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laobali

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  1. Blame computer programmers who provide accounting systems that cannot round up or down to the nearest coin unit which in Thailand is 25 satang. Or allow for overpayment which shows as credit on the account. The nearest baht would be more sensible. Not even the banks do it. Lao shops usually give you candies to compensate for kips overpayment.

  2. Oh, just considered the ages. Is your partner 50 or 40? If 50, he could qualify on retirement status based on money in a Thai bank account. Much less maintenance than the education option. The minimum age for that is indeed 50.

    Going by the OP's name I would guess that he is 50 and the partner is 40. Not the other way round.

    Incredible !

    Not really. Guessing also that Sirius is 78 and that the OP mentioned the ages in the order 50, 40.

  3. Also, OP, if you are serious about learning to speak Thai, you should go ahead and learn to read it as well. Reading Thai and understanding how words are formed will help you immensely with your pronunciation.

    I feel incompetent at the moment. Your replies make me feel this way. I will try to read Thai at a later time. Now I just want to talk. But when I listen to Thais talk it seems like a losing battle. Throw in the slang they have and I'm in big trouble since I do want to know what they are talking about.

    But in many cases they don't want you to know.

  4. Having spent most of the past fifteen years in Thailand and then Laos, I am not offended by being referred to as a farang (falang in Lao) unless it is obviously being used in a derogatory way. Compared to Thailand, In Laos there seems to be far less resentment of foreigners' perceived superiority in terms of education, worldliness etc; most are treated with respect.

    As far as the origin of the word is concerned, in Laos at least, as most foreigners in Laos in colonial days were French, it is from the word français (the adjective French) pronounced by Lao as 'falangsay', now shortened to falang. It's as simple as that.

  5. Why Thai/International companies don't spell check their adverts.

    Too lazy I say, as they relay on the advert folks to do it for them, that's their job right, wrong, it is the Companies Job to get it right.

    because they don't know how to spell it correctly and their target group can't read/ understand it anyway- though who cares?

    Just as well you're not a proof-reader for one of said 'Companies'.

  6. To the OP:

    In my 25 years of living here and coming to Thailand since 1979, I Would say that part of the answer is based on a developed mentality and or attitude amongst the Thais.

    To the average Thai, what harm is there having the dogs roaming around on the street while dog poop and mangy flea infected, health hazard dogs are the last thing on their minds as only a Farang would notice this problem and actually point it out

    The other factor is they are all thinking alike where everyone is waiting for someone else to do something about the problem...that is after it becomes a problem, but the problem is not the problem itself rather the other people who make it a problem and force the problem upon them while making them help resolve the problem that was not a problem to be concerned about in the first place as there is not a problem to be addressed until someone else creates the problem by pointing out this or that is a problem ( but not to them or not their concern at all ) so the Thais react by saying: My Ba Lai ..which can often mean: What problem?, relative to the issue or conversation.

    They may or may not think: Oh yeah that could be a problem but not my problem so I did not ever notice that problem because that would not be my problem as that would be your problem or another persons problem because you noticed it and then you made an issue out of it and now made it into a problem, while I do not concern myself with such issues so it is not a problem rather you noticed the problem in the first place so now you should be the one to fix the problem because as a Thai person I have no problem living amongst the dog shit all over the place and the dogs howling and barking all the time and all too often fighting and dog packs randomly forming while many dogs are roaming about the street being a general nuisance and possible hazard while the last thing on my mind is fleas and ticks all over a mangy street dog while I have more important personal matters to attend to such as where is the nearest local Som Tom stand.

    Geez ..only a farang would notice this sort of stuff.

    The dogs are the problem and not myself as a Thai person so why are you talking to me about this as you should use your brain a little bit here and try to understand Thai people and how they think, the Thai way that is ( why?...because your here in Thailand, that is why...Duh ) so I think the best solution ( that is if you want my Thai opinion ) is to go to where the dogs are a problem and have a heart to heart talk with the dogs themselves and let them know you are not happy about this problem they are causing.

    If you need an interpretor or someone to help make yourself understood I can come along as they may not understand your English, as they are Thai dogs.

    Meantime, Jai Yen Noi.

    Ditto for Laos, also a "Buddhist" country. There is no problem until someone decides there is one. But it's their problem alone. They have to deal with it (mentally). No one else cares. If they try to make it someone else's problem, that becomes a different kind of problem!

  7. Quite a bit of good advice offered above, in my opinion. It's unrealistic to think that a village girl could adapt and be happy in such a different environment. Without your continuous presence, what is she likely to endure living in the UK other than "... long hours in what for her would be a completely foreign/unfriendly/boring/lonely/isolated environment....." - not to mention the weather. No family, no friends, no one to share her real Thai persona with. Buying, preparing and eating the food she has always been used to and other daily routines, impossible to emulate in a Western environment.

    Secure your future financially where you can do it best - in the UK. Take her to visit by all means, but pretty pointless if you have to be at work during the day. What will she do on her own? Leave her in the village until you can come back and take a Thai holiday for a couple of months at a time, and try to plan something for future years, including children, but they will be better off in many ways being brought up by her family. I don't think there's a realistic alternative for your own circumstances right now.

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