Scarpolo

inherited

Lets not confuse the OP

IF, big if,

he was there, and they were actually "together" then I would be the first one to say, helping a g/f with things is righteous indeed.

especially with how far the USDollar exchanges there in terms of rent and utlilites,

I would even say, $250 is nothing, and would willingly go forward, if it was my girlfriend, If I was the only one sliding inside of her, and if I was there to ensure the money wasnt going to her "brother"

there is a reason there is the rule of no money from overseas,

you OP, can not (over)see where it goes

thats the point here

no one I dont think would begrudge you, if you were there

but btw, I agree with these other guys,

thai women do not speak to this way to someone they respect

nature

I am constantly amazed by the naïvety of people oin this forum. Some of whom are even supposed to be, by their own statements, intelligent enough to be teachers.

Loathe as I am to use an 'Americanism', but please - wake up and smell the coffee.

Do they genuinely not notice the cultural differences between the rich West and the poor East?

There is a huge difference between wanting to help a 'real" girlfriend and not being a sap

This is a situation where he has been all over TV and ven went to Scott, the american in bangkok, and he is still not convinced.

She is demanding he send money, and throws a fit if he hesitates,

what that really means is,

she has already strapped it on, and is pissed because he keeps moving,

the OP should check to make sure that thing actually comes off

OP at 35 your teerak, contray to what you think most likely has a husband, EX-husband and maybe a few sprogs hidden away somewhere, she may be working in a job far away from hubby said sproggies....and is shagging anything she can get her hands on and she is looking for a cash cow to finance her life styles....and this is where you come in dear boy and possibly a few others on the hook....

Ask him when was the last time he had sex with her?

perhaps, never

smut

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You know it is rather sad that a lot of retirees pass away suddenly within six months of retirement.

It's true. You can google it.

nuff said

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I guess I'm doing OK then, I retired 12 years ago.

Well, good on ya, as the Aussies say.

Sociologists call it "cart horse syndrome" where, after 50+ years of work, the harness is taken off and a green pasture is in the offing, but the poor old thing withers and dies despite all efforts of friends and loved ones.

It is a comment on the false values and soul crushing nature of western society IMHO.

'nuff said

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it is also age specific,

I retired, very well off at 40, and spent the next 14 years partying, spending, traveling, etc.,

now at 54, I am a lot less rich, pretty tired, and bored beyond belief

you guys all realize that it is already too late,

this is now all about "face"

he will be "shamed" if he admits he is wrong,

he has been infected by "thainess"

and I gurantee you,

she is ugly

how do I know this without seeing her?

easy,

very pretty girls, "NEVER" have to ask

How do all you blokes so easily find women online? When I contact women, the talks go ok, then when I send my photo they suddenly go quiet??

kurnell,

how do you expect to get any reply at all, without a few pictures already on your profile page?

many, and I mean many of the girls I have met online have had mutliple pictures telling their story,

you cannot allow them to wander off thniking you look like George Clooney, or Richard Gere and then turn up looking like this guy:

The main advantage is being able to lie to yourself that you weren't number 47.

I dont get it?

it takes a person with good intent, and good internet communication skills

it also helps if you arent seeking cyber sex

This guy needs a porn channel at home to keep him busy.

He also wrote to Scott, the American in Bangkok, who wiped him clean off his windscreen in his reply.

What this guy doesnt understand is,

he is nothing to her, only what he can do for her.

but with all the reaching out he is doing,

he has probably already been sending her money, and wants us to help him justify his insanity.

ps.

hookers in american would cost less than what this girl is about to fleece him for,

and make no mistake,

he is the sheep and she is holding the sheers

I highly recommend www.thailovelinks.com. I met scores of great (non-prostitute) Thai girls/women there ... including my girlfriend of ten months and soon-to-be wife.

