Kenny202

Not in Thailand. Not the first woman I have met had more than 2 or 3 kids and body slim and pristine, as was hers. They are natural breeders.

How do you know I didn't spend time with her family, respect her / them, I am impatient or didn't get to know her? Or you just assume you are a bit smarter than everyone else with your motherly advice? How do you roll back any of the few (not all) horror stories I mentioned? Did you not read I lived with her 2 years before coming here to live. We cant all be the big bwana of the village (lol), respected and adored by all. I am surprised you didn't throw in a few Thai words and mention learning the language sure helps

No, I see your point and have considered that. It is a bit hard to discuss with them what qualifies as portability after 2 years if you are on the other hand trying to convince them you are returning as a full resident with no intention of going back to live overseas. Still far away for me atm but am interested in any feedback on this. Or do you mean you need a proper residential address to apply for the dole / pension in the first instance? Seems odd they would expect you to have a fully rented / owned residence for someone really down on their luck when you are trying to live on the paltry pension which wouldn't allow you to live in a normal rented place. I believe you can use a son or daughters address or think I have read it here? Any feedback or personal experience welcome

Well as I found out more about her history after I got here it was apparent she had already had a roller coaster of horror story of a life. 3 other abandoned kids I didn't know about to different fathers failed marriages (she was 28 yo) And I am not the trusting naive type either. Just impossible to do full due diligence when you don't speak Thai and someone is a habitual, professional liar. One of the causes of instability once I got here and lived in her village. She had too many skeletons / bad stories kicking around and was constantly ill at ease. I could tell immediately she wasn't well liked or respected by anyone. She had lost face long ago and was ashamed alright.... but had nothing to do with me. And what caused the behavioral issues? I would say a feeling there was no need for the act any more

I think there are even Thai websites / agents that will bid on your behalf...arrange shipping, give estimate tax / delivery costs etc Would appreciate any info. My ex missus used to buy stuff this way for her used baby goods shop, but I never found out how or where she was doing it

I had the idea that if I do go back (in 5-7 years time) I would long term rent a caravan / cabin on the beach or river somewhere in a holiday town on the east coast. The beach and fishing will keep me busy. Not even sure if you can do this anymore or if the rents are even cheap? I been away for 10 years.

She was a total psycho as well lol. I really hit the jackpot...and funny had known her a year then lived with her a year back home no real problems at all. Trouble all started the day I came to live in Thailand. I often read guys horror stories on hear and think to myself mine is the mother of all horror stories. It taught me no matter how long you know them they can turn on you at anytime. I would never invest on one or put any area of my life in a Thai woman's hands again

For a man it is. I'm living proof of that...

My first one got preggas 3 months HIV test she was positive...I thought I must have given it to her, innocent little village thing she was. Week later I tested negative. She was banging the guy accross the road while I was away. I got to know someone in the clinic and apparently rife in the area and most people don't know until its too far gone. Thai village women seem to have very little concern for contraception or safe sex. The hospital or infected person are also under no legal obligation to inform partners / spouses. She has been working in bars last 4 years. No fecks given. There is a darker side to infidellity apart from hurt feelings and probably a lot worse diseases than HIV these days which is more treatable than some. If I would have contracted it I would have had to leave Thailand. At the time the meds were around 20k a month

It means uncle and is a mark of respect. Think yourself lucky. My missus calls me ouen (fatso)

Paypal are the worst of the lot for internal fraud. I spent a long worrying week trying to get $3000 back off them. Hadn't used Paylal or ebay for 2 years. Was an internal issue, woman even admitted it. What is concerning is how nearly impossible it is to contact these faceless companies during a crisis

If it comes by Thai post, Flash etc driver wont let you open the package before you pay...or have you had a different experience?

