How To Meeting A Thai Lady For Long Term Commitment.

[Bud1000]

I am new to Thailand and it seems as though it is easy to meet "a" Thai girl. But I am interested in meeting a loving and beautiful TG for a long term relationship and possible marriage. I know many people find the right girl in a bar and that is great but you do also here some horror stories.

I was wondering if any long term residents and/or senior posters had any tips regarding finding an honest long term love in Thailand. Does Thailand have introduction agencies? Is there a "singles" scene for over 40s in Bangkok?

[Robski]

Is there a "singles" scene for over 40s in Bangkok?

Over to you Terry57 old chap...........

[britmaveric]

Any relationship is a risk, so meeting somone anywhere can create your own personal horror stories. Learning thai would be very beneficial.

As for places - I'd think like the west - anywhere is a possibility!!

[Bud1000]

What about introduction agencies? Are there any reputable ones that care for the well being of these brave Thai ladies?

[alexth]

If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there

[Ulysses G.]

If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there

Very sincere too!

[goldenmile]

i don't know if it is a good idea going into any relationship expecting it to be long term.

much healthier to take it slowly and see what happens.

why are you particularly interested in thai ladies?

it may be easy initially with a BG or whatever 0 but then you have your work cut out for you - same as in any relationship.

good luck!

by the way - cant seem to find an introduction section for newbies here. is there one?

Edited November 28, 2006 by goldenmile

[Douggie Style]

& make sure you wear lots of gold

Seriously, avoid any type of 'meeting' designed to foster romance, simply attracts the wrong type.

Meeting a girl through a day to day activity is best, eg work, tour, snorkelling.

Or simply find a girl who is working in a regular job and slowly work your charms.

[game4shame]

If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there

[Bud1000]

If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there

I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me.

[Ulysses G.]

If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there

I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me.

Too stuck up for a nice village girl?

[Jai Dee]

by the way - cant seem to find an introduction section for newbies here. is there one?

Have a gander at this thread... and say Hi to everyone there.

If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there

I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me.

Somehow.... I smell a troll...

[Buckwheat]

by the way - cant seem to find an introduction section for newbies here. is there one?

Have a gander at this thread... and say Hi to everyone there.

If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there

I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me.

Somehow.... I smell a troll...

Sounds a lot like the "fire and brimstone" guy from up North

[Francis Maube]

If you are new in LOS I suggest you take a back seat to long term relationship. Well, on a second though it applies everywhere doesn't it?

[Bud1000]

If I were you, I'd start with Pattaya or Soi Nana and Soi Cowboy if in Bangkok. Hundreds of honorable, honest and loving beautiful girls there

I know many Westerners here are for finding the love and marriage with a bar girl and I think they are very lucky but I don't feel it is for the right choice for me.

Too stuck up for a nice village girl?

NO I am most respecting of bar girls but don't feel they are the right marriage for me. I am not knocking others' choices in ladies.

[Briggsy]

I recommend preparing an intelligence file on all members of her family. This is an excellent starting point.

[Jai Dee]

I am not knocking others' choices in ladies.

Very politically correct.

[migrant]

How do you meet good ladies in your own country?

I've met ladies in all places, never a guarantee they will be quality. Just look around and use common sense ( and a hefty dose of scepticism)

[goldenmile]

in my experience bar girls are quite different once you get to know them.

even some bar girls don't like the others who take a nice man for a fool.

mind you that may just be jealousy that they didnt get there first.......

[Briggsy]

Investigate the contents of her bag when she's in the toilet.

[britmaveric]

Not hard in thailand, but any relationship - don't know what you have until after a heap of time has gone by!!

[goldenmile]

Investigate the contents of her bag when she's in the toilet.

and the contents of her sms message inbox

[Briggsy]

Get one of your mates, whom she has never met, to chat her up and secretly video the reaction/encounter.

[goldenmile]

Get one of your mates, whom she has never met, to chat her up and secretly video the reaction/encounter.

and please upload the vid to youtube and give us the link.

cheers

[Briggsy]

Take her on a surprise date to the hospital and get her tested for all sexually transmitted diseases.

[goldenmile]

Take her on a surprise date to the hospital and get her tested for all sexually transmitted diseases.

and post the results here.

hey and while you are there you could have some tests done too.

maybe you will have something in common

[Bud1000]

You guys are for having the laugh. English isn't my best language so please don't have the joking with me too much.

In my own country I would meet the right lady at work or the social engagment. Now that I have retired to Thailand most of the lovely ladies I meet are in the bar for long time.

[goldenmile]

sorry bud,

u sound a bit like a poor Borat impersonator to me.......

[britmaveric]

Any thai mates bud? Perhaps they might set you up with someone??? Thai ladies are notorious matchmakers....

Edited November 28, 2006 by britmaveric

[Buckwheat]

Any thai mates bud? Perhaps they might set you up with someone??? Thai ladies are notorious matchmakers....

Yeah,

For a % of the final take!