Suffinator Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 Stop giving her money ... you'll soon discover just how much disdain she has for you. No good having a walking ATM if it doesn't dispense cash. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anto Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 (edited) They quickly go into melt down mode like this ,https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=809950612370038" Edited October 9, 2014 by anto Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Aleman Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 Normally they will apply the "silent" treatment which is soothed by giving her a large amount of money but, if not enough, will be followed by a "screaming/throwing" session and then? ........ then, the machete ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin2852 Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 Thai women are no more mysterious or fathomable than any where else. I have come to the conclusion that all will show like or dislike in different ways. The best way to learn, is to deal on a personal level for quite a while and get to know the other person. They are all total individuals and incidentally, this is one of the questions that they ask each other as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aldebaran1981 Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 No disrespect to thai women, but I guess once u stopped giving, they start disdaining! Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbbooboo Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 I think the secret is ,when a Thai woman(girl) gives you the silent treatment and puts you on "rations"(usually lasts 3 days), to just leave and go away and have some fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrfaroukh Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 Simple if they ask for money then they are only after your money and do not care who you are, how old you are. But if they like you they even take care you if they can. So please be thankful to Thai girls that they at least smile even if they not like you much. Just think how can a girl with a age difference of 2 or 3 times her age love you?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wat dee Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 They get periods. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Globeman Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 It's not as if Thai women are fitted with a default behavioural program on a bloody assembly line, fer Chrissakes Some will be subtle; some will be overt It might have something to do with the fact that they're INDIVIDUALS. Perhaps so, but every society has behavioural norms that are learned in the within the family, at school and - unfortunately - from television. There are behavioural trends and tendencies. Universal peace love and understanding in a world where "people are people are people" is a nice goal to have, but the fact is that different cultures see the world around them through different filters and react to circumstances accordingly. As an example, Thais are generally taught - one way or the other - to simply ignore questions they do not like - to close up rather than open up. Of course there are exceptions (that could be said to 'prove the rule' - the education system here is nothing if not an attempt to build Thais on an assembly line), but there are general behavioural tendencies. If there weren't, there would be little point in any of us coming on Thaivisa to discuss such issues. If people were exactly the same all over the world, none of us would be so baffled by local behaviour. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CapeThai Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 The ones freaking out by breaking things and threating with suicide mostly does this because of the language barrier and the lack of understanding her emotionally by her farang boyfriend / hubby As mentioned in another topic few weeks ago, " communicating with your Thai Lady through language of the heart " I would describe it more as understanding each others body language, this is obviously only possible if your really mend to be together and if you put the "Thainess" thing out of your mind. A decent Thai girl really are very much the same as any other decent woman out there... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheryl Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 "Disdain" is not exactly the same as disliking someone or wanting to have nothing to do wit them (which does not necessarily imply dislike..can have many reasons). In my experience, Thais of both sexes are pretty clear when it comes to showing actual disdain. If you are at all sensitive you will not miss it. Whereas if they simply do not want to have much to do with you, this will be indicated by the fact that they largely ignore you (consistently as opposed to all of a sudden or just sometimes -- in those cases it is a message you've done something wrong that needs to be resolved) Whether that is due to actual dislike of you as a person vs something else, you'll have to infer based on how much contact they have had with you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToddinChonburi Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 What the Hell kind of Question is this ? you think because they are Thai that makes them different , OH MY GOD are you in for a good screwing from the wrong lady. Hide your wallet and your account numbers along with all your pass words. infact go back home and read how many Farangs have lost everything to these evil bitches. Lol Just f......cking with you. Education Education Education Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRascal Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 No disrespect to thai women, but I guess once u stopped giving, they start disdaining! Lol So many that don't care about money, my girl got angry when she thought I spent too much on her for her birthday. Disdain... I cheated on my girl once, she pointed at the bed and said... "what is dis stain" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cypress Hill Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 <script type='text/javascript'>window.mod_pagespeed_start = Number(new Date());</script> It's not as if Thai women are fitted with a default behavioural program on a bloody assembly line, fer