Having two school aged kids and experiencing the Thai govt education system first hand, I can't imagine it could get worse. Apart from the 1950s curriculum....I would say the most corrupt fiefdom of all. Teachers generally uncaring and arrogant. Unmanned crossings outside primary schools...impossible to walk on sidewalks anywhere near schools due to people selling junk food candy and toys, who I imagine are kicking up rent to someone. Teachers themselves sometimes have their own little set ups in the classroom selling kids crap. Newly graduated teachers need to pay a huge "tuition" fee to pass the govt teachers exam and work in a govt school. And like someone said...look at the end result. It is beyond belief

My Thai friend who is pretty IT savvy says the biggest source of fraud in Thailand ATM is QR code scanning. best avoided if possible unless a large company...say when checking out at Big C, Makro etc. Never scan a QR code with a private seller or such....these are the big cases where peoples accounts are instantly drained. Thailand initiating some big case against FB atm moment saying there were 10 billion baht of fraud cases per year in Thailand due to lack of checks and balances

I don't think a trader on Lazada would have access to your card details unless you paid direct with them. All details of the transaction are done through Lazada themselves. I hate using my phone for any transactions like this and would much prefer to use a computer for online banking, purchases etc....but many of these entities (particularly banks) now are deleting their online trading functions saying computers are less secure than smartphones and encouraging you to install their apps. May or may not be the case but I do know once you install their app you are bombarded with spam and advertising everyday. I recently bought a new TV and same deal...told I needed to install their app to register the product and receive extended warranty. Turns out my model doesn't qualify for ext warranty but I now get 3 emails and notifications a day. I guess it is cheap and direct advertising for them. Like I said, I think all this will get worse before it gets better and seems to be coming less and less regulated. I noticed it got worse during covid, like the world was looking the other way and it was a free for all. Re COD be careful....Biggest red flag for me. These are the predominant online sales scams for the last couple of years...even on Lazada. I been caught twice now. Once I received a box of rags and the other a box of rusty old bolts. Online private sellers on FB marketplace etc it is rife but you find it on Lazada and co also. The supplier says in their advert COD. What they do is accept your payment on Lazada then do a refund. Then they send the product....or usually a pale shadow of what you wanted. You cant ask for a refund off Lazada as you already received a refund. And if you go back to do a bad review etc the seller has already cancelled that product / account and created a new one. Many people don't realize when you receive a COD item, you don't get to inspect the goods first. You simply hand over the money and receive your parcel. Driver drives off...you open your box and you realize you were done. Often you do receive "a product" similar to what you ordered but not the real / correct thing, which would be around 2-5% the value of the actual thing you ordered. This is so if there is any backlash they can simply say they made a mistake. Usually item under 2000 baht so not worth filing a report, as if anything would happen anyway. My Mrs did make a police report once on a private marketplace seller got us for 3000 baht. They told us her bank accounts would be frozen and she would be blacklisted from any govt offices etc. She did indeed have her bank accounts frozen as she sent us a message asking us to reverse the charge. Usual BS story...sick child in hospital, no hab choi...Anyway, we never received the money back and seemingly was never followed up. The bank did have a copy of the police report and did freeze her account but I suspect she talked her way out of it somehow

What's more concerning is how whomever it was got enough of your details to do the purchase or withdrawal. Was only saying to the mrs this morning back in the day any personal details you had were either in your wallet or safely at home. These days have google, FB and co sucking your every detail and thought and its all out there floating around in some imaginary world. And while these large cyber companies say they are to be trusted, how can they guarantee the integrity of their 1000's of employees. I fear it will get much worse before it will get better. Its strange they took such a paltry amount unless it was a first run tester? Doesn't really make sense

I am not saying that at all, or trying to use anything as a defense. I am saying most people who had decent retirement funds and were cashed up wouldn't suffer the inconvenience of going back to Australia to live for 2 years so they could get a pittance of a pension every month. Most returnees I imagine would just about be out of money and maybe just enough to get through the 2 years. Who is going to have a bottomless pit of money or the inclination to live in Australia for further time and fight legal cases if their intention all along was so they could come back and live on their pension in Thailand? From what I understand as long as you don't say / do anything stupid their should be no problem getting portability after 2 years. As usual plenty of dooms dayers on here (misery loves company) trying to spread fear and then they become the savior

