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It gave you a experience, right? An experience you could grow on, and continue knowing something you did not know from before. We are a product of our experiences to continue to grow and make new choices and new experiences

The purpose of life is exactly what you want it to be. Up to you

Not to forget having a purpose to live for, as well feeling contributing to someone who give me stability in life and a meaning to wake up every morning. As long you believe in something thats good, well I guess it does give a purpose and meaning.

Is that your excuse ? ???? At least I had a good go when I was younger, and can now enjoy a good simple life in Thailand with one woman, and feel appreciated for what I learned during my life. No more chasing adventures or continuously new experiences with women. Cheap decent quality life growing and breading what I eat, and have time to focus on us, not next high of something substitute for feeling alive.

At least you get enough hours of sleep, but still, stress is toxic, and negative stress can lead to anxiety and depression. Often temporary but it could be a good investment in talking to some professional. Sleeping aid do nothing for the cause of it, and also might delay your struggle with anxiety. If your work is challenging, then it can help to put more focus and prepare more for what you find challenging. Anyway, a professional can help you to understand simple things, tick some boxes, and give you some tools. Often it just helps to talk about it, and often the start of healing.

How many hours do you sleep?

Not everything is black and white! In toxic families yes, and thats why you need to know their families, before engaging in seriously relationships with the women! By knowing her siblings and parents, as aunties and uncles, you will most likely know your future in the family.

Anything about your lifestyle you could change? Diet, drinks, eat late, sleep pattern and exercise? Age relatet, racing thoughts?

Read the press releases

There is a brilliant method to stop thoughts thats worrying you. Basically you imagine you are travelling, and follow a story and trail you know very well. It is a pleasant distraction from you thoughts when going to bed, or wake up in the night. Good luck

think about things that really doesnt matter. There is more important things to get a grip on, than if, what, or when when you are not in controll of those matters.

There is many variables that counts in, and no, not everything is black and white.

First of all, why do you feel you have to help? You will meet many who need help in Thailand over the years who you have no connection with, and you will learn to walk away even you feel bad about it.

Evidence where a younger woman is the care taker of an alcholic with low pention? I guess you have seen many toxic relationships as me, and also read some other men explain their view on the women they meet, and stay with. Barely support means they do not contribute to her or her family which is for many families is necessery. If you lived here long enough, you know kids support their parents, not only those who is married or living with a foreigner.

There is many reasons younger women search out older men, and sure, it can be fun in the beginning, but long lasting love, well that involves alot more than money. Not saying many girls is better off with older men, or her parents who often ar younger than the man, but, there is always som face to cover up. Anyway, not for me, and thats my take on it.

My understanding and what I have seen, the majority of Bandidos in Thailand is Thais. Some few former police and Army. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7t637yFXI5k&t=8s

My understanding and what I have seen, the majority of Bandidos in Thailand is Thais. Some few former police and Army.

and alot of thai girls ending up caring for an older man, who barealy suppurt them. Ref many statements here on this fora. Nothing is carved in stone why people make those choices, where they ending up giving for almost nothing in return.

Then you are back to basics, what a woman needs in life, and when one level is reached, she attempts the next, same as men, but slightly different. a feminine perspective on Maslow's hierarchy of needs https://www.kategilbertstudio.com/blog/2013/3/11/a-feminine-perspective-on-maslows-hierarchy-of-needs.html

I would love to see this qoute being confirmed by any proofs. If that is your view of a alpha male, then just bee it. Many great worriers of their time have been misquoted, as well for the time being, they are only product of the time being as well, and in war, fear is the worst enemy, and those worriers knew and still know hot to use it for their own benefits. Where does this quote come from? What did he mean when saying it? Do we actually have confirmation that he even did say this? I've looked around and haven't found much. It's not in the Secret History of the Mongols. I've found a blog saying that it's quoted in Ibn Battuta's travelogues (writing over a hundred years after Genghis' death), possibly as a way to denigrate the Mongols: http://albeityacademic.blogspot.co.uk/2010/05/capturing-chinggis-qahan-in-secret.html But I don't have access to Battuta's original text. Did Battuta get it from any earlier source? Is the quote actually consistent with Mongols' self-portrayal, or is it just a volley in the propaganda wars between the Mongols and their enemies? https://history.stackexchange.com/questions/23975/what-was-the-context-of-this-famous-genghis-khan-quote

Eeach and one can read in to it as they want, and please eloborate what is wrong with the statement? And what doesnt fit your view of the listed qualities? It is not a Tate take on it, if that is worrying you, it is just basic standards that makes a difference for you and those you are involved with. To many give up, and find themselves without passion for live, and why? A man without purpose is a lost soul.

The core is dicipline and a morel compass, and do not involve chasing girls at same age as your doughter or grand dougter! Be the best man you can be! Doesnt even need to be macho to be the best you can be

I did look for older partners when I was younger, but only one older than 50. Most partners I had have been 30 +

Same for me, my women doesnt want to get me either in anyway. I know because we know each other 7 years now, and she appreciates me, as I do appreciate her. We help each other in the best way we can for each other, and have alot of freedom because we both agree how things should be. If I was in a western relationship, things would have been different ad it was when I had a western girl

Whatever suits you ????