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Scarpolo

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  1. I always thought (I am 66) that young, very attractive Thai ladies sought us older men because of our maturity, caring nature, handsome looks, politeness, caring in the bedroom. Of course, a little $$$ would be a huge bonus!

    Gee, thanks guys, in LOS, one learns every day!

    ARE YOU SURE ABOUT THIS?

    I wasnt old enough to know,

    had a 54-32 ratio

    but think about it,

    does a 30 year old girl REALLY think a 66 year old guy is handsome?

    in Thailand, that is her grandfathers age, so, no, she doesnt

    does she want him to die?

    doubtful,

    will she move on, yes,

    they do that

  2. I can only speak from personal experience.Having met my wife in the U.S.,our situation is different from the typical farang/Thai marriage.We married based on compatibility and love.More than once when my own family turned their back on me,she has been there 100%.And I for her.When family health issues called for her to return to Thailand,I had no problem with it.And even though we`re not together year round as a result,we are still completely devoted to each other.She has been without any doubt,the best part of my life.

    I dont really get that, at all

    there is another guy who wrote a thread much like yours, whose wife also went back due to a family illness, and the last I heard his wife was buying tattoos among her trail of waste of his money, while he was scrimping along with 3 kids at home,

    he never said whose kids

    If you have been back and forth, you may have an IDEAL scenario, over a 20 month period, by 3 months, it adds up to more time in LOS than in US?

    I might like something liek that myself, but I dont want to get married, again, for that pleasure.

    It is interesting to hear a story like this,

    I believe it is possible, with the right woman, and meeting her in the US suggests she is partially westernized and speaks english,

    I think I am jealous

    She is partially westernized,and speaks English well.

    This is the 2nd marriage for both of us,and we have one beautiful daughter who is American born.

    And,other than being away from them both for extended periods,I am a happy man.

    it makes me want to google, thai exchange students in america, and apply for a semester!

  3. I can only speak from personal experience.Having met my wife in the U.S.,our situation is different from the typical farang/Thai marriage.We married based on compatibility and love.More than once when my own family turned their back on me,she has been there 100%.And I for her.When family health issues called for her to return to Thailand,I had no problem with it.And even though we`re not together year round as a result,we are still completely devoted to each other.She has been without any doubt,the best part of my life.

    I dont really get that, at all

    there is another guy who wrote a thread much like yours, whose wife also went back due to a family illness, and the last I heard his wife was buying tattoos among her trail of waste of his money, while he was scrimping along with 3 kids at home,

    he never said whose kids

    If you have been back and forth, you may have an IDEAL scenario, over a 20 month period, by 3 months, it adds up to more time in LOS than in US?

    I might like something liek that myself, but I dont want to get married, again, for that pleasure.

    It is interesting to hear a story like this,

    I believe it is possible, with the right woman, and meeting her in the US suggests she is partially westernized and speaks english,

    I think I am jealous

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  4. Clueless....funny man/woman.....living it. Be happy that you are ignorant about it.

    No idea what language your speaking but ignorant is something I am not.

    I am married to a Thai and I know plenty about the family system.

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    not sure what the reference is too,

    some are more brainwashed than others

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  5. Part of the reason I ask is I see and hear many ladies when their dad is sick or something happens, they quit their jobs, even dump their current bf and look for a local husband and go back home to look after them.

    And was wondering if their husband (faring or not) would get the same treatment

    The latest example I heard was a friends sister, she is middle to upper class girl who,s father had a stroke , dumped her fairly rich Thai bf, quit her job, and went and married a local Thai man who is apparently poor, all in a period of 6 months and moved back home town to look after him (mother is still alive and healthy too!)

    I was mighty impressed but was surprised how quickly she got married,

    I don't understand the point of this example. Are you saying she left a rich guy for a poor guy and this isn't standing by your man ?

    I also can't see a potentially upper class girl marrying a poor local Thai man.

    upper class?

    thats a joke, right?

    why would anyone assume the leaving the farange for the "poor" boyfriend, was spontaneous?

    is there a word between naive and dense?

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  6. Part of the reason I ask is I see and hear many ladies when their dad is sick or something happens, they quit their jobs, even dump their current bf and look for a local husband and go back home to look after them.

    And was wondering if their husband (faring or not) would get the same treatment

    The latest example I heard was a friends sister, she is middle to upper class girl who,s father had a stroke , dumped her fairly rich Thai bf, quit her job, and went and married a local Thai man who is apparently poor, all in a period of 6 months and moved back home town to look after him (mother is still alive and healthy too!)

    I was mighty impressed but was surprised how quickly she got married,

    I don't understand the point of this example. Are you saying she left a rich guy for a poor guy and this isn't standing by your man ?

    I also can't see a potentially upper class girl marrying a poor local Thai man.

    probably dumped the white guy for the high school sweet (talker)

    she'll be sorry,

    the white guy was lucky it happened before she broke him completely

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  7. One thing in the west is of way lesser significance than in Thailand. The influence of the family on your partner. In the west, in general, it is partner 1st (own choice) and then family. Here it is, in general, family 1st, blood, then partner.

    i think you missed quite a few in the thai lineup lets just say, the father the son and the holy ghost that 2 plus a few million, then there is the whole police force thats a million or two then there is the tuk tuk mafia, then most govt employers both local and national then after that you might get a look in.

    Didnt want to put ik like that.

    not sure what all that means.

    the girl I knew was from the north,

    all she talked about was, mom, mom, mom,

    if mom gets old,

    if mom gets sick,

    I want my family happy,

    goodbye was my reply

    this is their culture,

    to marry in to that?

    insanity

  8. No man should marry a woman if he thinks along the line their maybe a possible chance that she'll leave in circumstances like the OP. Too many Farang men get married early that are still in the 'glamour' stage of the relationship.

    stay together with your significant other 5 yrs prior to marriage, and you will know if she will stick around until 'death do us part'.

    TRUE faithfulness - loyalty - Love are characteristics only few possess sad.png

    6 montths is long enough,

    marriage past 40, is a mistake. period.

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