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Scarpolo

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  1. actually,

    what you wrote, is what qualifies me,

    you just dont like the opinion

    I had more thai women tell me they loved me after knowing me for less than a month, then is worth describing, and there werent prostitutes,

    unless they were and didnt reveal it.

    I did notice some of the prostitutes dont actually believe they are prostitutes,

    they just call it "working"

    to believe any of them, after seeing that just a little kindness was valued that high, showed me, they have a valuation problem there,

    if this werent true,

    there wouldnt be skin whitening clinics popping up all over bkk

    lol! skin whitening clinics are no different than tanning parlours in the west. in fact, you have had NO CLOSE MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS WITH THAI WOMEN, consider their culture strange and as such are really unqualified to generalize about their suitability as spouses.

    nonsense

    tanning booths are for people too lazy to sit in the sun

    skin whitening is for people whp are desperate to permanently look different because they dont feel valued the way they are

    I know plenty of thai people,

    male and female

    married, divorced, single, etc.

    I dont have experience being married to a thai, and wont

    and why do they feel the need to have brown skin? you will never get a chance to gain anything more than the shallow understanding of the culture that you continue to demonstrate here. so save your generalizations on things of which you have so little understanding.

    the sun is a requirement for healthy vitamin d absorption as well as necessary for the brain

    receiving the full spectrum under the closed eyelids is known to stimulate brain function and good health overall

    tanning beds do neither, but they are temporary, fading in days

    skin bleaching, using acids that scar, botox ads all over thailand,

    are signs of diseased thinking

  2. actually,

    what you wrote, is what qualifies me,

    you just dont like the opinion

    I had more thai women tell me they loved me after knowing me for less than a month, then is worth describing, and there werent prostitutes,

    unless they were and didnt reveal it.

    I did notice some of the prostitutes dont actually believe they are prostitutes,

    they just call it "working"

    to believe any of them, after seeing that just a little kindness was valued that high, showed me, they have a valuation problem there,

    if this werent true,

    there wouldnt be skin whitening clinics popping up all over bkk

    lol! skin whitening clinics are no different than tanning parlours in the west. in fact, you have had NO CLOSE MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS WITH THAI WOMEN, consider their culture strange and as such are really unqualified to generalize about their suitability as spouses.

    nonsense

    tanning booths are for people too lazy to sit in the sun

    skin whitening is for people whp are desperate to permanently look different because they dont feel valued the way they are

    I know plenty of thai people,

    male and female

    married, divorced, single, etc.

    I dont have experience being married to a thai, and wont

  3. actually,

    what you wrote, is what qualifies me,

    you just dont like the opinion

    I had more thai women tell me they loved me after knowing me for less than a month, then is worth describing, and there werent prostitutes,

    unless they were and didnt reveal it.

    I did notice some of the prostitutes dont actually believe they are prostitutes,

    they just call it "working"

    to believe any of them, after seeing that just a little kindness was valued that high, showed me, they have a valuation problem there,

    if this werent true,

    there wouldnt be skin whitening clinics popping up all over bkk

    they dont even value their own faces, preferring to use acids to burn their faces just to be "accepted" by some unreachable class

  4. I have experience similar problems with Thai, and if he has decided for the hell you will get very big problem. You also get no support from the mother, he will take her party and then he becomes your enemy and you will never succeed. He feels certain that now that the mother has a (rich) farang husband so he does not go to school or work and it is your duty to supply him with money. When Thai gets angry, it usually error in the brain office and then anything can happen, so be careful and keep an eye on what he does but it is not so easy. Sometimes it is better to escape before someone destroys one's life! I myself regret that I have not pulled me out much earlier!

    people don't get it

    these problems are not fixable

    no female is worth losing one's entire structural life for

    I would rather have a cold guitar

    lessons learned, the very hard, expensive way

    there is a reason there is a rule to never enagage a single mother

    I knew the rule and violated it

    it has cost me millions

    I have to fight for the future now, whereas it was in the bag, before I made that near fatal error

    not to say there werent times of great happiness,

    however,

    that fades,

    this is serious, and the kid will bring the relationship down,

    that is his job, and you are the enemy

    if he plays video games, then he is being desensitized to violence

  5. Just carry money with you wherever you go and you'll be fine. No need to get married,

    doesnt make any sense to marry in thailand

    there is a low value placed on people there,

    its hard to understand, and we will never know what they truly think because of their "face" culture

    why it isnt spelled "farce" is beyond me

    nonsense. you either have never been married to a thai or the one YOU married was a dud.

