stephen tracy Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 Dear OP, this thread shows the futility of asking advice on TV what to do with a relationship issue between a Western male and a Thai female. The vast majority of responses would indicate that they assume the woman in question is either a hooker or and/or a gold-digger, and maybe she is, I don't know. The fact is their response reflect who they are and what their experience with Thai women is. i.e., they equate Thai female with Thai hooker as that's all most of them know. Having said all that, you obviously invited her back for 3 nights or at least allowed her to stay, so you kind of made your bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whaleboneman Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 Tell her I'm on my way over with three midgets, a bearded lady and a cage full of gerbils and we're going to have a party on her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Deerhunter Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 We do not know your age or how experienced you are in these things, but.......in addition to what others have said, do NOT weaken and allow yourself to be conned into sex without condoms in the process of either getting her to leave or extending the time to see if she really is the one. Even, if like some of us older guys, you already had a vasectomy and a hepatitis vaccination course. The possibility of herpes or (less likely) HIV, still applies. Most other STD's are usually curable but herpes can really mess your life up. (Not from personal experience....................... yet!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vivasamui Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 4 hours ago, Bardeh said: I know this is outlandish, but I want you to entertain the idea anyway. You say 'I'm not ready for you to move in yet, we barely know each other. Let's see how things go before we take such a big step.' You know, communicate, like an adult does, with words. I think the issue is OP thought he could get free/cheap sex. The girl thought she found her Prince. Now it's time to pay up. If OP mans up and says he's not ready for her to move in, be prepared for slashed tires...or worse Bar girls are less complicated transactions :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HooHaa Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 18 minutes ago, vivasamui said: I think the issue is OP thought he could get free/cheap sex. The girl thought she found her Prince. Now it's time to pay up. If OP mans up and says he's not ready for her to move in, be prepared for slashed tires...or worse Bar girls are less complicated transactions :) why would that be the case? again, i have never had this misunderstanding and in 20 years the only woman who moved in was the mother of my child. ihave most certainly had sleep overs, some lasting 3 or 4 nights at a time, but i cant even imagine letting someone passive aggressively move into my space. perhaps you should attempt dating women with homes, careers and self esteem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
impulse Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 (edited) 43 minutes ago, The Deerhunter said: We do not know your age or how experienced you are in these things, but.......in addition to what others have said, do NOT weaken and allow yourself to be conned into sex without condoms in the process of either getting her to leave or extending the time to see if she really is the one. Even, if like some of us older guys, you already had a vasectomy and a hepatitis vaccination course. The possibility of herpes or (less likely) HIV, still applies. Most other STD's are usually curable but herpes can really mess your life up. (Not from personal experience....................... yet!) Sage advice. And remember, the highest paid, steadiest job available to a lot of Thai women is mother of some foreigner's kid. That's true in many places with huge financial disparity, but some of the cuties in Thailand are irresistible, too. Right up until they have what they want and don't need the sperm donor any more- they need the walking, talking yammering ATM. Edit: Though, in a lot of cases, they'd prefer you wire the child support money from far away. Far, far away. Edited November 2, 2016 by impulse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lemonjelly Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 Show her some bestialty websites and tell her you're just popping down to the soi dog rescue to adopt a dog and ask her what kind of dog would she prefer Sent from my twisted mind using Thaivisa Connect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deepinthailand Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 Or just stop trolling. cbbc is on now be a good boy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcfish Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 OP is not experienced. There are 4 types of girls, tattooed hooker, part time hooker, upmarket hooker going for the long shot payment, educated thai girl with university English. He has scored one of the hookers and needs to tell the skank to get out Sent from my SC-01D using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wazza1 Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 Bring over your friends and tell her that to stay she will have to "service" all of them, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biplanebluey Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 On 10/30/2016 at 6:00 PM, theguyfromanotherforum said: What's the issue? in the West, you'd most likely be happy if a girl accepted you pay her dinner and here it's a problem if a girl stays over? Who do we treat Thai women like trash? So, to answer your question, you can send her over to my place. YEA ---------- YOU BEAT ME TO IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johpa Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 Just invite another lass over and either she leaves or you double your fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracas Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 First you need to determine if she is Bi. Ask her. If the answer is yes, you're going to need a bigger bed. Your only concern will be if she wants to bring the "brother" over and he is also Bi. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcfish Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 First you need to determine if she is Bi. Ask her. If the answer is yes, you're going to need a bigger bed. Your only concern will be if she wants to bring the "brother" over and he is also Bi.And he will bring a bag for sure and OP Wil be sleeping on the lounge Sent from my SC-01D using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Autonuaq Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 Buy a nice suitcase one that is easy to handle. Pack all she has in a suite case and when she comes she will ask about her stuff. Then you say that you have put all things of her in a nice suite case so you can take is easier with you every time you come. She will not loose her face and you .... you will see if she comes back or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JHolmesJr Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 Tell her u like to butterfly...they rarely have a comeback for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 (edited) Insist on eating Indian food only and insist on anal intercourse. Never buy her anything or pay bills. Never smile. Borrow money off her. If that does not drive her away then she's a keeper-unless she's ugly. Edited November 2, 2016 by The manic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HerbalEd Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 It's actually very easy, but first you have to grow a pair of testicles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
212Roger Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 6 hours ago, HooHaa said: over 20 years in thailand and i have never had this issue. i wonder what im doing wrong? You've been lucky, so far. It can become a big problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
212Roger Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 2 hours ago, Wazza1 said: Bring over your friends and tell her that to stay she will have to "service" all of them, Better yet, bring home a ladyboy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 7 hours ago, 212Roger said: You've been lucky, so far. It can become a big problem. ploblem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
williamgeorgeallen Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 On 10/30/2016 at 8:04 PM, Cook my sock said: I don't think the OP is treating the lady like trash by not allowing her to stay ie move in Just you have friends from abroad staying once you start the cycle of lies it will only end badly. you will get caught out and it will probably turn nasty. better just to tell her you need some time alone and give her some cash to leave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deepinthailand Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 6 minutes ago, williamgeorgeallen said: once you start the cycle of lies it will only end badly. you will get caught out and it will probably turn nasty. better just to tell her you need some time alone and give her some cash to leave. It's his girlfriend why would he give her cash to leave ??? presuming again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louse1953 Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 Bring your mum over for a holiday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucifer666 Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 If you don't have the balls to tell her to leave, then you clearly don't have the maturity to be dating in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nosatisfaction Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 On 10/30/2016 at 5:09 PM, PoorSucker said: Ask to borrow money as you have none. or invite another girl in and let them sort, fight, it out together, just be careful all this might turn against you. by the way, this way of mooving in is normal for girls here., 555555555555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khon Kaen Dave Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 Just tell her that your LB girl friend is coming back from BKK and she wouldnt be best pleased. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HooHaa Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 13 hours ago, 212Roger said: You've been lucky, so far. It can become a big problem. 15 years ago it may have been luck. after that it was very definitely by design. spending time with women with jobs, interests and a modicum of self respect helps too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vivasamui Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 20 hours ago, HooHaa said: why would that be the case? again, i have never had this misunderstanding and in 20 years the only woman who moved in was the mother of my child. ihave most certainly had sleep overs, some lasting 3 or 4 nights at a time, but i cant even imagine letting someone passive aggressively move into my space. perhaps you should attempt dating women with homes, careers and self esteem. We're all guessing here, pending more juicy details, but the OP said 'girl' not 'girlfriend ' Please tell us how you to get women with their own homes and career (not hooker) who aren't your girlfriend to stay over (for sex). We would love to learn your lines. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HooHaa Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 (edited) 1 hour ago, vivasamui said: We're all guessing here, pending more juicy details, but the OP said 'girl' not 'girlfriend ' Please tell us how you to get women with their own homes and career (not hooker) who aren't your girlfriend to stay over (for sex). We would love to learn your lines. first of all the distinction is in the terms girls and women. second, women are women the world over, and the notion that Thai women are in any way puritans is ridiculous. Part of living in Thailand is the building up of a personal and professional network where you meet people with common friends and common interests. In these situations things happen. Im not sure why this is hard to comprehend. we are not living in 1950s thailand, times and mores change, though discretion is always appreciated. Edited November 3, 2016 by HooHaa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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