It is the only way out, very difficult to try and explain.
When I first met my wife in 2005 she had traveled a bit but only in Asia and had the idea that the UK was the best country in the world.
Many years later and after several visits it is a different view altogether, ok for a holiday in the summer months but not to live.
Still finds it difficult to accept some of the things she has seen, like more people sleeping on the streets of Sheffield than you ever see here. The most recent was in May, having to travel on a train full of drunk football supporters.
Just says "how can that happen in your country."