Before I start this is not a Thai girl/lady bashing as my question could relate to a woman from any country.

I've been with my lady for 9 months now, we get on very well and she's told her parents about me, or so she says as I've not met them for obvious reasons.

I trust her yet I've this gut feeling something is not 100% right.

When we started dating she asked me if I was on Facebook to which I said yes. She asked can I add her to which I said yes of course.

Yet up until today she's never accepted the request.

I've spoken to her about this and she states it won't let her accept me as a friend. At first I accepted this because she said her account has been hacked etc.

So when she went back to Thailand she said that she would sort it out.

Then came other excuses such as I don't want my family to see you. Which I accepted as at that point only her sister, brother and mother knew about me, Dad couldn't know.

6 months later she's back in the UK. She said that she would add once back in the UK because her dad wouldn't be able to question her.

So far nothing. Now don't get me wrong I don't think Facebook is overly important in life but what concerns me is the fact she hides and makes up reason's why she cannot add me,after all it was her that wanted my Facebook in the first place.

I'm not being childish about this but it's just a little weird from what I'm used to . I've had and friends have had their gf or bf on their Facebook. Only one's that haven't have been because they are "players".

If she never asked in the first place then I probably wouldn't be as bothered. She even said I'll set up a new Facebook for us to share.

We also currently live together at the moment.

So I guess from a thai lady point of view is this normal? I ask because my female and male uk friends are starting to get suspicious of her and getting a bit pprotective due to my previous partner.

Any input would be appreciated that's not bias from my friend's.

Sorry if this is in the wrong place.

No this is the right place

 

Next...

I will move this to pub, the ladies forum is for ladies, not about ladies.

 

As to the issue of facebook & not wanting you to meet her family, use your common sense, she could send you a  friend request. And her family, if they are fine with your relationship as you say, should be chomping at the bit to meet the man she lives with in a foreign country.

 

She sounds like she is hiding something, either a husband or ex one and/or kids.

Thanks and sorry for placing in the wrong place I will ask a mod to delete this thread.

It's fine, I have moved it to the correct section.

Maybe some pics, then we can see who on TV has been banging her in your absence.

Maybe some pics, then we can see who on TV has been banging her in your absence.

 

More like who hasn't.

I bet Roland Rat has been

Mr. Costas have you got this bird's Facebook address?

Pick up her ipad and just send yourself a friend request on her FB and accept! Done! Alternatively send her another friend request, then pick up her ipad and press accept - done!

Mr. Costas have you got this bird's Facebook address?

Oh god, he's probably been milking her.

Pick up her ipad and just send yourself a friend request on her FB and except! Done! Alternatively send her another friend request, then pick up her ipad and press accept - done!

 

You'll see a big rat head pop up and a guy with huge eyebrows.

Maybe some pics, then we can see who on TV has been banging her in your absence.

 

 I must he is brave man to be posting this in pub

 

Then came other excuses such as I don't want my family to see you

 

Usually as soon as a Thai lady gets a farang monkey for a serious BF, she wants to show them off to the village and for all intents and purposes they are planning the wedding

 

so based on this remark alone, your being played... .... Ex or current hubby, BF in the picture a few kids hidden away in the village etc, or she is only intent on clearing your wallet only ..

If you have a gut feeling then you do not trust her. To be honest, I don't either............

 

Mr. Costas have you got this bird's Facebook address?

Oh god, he's probably been milking her.

 

 

Definitely I bet she could drink her weight in Badger Milk.

Pick up her ipad and just send yourself a friend request on her FB and except! Done! Alternatively send her another friend request, then pick up her ipad and press accept - done!

I wouldn't waste my time, what's wrong with you pussies? What's Facebook? Who gives a flying leap?

Clearly the OP needs to man up and start banging this lasses friends, sister, mother and anything else he can get his hands on. Time to show her who's running the show, make sure to plaster ur exploits all over your page, she will join ur face team in no time ;)

The other point could be that the FB accounts is actually male. Could be another colabamumbai story in the making

Where's the grammar police when you need them?

Where's the grammar police when you need them?

Are they going to help the OP, or are they banging his missus?

 

Mr. Costas have you got this bird's Facebook address?

Oh god, he's probably been milking her.
 

 
Definitely I bet she could drink her weight in Badger Milk.

She's seen enuf badgers milk to start up her own dairy. The OP Is being played, time he gave his own ferret a spin, no shortage of places to do this in LOS.

OP we would also like you to elaborate on your previous partner as you mentioned.

Yep, agreed his ferret should be able to get stuck into some Thai Beaver

Where's the grammar police when you need them?

 

Gawd who let the "English Teacher" in ?

Where's the grammar police when you need them?

Ohh please don't call em in, there's no shortage of douchbags Lineing for da task.

Where's the grammar police when you need them?

I was guilty of an offence, but self -policed ;)

Bookface?

Where's the grammar police when you need them?

 
Gawd who let the "English Teacher" in ?

Well, he probably won't be buying a round.

I wonder if she's had a TGAU incorrectly applied?

She needs to follow abort proceedure carefully.... No wonder she's not playing on facer.

Think the OP might be having problems with his GERU

Think you'll find Harry Monk all over her Facebook.