I take it you are from the US? You might want to bare in mind usually people going back to Australia to do their 2 year stretch are very penny conscious, may be on the last legs of their available funds / savings. In fact just to live in Australia for the 2 year waiting period will be a huge expense in itself compared to living in Thailand. It is very unlikely people are going to want to hang around for an indefinite period after the 2 years waiting for a judgement...let alone foot the legal costs of same. I assume most would have to take their medicine and take the judgement of powers that be. Keeping that in mind I believe the government are very averse to bad press regarding pensioners so who knows. I have followed threads about this topic for the last 5 years and guys have repeatedly said....DO NOT mention you are only staying for the 2 years and leaving...no matter how nicely they ask you. As far as you are concerned at that moment you are back for the duration and have every intention on spending your last years in Aus. they can not prove otherwise unless you have done something very obvious to openly show otherwise. The whole idea of portability and the 2 year wait is obviously so you can go and live in another country or they wouldn't have such a law. The decision to go and live in other said country has to be made after the two years....like I wouldn't have flights / transport etc prebooked showing intent. I myself wouldn't go back unless I was 200% sure the outcome was going to be portability after 2 years and from memory haven't heard anyone who said they were denied after the 2 years...only people who had been in and out of the country for a considerable amount of time during the 2 years. Only ever heard "I knew a guy / 2nd / 3rd hand stories. Anyone on here or in this thread personally been denied portabillity?

Why give advice like this if u don't know? Unless a commercial unit fridges and freezers don't have fans or "coolers" whatever you meant by that? Tge freezer itself is a cooler. The heat is with drawn from the freezer / contents via gas compressed through the pipes out to the back of the unit. We have 2 freezers and what u describe is normal

Not too sure about that old mate. I was under that assumption myself but they have two reference sections quoting 35 years....one is for eligibility to receive pension, the other is for portability and they use a reference called AWLR (Australian working life residency). I assume that means you have had to work 35 years to be eligible or maybe you are still eligible but your payments are reduced pro rata depending on the percentage of that 35 years you have been in Australia working. Happy to stand corrected if you know any different? Something I am going to have to clarify with a phone call before I return. I retired here when I was 50yo so my actual working years will be right on 35 or a few months under. (Started an apprenticeship at 15yo). Would be awful to go back for 2 years only to find out I couldn't receive my pension in Thailand ???? nce called

Your posts are always self absorbed drivel but you have really outdone yourself this time. Do us a favor and crawl back under your rock. Pompous <deleted>

Poor bugger. I suspect many of us have experienced this sort of pain after putting our faith in some one who is no more than a wreck of a person with a 3rd grade education who had any human feelings burnt out long ago. RIP old mate ????????

Stupid me got mixed up, I was thinking of somewhere else Prachuap Khiri Khan province. Never been to Bang Saen but I do know guys who go there for a break from Pattaya and speak highly of it. Old school bar area.

Buying a bike off a guy this week. Buying it off a farang guy but his boss, a Thai guy is the actual owner. Must of had some agreement where the guy paid his boss off or something. Anyway, all above board buy the looks and my wife has discussed it with the Thai owner. I know there are two govt forms from him we need signed...transfer form and some sort of power of attorney so the owner doesn't have to come to govt office with us and we can transfer ourselves. We need the blue book of course but from memory nothing needs to be signed in there. Standard stuff. Do we need a signed copy of his Tabien baan and ID? Also going to get him to sign a receipt acknowledging transfer and bike unencumbered, although I believe if there was finance or something on the bike the finance company / bank would hold the blue book. Apart from that I guess we will get a photo of him handing us the keys and lots of finger pointing. Is there anything I have missed?

I went there a few years ago and just my personal experience. I found the place boring as bat shet. The water at the beach wasn't deep enough to swim and that was only if u could get past packs of the most savage soi dogs I ever seen. Township nothing at all. We were told there was a mine or something nearby and many people earning good money hence no interest in a tourist economy. I have seen others post here they loved the place so maybe I just had an unlucky experience