New Year's Eve Roundup

[pdimond]

With so many parties in Bangkok, which one will you choose?

I am looking for ideas for a New Years Party. My family is coming to visit me for the first time, and I'd like to impress them and show them a good time on their last night in the kingdom. One issue is that my little brother is 17- not of drinking age, but still well dressed and behaved. Can you recommend a somewhat classy party- perhaps with live music, dancing, and cocktails? I realise that there are thousands of parties that fit that description, but I am looking for a good example that would not object to an accompanied minor. Help? Anyone have ideas?