Hummin

Good for you found your way!

As you talking short term obviously, and nice try to put another light to the topic. Man is the provider, and the woman is the caretaker from nature, unless you live in an relationship where you both happy just to have someone who wants to live with you. Mutual understanding, interests, roles and responsibilities is important for two people to manage a long term life together and also to cultivate feelings over long term as well. Im quite sure you understand wat I ment, no need to start degrading people you never met, or know nothing about. My edit was from before I read your reply, so take it easy there.

You as me understand what it takes to be a man in Thailand, it comes with responsibility, but also pride. If that is Macho, just be it! My wife care for me, I care for her. It is quite easy, but everything I transfer, she control 100%, and that is called trust.

If you living with one lady who made 15k - 30k a month, would you ask her to share the expenses? You live in Thailand and bring your western standards? Ironic

What is the percentage of the members here who is together or married with a lady who have bigger fortune than them, or make more money than themselves? Except those who invested everything in the wife name?

What doyou believe a young thai girl around 20 would said? A k pop star around her own age would have been odeal, but if nobody else, then a 100kg 55+ white foreigner would do for her?

Bull Pie, I would like you to back up your statement about 5 star caring for those who arrive or stay illegal in Usa anyplace!

A man should be the main caretaker financially, at least a man with respect for himself!

This was a case of using an agent going wrong, so be aware who you choose to trust

Define a god? How can you know any other specie cultivate an higher than themselves creatures? As those you call out as hypocrites, you do not know! I do not know, no human on this planet know, they believe something same as you and me! Why is it so hard to say, I do not know, but I believe ,,,,,,

Anyone listening to their wives and what they want in life? Give and take as well being a little bit more adventurous and evolve together as well. Falling in to routines is for many dead end, and most women need a little bit more than suck D and bom bom to turn them on!

Not so different from many expats living innThailand, who complain about their home country, and left! She wants you to take her somewhere else!

Her family, is the most important for you and your happiness ???? as well here of course

Simple, because they have faith and believe in something that comforts them, as well give them hope for something better and eternal life. I believe when I die, it is the end of me. We got one chance to live, and have to make the best out of it for me and those people close to me. We all do someway in some form

Quite a few try to make the impression they have more than they really have, and when the truth goes up for the ladies, their new bf got f all, of course they get disappointed, and feel lied to, and leave. We all feel betrayed when we discover lies, dont we? Always preten to have less than you have, and you are good for many years, and can only impress them from there and out. My wife thought I had only 45k a month to live for when we first met, and she stayed with me, even we got some few issues in the beginning. Her mom didnt expect anything from me after the first meeting, and we had the first talk about future. Still she was quick to make party with family and give us the blessings caled rod nam sang.

Why do you continue to ask such ignorant question? I explained how religion is formed culturally, evolved from tribe to tribe, and up today as we see it as power centers such as Jerusalem, Mekka, and Vatican state. World leaders, politicians and religious leaders use their position to influence their audience. Im not member of any religion, and do not believe in any man made religion either, so I do not understand why you continue being so arrogant towards me. I like history and also read religious text's as well psychology, and form my knownledge and opinion based on what I can comprehend, or understand. I just have a voice and an opinion about how the world function and how easy manipulated people are, be it religion, politics, investments and diets to mention a few.

Agree with most, but this fixation about weight under 50kg, gets me every time! If they are 150cm, okay, but a woman above 160cm, is to skinny when below 50kg. Anyway, smaller winy, smaller woman makes it look bigger I heard ????

The three major religions belive in the same god, as mentioned earlier, as well many buddhists accept Jesus, and believe Jesus had lived several lives and reached higher state as a budda or what we call prophet. As said before, it is more that is similarities in the different belief systems, than what seperates them.

Thats called a treating nurse/maid/chef who comes with personal service

A few of them play golf, and I see them once and awhile at my friends golf tournament social gatherings at his hotel.

Still just refering to history and how societies work, and how people getting engaged for good and bad, as well reasons how things comes and goes same as ideology. It is a nice study how Alexander the great and Djenghis Khan worked around religion and how they ruled their Empires concerning religion.

Same age as OP, I would go for a 40 year widow who was married to an old rich falang, with good taste for life. Expect good language, social skills and hungry for a new start with s new man, who have time and energy to please her. If Kids preference already university educated, and out of house.

Im talk about this life, and for some, religion give reasons to live. I also believe many who learn buddhism will se there is alot more to it, that ties them up in a conform lifestyle and it comes with complex rules to follow as well as anything else. I do not believe in man made reasons to live, I believe more in Nature and the law of nature. We are born, we need food, safety and shelter, and also reproduce. In a bigger scale with bigger societies, rules is needed, war comes and go in the need of more territories for survival reasons, and therefor religion have been used as a political tool to fight evil. Original religious people had another sense of reality and often seen as a mental state. Others easy to be manipulated to follow, as well political leaders see the benefits of using religion as a tool. The rest of us, understand the purposes, but really do not believe either in religion or politicians but are forced to choose side to protect ourselves and our families for lesser evil. The benefits are stability for most!

I explain reasonable possible reasons, not defending it. Cut the crap!

From what I have heard first hand from Koh Samui, a dirty stinking hole, and valium was available. Others have said same about Bangkok. "We were rats in a cage they roamed in, but some guards allowed themselves to be bribed, and bought valium from fellow prisoners to get some sleep. We can talk later. Exhausted… Good luck