SoiBiker

White is, though.

4 minutes ago, LivinLOS said:

 

rac·ism

ˈrāˌsizəm/

noun

1. prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior.

   "a program to combat racism"

 

 

Your presumably meaning Misogyny or Male Chauvinism 

Interesting that you chose to ignore the second part of the Oxford Dictionary definition - 

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 The belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities, or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races

- which fits the kind of disparaging comments being made here about white women rather well. 

5 minutes ago, LivinLOS said:

 

Care to tell me why I'm wrong in using it?

More racism. 

It is an interesting discussion, once you skip past all the angry manchildren. 

8 minutes ago, TallGuyJohninBKK said:

 

And therein lies what I suspect is the main problem with a lot of the anti-farang-female male posters here.

 

They're carrying with them their past bad baggage from prior chapters of their lives, and then projecting that negativity onto members of the farang female expat community here, which is ill-will they had no part of and certainly don't deserve.

 

Well, guess what guys? You're the ones who picked those -- to repeat Canuckamuck's offensive term above -- "hardcore harpies" to become part of your personal lives, so how about owning up and taking responsibility for your own past bad decisions, and not going around blaming others who had nothing to do with it.

 

Or, maybe some guys had bad experiences with divorce and child care settlements in their home countries, and thus have a chip on their shoulders for farang women? Well, once again, who made the decisions to enter into marriage and have children with those women?  And who passed the laws in your home countries setting out divorce and child care provisions? Male-dominated legislative bodies did, more than likely.

 

So, to be fair, let's stop stereotyping entire segments of society here based on people's past life experiences with other people/women in other countries. Give a try to treating and judging people as the individuals they are, and not presuming to label/smear an entire segment of our community whose members, for the most part, you probably don't know and have fairly little direct experience with.

 

I find it interesting how many people are confident they know exactly what any western woman they happen to see is thinking. Mind readers? Or just projecting?

I think we're veering into racist territory now.

19 minutes ago, SaintLouisBlues said:

Some of us decided that having learned those things it just wasn't something we could be bothered doing

What a shame for you. I can't imagine disliking women so much I couldn't be bothered to talk to them.

9 minutes ago, Paul Catton said:

Perhaps all boys (occidental) without exception should be instructed in "gynocentric etiquette".

Catch them when they are young for attitude readjustment.

Feminism 101, Success.

 

I am an egalitarian, feminism was debunked with the white feather campaign and the Titanic disaster.

 

I do not hide behind anonymity, my avatar is authentic and I say to the OP and followers; get real.

 

You only have one life, most of mine in adulthood we're false ups and downs in an occidental relationship destined to failure.

 

 

 

 

Some of us grew up knowing how to talk to women and treat them as equals. I pity anyone that needs lessons to do something as simple and fundamental as that.

4 minutes ago, Kaalle said:

What are you suppose to do in all honesty?

 

"Excuse me Sir, might I inquire about a particular subject pertaining to.."

 

"Allai na?"

Learn some Thai.

There are more female expats than you might think. I guess they don't hang out in the same places you do.

11 minutes ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

This from somebody who cant even remember less than 7 days ago!.As i said you was the one that contacted me first.i told you in Pm that it would be a good idea if we simply ignored each other,But you couldnt let it go.You are one of these,"i must have the last word" type. Well thats a very childish side to your Id.(look it up if you dont know what Id means) so bring it on SB,you'll get no rise from me. And yes it is nearly lunch time,shouldnt you be calling your only friend to meet up for your weekly visit to the pharmacy for your meds.

I just checked. It seems you PMed me angrily back in April last year for some reason, and I replied that if you didn't like my posts, you didn't have to read them. That advice still stands.

Weird that you're still talking about it nine months later, though. What's that all about?

Was that in this thread?

You'll have to excuse me. I don't pay as much attention to you as you obviously do to me.

You're already this angry and it's barely lunchtime? That can't be healthy.

Well, it would if it worked properly!

12 minutes ago, SoiBiker said:

Considering that my last post in this thread was five months ago, you might want to give me a little more to work on.

 

Or you could just continue being obstinate, and the conversation will likely go nowhere. I guess it's up to you how you waste your time.

Try using the quote feature. It makes it much easier for people to understand what you're ranting incoherently about.

I think some guys would prefer women not to have opinions at all - or at least not to make them feel uncomfortable by voicing them here in their safe space.

Considering that my last post in this thread was five months ago, you might want to give me a little more to work on.

Or you could just continue being obstinate, and the conversation will likely go nowhere. I guess it's up to you how you waste your time.

I used to be an androphobe. Then I met an Andrew, and realised they're not so scary after all.

It might help if you indicated which one somehow, then.

Were you replying to any post in particular there?

4 minutes ago, jpinx said:

Nice but the same recipe applies.  If you don't like the scenery, move.  I come back to this thread for entertainment, but if it annoyed me as much as it appears to annoy some posters, I'd just ignore it  :)  The start of this conversation was - to put it mildly - very obscure, and I believe has been edited whilst the conversation goes on, so it's a bit tricky to know who's complaining about what.

I thought the OP made her initial point quite clearly - not sure where the confusion comes from.

1 hour ago, jpinx said:

Of course not - unless the woman wants me to have issues so that she has something to complain about.

Many years ago my mother told me not to bother with complaining women, they are attention-seeking but ultimately unsatisfiable.

There is a world full of good people who accept that they are in control of their lives and they can change it to avoid the worst of the annoyances that come up.  If you don't like where you are in your life, move it around and get happy. 

It's all about projections -- complaining this much without taking action is a clear indicator of a person who *enjoys* being miserable. :)

Thaivisa. Where men can moan endlessly about a country that for some reason they insist on remaining in, but a woman can't start a conversation without being told to stop complaining.

1 minute ago, daveAustin said:

Op - if this is genuine and you're really a woman - you sound complicated, confused, annoyed and difficult. This unapproachable, entitled me-me-me persona and disdain for males in general is what puts men off western females and a major reason more western men are seeking out real, easy going Asian women who know how to treat a man (not necessarily talking prostitutes).

 

In short, it is likely those that have shown you open hostility have had to deal with all that garbage in their previous life. For those that do fancy you; what’s the big deal, you already said you were attractive, what do you expect? It’s akin to the reaction of a stunning woman that gets all dolled up and shows herself off only to castigate a man for eyeing them. If you’re that prissy type, I'd just ignore anyone that gets in your sphere and keep to myself.

 

I get on well with western women here, but admit am standoffish to strangers for the above reasons – they might think I’m coming on to them and wouldn’t want them flattering themselves. I’m fairly decent (still young-ish) and don't have trouble in charming women of either culture, but find I have little time for all that nowadays even when back in my home country. All that = complicated, entitled, difficult.

 

Moral: I think you should lighten up, don't be so annoyed western men fancy Asian women, and just be thankful men are paying you any attention to you at all, or perhaps try out a more suitable pasture. 

If the content of your post is any guide, you're not quite as charming to women as you might think.