The question is, are you a normal man? You try to find in bars. However you can meet a "normal woman" in a bar, you dont know as you cut of any further contact, when they ask you "how long you are in Pattaya" So basically you dont know if you met a "normal woman". You dont take the time. You already know how to talk Thai? That would be a great help, as many dont speak English and for sure no French. Some learned maybe and are dying to try, but you dont know. Can you have the patience? As you cut down women in bars. Their vocabulary could be low, so they start "how long you are in Pattaya". My wifes vocabulary was very low in beginning, she just learned some basic English. She had started a course for her work, she was an officer. So I took the time , too explain words, write it down ,translate into Thai , speaking slow , articulated and so on and so on. Also the fear of connecting, are you a scammer, a butterfly? But depends on the person of course. My wife has 2 nieces, both educated, one is herb specialist, doesnt speak English, but she is able to learn that in jiffy time, she is super bright enough. Told my wife and she told her, however up till now didnt do. The other one is pharmacist and can speak English. However then you come to the issue of "normal women" and what they are thinking. Everything plays a roll in it and for sure past. Patience is always the hot iron, however can go fast. You never know with a woman. It is at first up to you. Cut or play. Last week my wife asked me, if I would know someone for her college. Also high ranked officer. Ok didnt go into that that much, as I dont want someone pointing their finger to me when it goes wrong. Also not for the nieces, let them find their own way. So as well for you Sam, if you see a "normal woman" in fi mall, start with "Hey, pai na." See what it brings you, you have nothing too loose. Maybe you bring a lovely Thai smile on her face. Sometimes I m flabbergasted by actions of Thai "normal" women, like they want to touch my white skin !? Or I buy a bottle of whiskey and asked by 2 seller girls in a 7/11 if they could have a zip with me. Young enough to be my daughters ! One spoke English, the other not. Or get an invitation from store owner to go out ! 2 Muslim seller girls in a store giggling and telling me "you are handsome ", uhhh? Sometimes I wonder, do I experience it, as mostly they know Im connected or they just dont care ? I do run into those situations and I think it is fun.
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