There is a broad mix of women on the site: Most are non-prositite Thais and many of them are so beautiful, sexy and cute. There are also a few pros ... and a few non-Thai scammers (usually West Africa or Malaysian). However, TTL is very well managed (in Australia) and it's easy to report a bad woman and get her banned from the site. I did it to 4 of them.

Almost all of the legitimate Thai ladies are looking for a significant long term relationship ... preferably a husband, or at least a guy who is going to "take care."

If you actually are serious about finding a good Thai woman on TLL then you really gotta work at it hard and smart ... which the only way I know of being successful at anything worthwhile and attaining anything of real value. Over a period of about four months I spent one to several hours almost every day working TLL. It has a pretty good search engine and by using it systematically you can eliminate a lot of what you don't want and maximize your chances of finding what you do.

I met sooo many women I had to set up a small database to keep them straight. But even then I literally couldn't keep up with them all and so I started being super picky with my search criteria and immediately rejected them if they didn't fit my desired profile. I met (on-line), messaged, skyped, and phone chatted with about 200, and actually physically met, dated, and more about 20.

They were 18 to 35 y.o. ... all beautiful, and a few scorching hot ... with a broad array of backgrounds: including grade school, high school and university teachers; a medical doctor; nurses and nursing students; university and law students; international purchasing agent for a large Thai company; an accountant; chef and restaurant owner; beauty shop and women's clothing store owners; a jeweler; personal assistant to a CEO; etc., etc.

To attract lots of hits you need to write a great profile saying exactly what they want to hear ... and to know that you need to read hundreds of their profiles. I refined and rewrote mine a dozen times. And you need to post some nice, neat, smiley-face photos of yourself.

Actually I could teach a course and write a manual on how to maximize using TLL.

The same company that created and manages TLL also has Malaysia LL, Philippines LL, Ghana LL, Vietnam LL, and many more.

Good luck with your search.

How are they on the ladyboys?

You would marry someone you have only known for 10 months? What a mistake.

Several hours a day searching on the Internet in a country where all you have to do is step outside your door and can you can easily meet 2 or 3 girls a day.

I doubt you met any M.D.'s on some cheesy dating website. Some of you people are full of it.

not always a mistake

I met a fellow from England at a pub in bkk,

He had with him, a stunning thai woman,

very well dressed, very exotic,

owned her own jewelry store,

she was very attractive, to the point, I had to stop looking at her

He was not your every day well educated, highly intelleuctual guy, but he was good looking, built like a wall and kindness flowed from his words.

they met on Badoo

groove

www.plentyoffish.com

this is the best place to meet a good thai grl

The only problem with POF is that the owner has taken it upon himself to impose his own tastes upon everyone else. That is ... you can't search for anyone more than 10 years younger than yourself.

change your age ?

once registered on many sites, they do not allow the age change,

I find though,

it is often better to have them find you.

Good day to you all,

I have a thaifriendly.com free account, and couple of days back I sadly found that to send any messages I have to upgrade to premium. Before I could send 1 message every 10 minutes, and it was enough for me.

Does anyone else have this problem?

I sent email to tf, but no reply

it is still 1 every 10 minutes,

just refresh your browser

www.plentyoffish.com

this is the best place to meet a good thai grl

hey, thanks for mentioning POF,

I created a profile there last year before I went to Thailand and forgot all about it,

so now back in florida it is probabky the best service for me to use

Matched.com I found good too, BUT, they all wanted to find a husband, or, were pro's,

nothing in between for me

Thai Friendly is great, but you have to be patient,

I find the one's that have trouble with english and say they are sorry about it, and are pretty are always the best

I also use Tagged, it is another, have to be patient,

and seriously, not try to screw them on the internet

make a friend,

thats what they seek,

they can screw anyone, including their bedpole

remember that,

they want to feel safe

pry

you pay more w baht

Mango and sticky-rice

tart

dessert

frankly, in the bkk area, I found it too damned hot to do anything

I havent followed the pound since the 80's, how does it fare against the EURO and how on earth can it ever do poorly against the baht?