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As I have said previously, Western foreigners have "bad covid", not "good covid" like Asians.
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But the thousands of people there already with covid are no big deal? Do they think this is March 2020 with ~100 cases a day and they're going to trace and test all their contacts? The pretense over foreigners with covid is laughable. I'm genuinely surprised at how I am still genuinely surprised by how the Thai authorities are handling covid!
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Has Thailand’s reopening plan failed?
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News Headlines
"40 million people used to visit here. Now it's a ghost town." -
Possibly it's like the whole marry your rape victim to avoid punishment thing in some part of central Asia that escapes me now. It kind of sounds like they avoid punishment by, in the eyes of the locals, "taking responsibility for the damage caused". I.e. the girl is unmarriageable now, so the rapist solves the problem by marrying her. I guess it's a way of looking not so much at the actual crime as the consequences for the girl or the community? Obviously very different to how we view things in the West. All quite sad and I guess a wider reflection of how women and girls are viewed in this part of the world.
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Thailand, the most beautiful girls in the world.
BangkokReady replied to SAFETY FIRST's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
There's honestly so much snobbery and judgement in this thread. "Dirty old man" - quite an interesting phrase, especially used in a Thailand themed forum, where it seems that 20-40 year age-gaps are the norm. It seems to really stem from a kind of disgust reaction to an elderly gentleman being attracted to a young woman. I wonder what it is that makes people react in this way. I'm not saying I necessarily agree that a 60 something man should be pursuing a 20 year old woman, but it's quite interesting that "dirty" comes into it. Anyone below say 50 might be ok to lust after a 20 year old? But after that they become dirty? Another time we use "dirty" is to describe a promiscuous women. Someone might call her a "dirty sl*t". I think the sort of disgust response there comes from the fact that a promiscuous woman is generally bad for society, or at least a social group, for various reasons. I wonder if there is some reason that a man who is too old trying to pick up a much younger women gets the same response? Perhaps we have some sort of group-think subconscious judgment where we look at a couple and judge their compatibility. We see the physical appearance of the old man and we subconsciously think that he is not going to be able to provide for her and he is not young, healthy and virile, so we object to the pairing. Another interesting thing, is that one commenter mentioned "base desires" or something. I wonder if they are aware that the reason they think and old man is "dirty" for wanting to be with a much younger woman might itself be a "base" reaction? We could suggest that they should engage their brain and overcome this base reaction and logic it out as to whether there is anything actually technically "wrong" with a 60 year old man having a relationship with a 20 year old woman. A 20 year old woman might have a relationship with a 20 something man, it might last six months to a year and it might end badly or amicably. A 20 year old woman might also have a relationship with a 60 year old man that could last six months to a year which might end badly or amicably (you could argue the age of the man might increase the chance of an amicable end). So where is the actual harm in the 60 year old and 20 year old fling? Apart from this basic kind of repulsion or disgust at the idea of a 20 year old having sex with a 60 year old? I can't help feeling all answers would be rationalisations based on "it feels wrong" or "it's just gross". (It's important to note here that when we talk about desire, we are talking about subconscious judgements, so these are things that we are not consciously aware of. Think basic survival cave man type living.) -
Thailand, the most beautiful girls in the world.
BangkokReady replied to SAFETY FIRST's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
Just out of pure curiosity, would you have considered having a romantic relationship with someone 20 years younger than yourself at this point? -
Thailand, the most beautiful girls in the world.
BangkokReady replied to SAFETY FIRST's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
This is largely irrelevant when discussing attraction, as the subconscious mind generating the desire/urge doesn't know you aren't actually impregnating anyone. -
Pub-like Eateries to Be Closed at Level 4 COVID Alert
BangkokReady replied to snoop1130's topic in Thailand News Headlines
Sorry, does most mean the same as all now? I must have missed an email update from the OED. -
Pub-like Eateries to Be Closed at Level 4 COVID Alert
BangkokReady replied to snoop1130's topic in Thailand News Headlines
Haven't most outbreaks come from places selling alcohol? -
Thai hotel threatens customer with ฿3m lawsuit over bad review
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Isaan News
So many Thais seem to be forgetting their own culture these days... -
Thai police in massive debt - they owe 270 billion baht
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News Headlines
So the answer would be to end corruption, introduce proper taxation then increase wages? -
Thai police in massive debt - they owe 270 billion baht
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News Headlines
Or consequences... -
Thai police in massive debt - they owe 270 billion baht
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News Headlines
These two are trickier as they're probably already being exploited/extorted a fair bit already. They don't want to tread on anyone's toes. -
Thai police in massive debt - they owe 270 billion baht
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News Headlines
Doesn't sound very Thai. A few jumping jacks and squats are fine. -
Thai police in massive debt - they owe 270 billion baht
BangkokReady replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News Headlines
So easy to get a loan. Not so easy to pay it back. Such a shame that everyone feels that they have to have a giant truck or they are a nobody. Especially when the government has to eventually allow the fuel prices to go up. It kind of makes you wonder, has tourism been subsidising all of Thailand?- 210 replies
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