Sorry if you took it to mean yourself! Herewith my reply to your post where you asked :-
"Proactive? I don't think you know what the word means"
I posted:-
"From "Vocabulary.com":-
Active means "doing something." The prefix pro- means "before." So if you are proactive, you are ready before something happens. The opposite is being reactive, or waiting for things to unfold before responding."
And my last sentence:-
"Don't know what the word means"? Correct!"
So I was in actual fact agreeing with you, but a certain poster began insinuating (in bad English!) that I needed a dictionary to get the definition, which was not the case, it was just to prove your/our point.
My apologies for any misunderstanding!