    neither

    I wont marry a girl in a strange culture, in a strange land,

    with families the size of small towns

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  6. Just carry money with you wherever you go and you'll be fine. No need to get married,

    doesnt make any sense to marry in thailand

    there is a low value placed on people there,

    its hard to understand, and we will never know what they truly think because of their "face" culture

    why it isnt spelled "farce" is beyond me

  7. radio power man from canada

    I cannot agree with your advice

    buying things for a kid that doesnt like or respect you, or respect his mother, just wastes money, they do not appreciate it, and feel you owe them everything, and they owe you nothing

    this sounds like a depressed kid, and one headed to bring more trouble to bear than the mother's value

    this is a run situation,

    this only gets worse

    there is a reason the father left

  8. NO .when the money runs out so do they ,like a shot into the sunset to their secret thai bloke that you didnt know about .AKA their brother

    speak for yourself

    my european bred, brazilian born hi-society closet slutt, not only ran, but caused me more trouble than I ever imagined one scorned woman could or would ever cause, just so she could save face after I cut her off and refusedd to spend another dime on her,

    no thai woman will ever be that vengeful

  9. I am sure most will agree,

    this relationship is doomed,

    the question is

    what will it ultimately cost you?

    my guess is,

    MUCH more than you think,

    maybe your life,

    all of your money,

    possibly your freedom,

    you have only begun to scratch the surface of the problems you are about to encounter

    sadly,

    you have a g/f that maybe you love

    maybe she loves you

    she surely loves her son,

    you can only lose

    how much is the only answer

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  10. the serbia post was an example,

    examples are useful to some, and not others.

    anyone who looks at any thread will see there is generally a great disparity between the amount of view (lurkers, readers) vs posters

    there is also, a block feature

    I have been primarily posting about the ingoing earthquakes in ghe immediate vicinity, and, there have been a deluge of 6.0's worldwide,

    I believe they are related,

    no one else has too.

    one person doesnt like a posting, maybe two, maybe ten,

    only one raised a fuss.

    on this thread there are 28 readers to 1 poster

    just for perspective

  11. I did not meant to offend any one whit what i said VF...just wondered how any one living here right now can do it whit out thinking about the earth quakes and what can happen - and not make a plan for emergency.

    not sure if they will keep this up or not,

    but it is today, Serbia,

    many people displaced

    this is added to millions having their homes, wiped out

    its happening, a lot.

    people that are responsible for others should be awake,

    those that aren't responsible for others, do not need to care,

    this could be the other posters view, so, se lai vie

  12. Scarpolo

    Age is not a big thing re Thai ladies? Just another bonus! Will I choose a 60yo lady or a 30yo lass - all other things being =?

    I met my wife when she was 24. She is now old! 35 - her opinion of age. I am not old!(66).This is LOS - I don't understand - that is OK by me.

    So, I just carry on - do my best - & laughing!

    She takes care of me - I take care of her. We are living a myth - happy together!

    Pinch me - I am dreaming! BS - this is very real!

    I know,

    the girl I was with kept saying she was old (32)

    I didnt really understand it,

    I guess, they feel old, whereas we, may never

  13. I am not sure “stupid” is the most considerate word one could use, but you are entitled to your opinion, I guess. I certainly don’t fit in the category of “doomsday preppers” but I would never call those people stupid. Who knows, they may end up being right, but I have no intention of living that way.

    I live in south florida.

    We have a hurricane season every year.

    many years, we get nothing,

    some years, we get something,

    but,

    every time there is a major storm,

    the supermarkets are empty in one day,

    the hardware stores are emptied in one day,

    how does it hurt to always have a two week water supply, and a two week food supply?

    it is not that hard

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