are you still with the same one (phuket girl, think it was?) well, anyway , i always was "mr cynical" in your eyes , for strongly doubting she was "different" . Of course they, and we , are all different in some ways, but the thai women who grew up in a real Thai environment are 99% programmed differently than Western people. Some of that is great, of course (when comparing to modern western females) .... but i have had a ton of contacts/relationships with "normal" thai women ...meaning not hi so or growing up overseas. And one thing they ALL have in common is ....they just don't "communicate " (thoughts, feelings) the way i would like to . Trying to force the issue never works. Accept it..or try again somewhere else. I am not saying that some progress is impossible . HEY ! maybe i will hire one of those girls to just sit out by a garden somewhere and talk with me ❣️