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My marriage is heading south. Dont know what to do.
soalbundy replied to advancebooking's topic in Marriage and Divorce
No, I was obviously fitter at 40 when I had all my own teeth but I still weigh the same 68 kilos but at 75 I still clamber on the roof to clean the rain gutters and go for long walks at 5 in the morning, genetically lucky. What I meant was my mental state; I feel more confident, at peace, grateful, I have made all my mistakes in the past but regret non of them and the future doesn't concern me, it is causal and beyond my control, ("there are paths that guide our way; rough hew them how we may"). it is as it is; I observe what happens with detachment; I am on the stage but also in the audience. I don't expect to reach 85, if I would then no doubt physical ailments would appear but that is a concern of the body and the 'me' that thinks it's real (even now). There is comfort in the inevitability of what will happen eventually. -
I think Iām having a nervous breakdown.
soalbundy replied to bob smith's topic in Health and Medicine
Dry you out. The booze is just making things worse. We have all gone through difficult situations, life throws us challenges. You have only 3 possibilities, change the situation, leave the situation, accept the situation. Remember, no good or bad situations last forever. The stoic philosophical Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius once said, "You have power over your mind - not outside events, realize this and you will find strength". He also said, "Alter the things that you can and accept those you can't"; good advice. I wish you well. -
My marriage is heading south. Dont know what to do.
soalbundy replied to advancebooking's topic in Marriage and Divorce
You're right, nothing does, life is movement and change but it's important just to observe it and not take it personally, it isn't for anybody....it just is. -
My marriage is heading south. Dont know what to do.
soalbundy replied to advancebooking's topic in Marriage and Divorce
It isn't that easy, an epiphany doesn't come from reading a few books, I have been engaging with the 'hard problem' of brain and consciousness (how can something physical like the brain produce something non physical like the mind.....it can't) for almost thirty years. It starts with the feeling that something isn't quiet right. spiritual teachers often recommend reading Advaita Vedanta, a corner stone of the worlds oldest religion, Hinduism, I consider that too difficult to begin with. I would recommend watching some YouTube programs from the cognitive scientist Donald Hoffman about the illusion of reality and the end of spacetime as a basis for reality and go from there. An interesting documentary on YouTube is, 'is consciousness primary' by metaRising, they produce some good documentaries on the subject. Tony Parsons (YouTube) has some very radical views which are difficult to grasp for a beginner, he has written several books, his first is quite short, 'The open secret' which he wrote after having a spontaneous awakening while walking through a park in London where he realized that not only did he not exist but had never done so and for a few seconds he was the trees, the grass, the dogs etc. here my favorite excerpt:- "There is no me or you, no seeker, no enlightenment, no disciple and no guru. There is no better or worse, no path or purpose, and nothing that has to be achieved. All appearance is source. All that apparently manifests in the hypnotic dream of separation ā the world, the life story, the search for home, is one appearing as two, the nothing appearing as everything, the absolute appearing as the particular. There is no separate intelligence weaving a destiny and no choice functioning at any level. Nothing is happening but this, as it is, invites the apparent seeker to rediscover that which is . . . the abiding, uncaused, unchanging, impersonal silence from which unconditional love overflows and celebrates. It is the wonderful mystery." At first I rejected it, only much later I came to see the truth in it, anyway, good luck. -
My marriage is heading south. Dont know what to do.
soalbundy replied to advancebooking's topic in Marriage and Divorce
No pain. My mental attitude towards life and death has changed enormously for the better over the years by privately studying the philosophy behind Buddhism and Hinduism and listening to physicists on YouTube such as Donald Hoffman and Thomas Campbell. I now appreciate that consciousness is the primary factor in the cosmos and that spacetime is just an interface for the manifestations of consciousness, after that comes the realization that all occurrences happen in the space of me but not to or for me. Basically we are the absolute but there is no you or me.......not everyone's cup of tea but it works for me. -
My marriage is heading south. Dont know what to do.
soalbundy replied to advancebooking's topic in Marriage and Divorce
Can't agree, at 75 I have never felt better. -
Deputy PM Prawit denies nap claims, insists he was just grounded
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
Listening to his watch ticking. -
Thailandās tourism confidence slides amidst global economy concerns
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
Thailand has finally smelt the coffee, money is short everywhere throughout the world, average families are in a world of pain, no thoughts on exotic holidays. -
To quote Mark Twain again, "If elections changed anything they wouldn't be allowed". The establishment doesn't take a beating lying down. Wongsuwan is probably the worst possible choice for Thailand but, like civil unrest, that wont faze the establishment as long as the machinery of corruption remains in their hands. There is hope that the civil servants, foot soldiers and other political parties will regard this attempt as too brazen even for Thai politics but scum has the propensity to swim to the top of dirty water.
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Thai tourism revises goal to ā5 million Chinese touristsā in 2023
soalbundy replied to snoop1130's topic in Thailand News
It's more to do with high unemployment in China off late. Western firms are leaving China in droves, people with university degrees working as janitors, the mortgage debacle hasn't been resolved and according to one article on Youtube China has misrepresented its GDP to the tune of 16 trillion Dollars, the Chinese are not happy campers. I doubt they will get a million to come here. -
Thailand, UK strengthen ties towards strategic economic partnership
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
and the national debt along with inflation -
Thailand, UK strengthen ties towards strategic economic partnership
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
The UK probably wants cheap fruit for their food banks, the only organization on the island that is expanding. -
Pita didn't get a majority of the electorate, his party had the most votes out of all the parties contesting which is why his government would be a coalition of 8 parties I believe, a recipe for disaster. It was pretty obvious that the Senate would blackball him as he was too radical in their opinion, he should have kept quiet about some of his policies. Opening up the alcohol market was especially dangerous, there are a couple of very big players who would be against this, one of them is very influential.
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Thai police accused of demanding 500,000 baht from Kazakhstan suspect
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
The Thai lawyer was jealous, he was ripping off the thief for far less which was (forgive the word) legal but he is being egotistical, the immigration office has many more mouths to feed. -
Pattaya Police Pledge to be an Organization the Public Can Trust
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Pattaya News
So now they are low paid comedians, giggle while you scam. -
Naked British Man Goes Berserk in Pattaya Hotel
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Pattaya News
It's the thought of having to go back that does it, that would push my buttons. whatever this going to cost him dearly. -
Thailand to reduce visa approval time for Chinese tourists
soalbundy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
sounds a little desperate.