ChrissakesSome will be subtle; some will be overtIt might have something to do with the fact that they're INDIVIDUALS. Perhaps so, but every society has behavioural norms that are learned in the within the family, at school and - unfortunately - from television. There are behavioural trends and tendencies. Universal peace love and understanding in a world where "people are people are people" is a nice goal to have, but the fact is that different cultures see the world around them through different filters and react to circumstances accordingly. As an example, Thais are generally taught - one way or the other - to simply ignore questions they do not like - to close up rather than open up. Of course there are exceptions (that could be said to 'prove the rule' - the education system here is nothing if not an attempt to build Thais on an assembly line), but there are general behavioural tendencies. If there weren't, there would be little point in any of us coming on Thaivisa to discuss such issues. If people were exactly the same all over the world, none of us would be so baffled by local behaviour. Be that as it may, the assembly line production process hasn't rinsed out basic human responses. How the hell does any human being show disdain for another? Some will tell you to piss off, others will spit in your eye, others will flip you the bird, others will ignore you, others will give you a dirty look . . . . there are any number of possible responses and expecting to have those of Thai women listed in some sort of online manual available only to the legendary lotharios on Thaivisa as if they're all the same is plain stoopid Thai women, like all others, still need figuring out and, contrary to popular perception, an injection of cash doesn't always produce the desired results. Though, I've read somewhere that blow-up dolls don't talk back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
padsterj Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 I think the secret is ,when a Thai woman(girl) gives you the silent treatment and puts you on "rations"(usually lasts 3 days), to just leave and go away and have some fun thats how I get into the situation to start with lol currently on day 2 of silent treatment after I went out Tuesday night got drunk and rolled in at 5am she really dont like me going for a beer. i wouldnt mind if i went out a lot, usually 1 night a week and i go to the local not soi cowboy or nana. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krataiboy Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 One of life's great mysteries, women. Only if you are a man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krataiboy Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 They are past-masters - oops! mistresses - of the not so gentle art of the cold shoulder. That's generally because they know you fancy them a lot more than they love you, usually on account of an age difference. We don't need air conditioning in the bedroom when my partner loses her rag with me for some reason. We need a blow heater. No guys, don't even suggest it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 One of life's great mysteries, women. Only if you are a man. Oh I don't know theres a few katoeys that seem to have it nailed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cbluck58 Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 I never have any problem knowing when my wife wishes to show disdain - attitude, silence and the face.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lavender19 Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 You mean you have never had the "stare" and the 3 day silent treatment. Mind you I like the 3 day silent treatment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nputman Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 (edited) If looks could kill. Have seen recently from a female family member I have been paying for school when I asked for some accountability. Suspected not going to school, asked for letter from school, 2 months now and on sheet list from entire family. Edited October 9, 2014 by nputman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 Showing disdain......the ultimate projection to oneself.......try explaining them ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gecko123 Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 Beware of the intentionally insincere smile. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post smotherb Posted October 9, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 9, 2014 Some Thai women show disdain by being good housekeepers. You buy them a house, and they keep it. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggt Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 When they politely hire someone to dispose of you... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdanielmcev Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mutha289 Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 There's never been any doubt in my mind when my wife is unhappy about something! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loptr Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 I dunno, but IME there are 3 distinct reactions you get from a woman depending on just how bad you pissed her off... 1. The silent treatment... Usually lasts from 1 - 3 days... Longer if you really screwed up... 2. Screaming Banshee... Usually accompanied by flying objects, screaming, threats of suicide... Bio-polar disorder may be at play... 3. I'm out of here... They cannot deal with the situation and leave, either returning later, or not... Notice I didn't say anything about Thai women... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khunjamesjohnson Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 One of my ex-wifes friends wrote her an email and told her to "take everything. Take his property, take his business, take his money, take everything!" I figured she didn't like me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lex Talionis Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 Yes, when she cuts off your ..... and feeds it to the ducks. What is it with these carousing ducks over here? Do they get all worked up at the prospect of feasting on farangle dangles? Wouldn't pigs, say, work just as well? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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