 2013 by WinnieTheKhwai

[Skint]

A 15 or 16 year old Thai girl will look like a 12 year old, I'm sorry but this old man is another glitter or saville.

[john1000]

Maybe when we are 80 odd our views may well differ?

[justcruisin]

Yep, pushing up little girls into a better life is way preferable to pushing up little daisy flowers from 6 ft under!

My main point to him that was the age of consent in Thai is 18 (ambiguous law) and he may get extorted or deported.

Good luck to him as long as the doorman or tuk tuk driver doesn't want some extra cash whilst he swishes her to his lovedom!

[puukao]

I think, if an American, American laws apply. Therefore, under 18, jail. Corruption of a minor, etc......sad these people pry on the insecure. I met a guy who was in his 60's and paid her family 30k baht a month, and he bragged how he rented a nice SUV to choose his next gf/wife. Use your power....but karma is a b.....

[Jasun]

In dog years maybe.

[NeverSure]

I think, if an American, American laws apply. Therefore, under 18, jail. Corruption of a minor, etc......sad these people pry on the insecure. I met a guy who was in his 60's and paid her family 30k baht a month, and he bragged how he rented a nice SUV to choose his next gf/wife. Use your power....but karma is a b.....

In America, each state has it's own age of consent. Some are as low as 16. I don't think it's a federal beef. Link

Edit. I do think that if an American violates the age of consent in a foreign country, it's a federal beef and he will probably be extradited for prosecution.

The guy should be in Japan. It's 13, LOL.

Edited October 2, 2013 by NeverSure

[arunsakda]

In dog years maybe.

Half your age plus 7 is a good rule of thumb.

[Ulysses G.]

56 year age diffence in a relationship..good or bad?

Good if you are the older one or if you are the younger one and he kicks the bucket in a few months and leaves you all his money.

[iancnx]

She is a child for goodness sake. BAD!

[wehugheog]

Go for it! whatever... if she is "old enough according to the law".. why not

I personally might not agree, but hey, it's the law and abide by it.

[Sharp]

It's all about your level or morals if any...

Would the person involved be ok with his young daughter being in the same situation.

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[hellodolly]

Go for it! whatever... if she is "old enough according to the law".. why not

I personally might not agree, but hey, it's the law and abide by it.

So because it is the law you are going to abide by it Does that mean you are going to go out and grab a 16 year old?

It happens but I see no reason to condone it legal or illegal. How ever if in fact it is the difference between lifee and death for the girl I would not be so strong against it. Personally I would rather just give her money in that case.

Just my way of living. Doesn't have to be others.

[WinnieTheKhwai]

Pics or it didn't happen.

[beb]

Gross.

[Radar501]

"Was with a friend tonight that looks younger than his age of 73."

If he looks 50 years younger than his age, it is still WRONG!!

[anto]

A friend in my village is 77 and the TW is 32 .45 years age difference .It works for them but a 15 year old is just a child .

[elektrified]

I think one poster nailed it. It doesn't matter what the law is here (although WTK explained the situation well in post #2), if he ever goes back to a country like the USA, Germany, U.K., Australia - (I think), and a number of others who signed on, he will be prosecuted if they know about it.

There was a show on TV a few years ago about this. They showed a number of guys being nabbed getting off the airplanes as they returned home from trips to Thailand and Cambodia were they had been with minors.

[Sharp]

It's all about your level or morals if any...

Would the person involved be ok with his young daughter being in the same situation.

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Sorry granddaughter !!!!!

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[Thighlander]

The law is 18 for Americans traveling abroad. I just saw a guy get 13 years for doin' a 14 yo, he could have got probation if she had been 15. He was 23 at the time of the crime. Saw a 27 yo teacher get 4 years for a 17 yo student. Saw a 21 yo get two years for 465 pounds of mary J..

[Naam]

worst case scenario for Americans when they return home if they were caught smoking a cigarette in a one-way street on a sunday morning. they have to expect 369 years, one life sentence without parole plus 85 hours of community service.

[Thighlander]

80 with an 18 is fine; if she is a day under 18, it is a felony (for Americans). BTW, age of consent is 12 in Mexico, but don't think for a minute you wouldn't get prosecuted in the States.

[Richie23]

Come on... 16 is way too young for pretty much anyone other than maybe another 16 year old. It's not right IMO, she's just a child.

[KRS1]

_{what could he possibly have in common with a 15 year old?}

people like this disgust me, someone should cut his dick off.

[hanno]

Anybody with a girl that could be his great-granddaughter is a pervert IMHO.

[elektrified]

The law is 18 for Americans traveling abroad.

That sounds right as I recall it is what was said on the TV documentary I saw. And the same law applies to citizens of Germany, the U.K., I think Australia, and a few other countries which I forget now. It does not matter what the laws are in the country the citizen of those countries committed the act. They will be prosecuted under this International law which has been in effect for about 7 or more years now.

And if people think no one will know, be assured someone is watching. With all this high tech surveillance now, the above countries know [almost] everything. Certainly in a place like Thailand, Cambodia, etc. there are countless spies getting rewarded for tipping off the authorities. On the documentary, the German Doctor (150 kg.) had the most surprised look on his face (like he was certain that he had covered all of his tracks in Cambodia) when the German federal authorities and camera crew were waiting for him to deplane in Frankfurt.

[Lobo4819]

I have always felt that you can estimate the mental age of many Thais if you take their chronological age, divide by 2 then subtract 5. This works for those over the age of 12. Of course there are exceptions, but this is not about the exceptions. Anyone who has dated a very young Thai woman (e.g., under 30) may wish to test the formula.

[Boksida]

_{what could he possibly have in common with a 15 year old?}

people like this disgust me, someone should cut his dick off.

73-56 = 15? She probably has a fair bit in common with you.

[elektrified]

I think id go crazy from her playing with her mobile and checking her facebook every 4 seconds, taking selfies with a puffy face

and a peace sign....only raising her head to say she "hungy" and then "i sleepy" then only to wake to watch lakorn soapies.

More than 1/2 of them are like that at all ages here. In the West it's called being a 'bimbo'.

Edited October 3, 2013 by elektrified