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I guess for those who believe that will face problems especially being a foreigner coming to Thailand and treating their wives as their property even they paying for everything. Good luck

We share road with the neighbour, and they cant afford to upgrade, so we use a ATV to during rain season. How much you willing to spend, and how much you going to use it in Rainseason? How many share the access to their farmlands? After we built several others following after, and now it is only 300m which is not paved, and thats the part of only us and the neighbors. Talking to the village chief if more use the road could be part of your solution.

If neither satisfied is it ok the woman finds a lover as well? If I could not perform anymore, should I accept my wife have another lover? Delicate question and situation I believe many could face in a long lasting relationship, especially with an younger wife. How to spice up a long lasting marriage? For sure it will take some dedication feom both parts. Why do a woman die sexually, and why do a man loose interest in their womon, or the other way?

You do the same as dogs? Dogging around and barking? Leave your business card around?

Anything that works without degrading others is ok, or what? Smelly panties is not that bad if it works? Me and my wife have a used t-shirt from each other when separated. A few hours used panties is also ok for me ????????????

Top posters must be The name I forgot who always helped out with visa questions and @Sheryl Always reliable and helpful

There is some few I like more than others, and still dissagree on a few matters, but I still Respect them! Quite a few cant grasp the is a different world out there that might not fit their views, but still try to respond respectful, even it is hard sometimes to hold back. Especially when people have no respect for those people they have been involved with, and still have and cant move on to next level. It is all about our self how we learn, evolve and move on! Thats what I have learned in Thailand, yesterday, was just that, make another step in a new direction!

Gamma is on another level, another reality than most ????

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The only one left here with great common sense in this crazy world ???? Be like Gamma

Fishing last night and in bed at 3:00 and up again 7:50 Going fishing tonight to,

And you have those who claim, the young innocent ones is not that innocent, and know exactly what they signed up for, and deserve every degrading use and abuse. On the other hand I cant like those who not in the bar scene degrading everything about the girls either. I have met girls in the bar scenes and kept contact with them over the years, and quite a few of them have ordinary lives today, and seems to do pretty good even many years later. This is connections from the time I was young and handsome, and partying for awhile and become friends with them, and even living in the same building as many different service workers as well, with a internet cafe at first floor. I got to know them from a different side than having them on my lap buying drinks for them. Even the bar girls have a heart, and are also human beings with feelings. Dont treat them as trash, if you have nothing good to say, just leave them alone. However marrying a bar girl after a holiday or two, forget it! Only by time, you can now, and time is your safety net and your friend. If not sure you are sure, most girls is there to make money, but some good ones, just want to have a good bf, and some few is actually lucky!

Thats comforting for some, at least a nice to excuse themselves for their actions. Anyway bar girls treads will never end, and really do not understand why people who never will touch one have so much to say about it? I really do not participate in the bar scene myself, but at least I can understand the women, and some men who do, but I really do not have any admiration for any typical bar mongers with no manners or empathy at all for those they use and abuse. Especially younger girls who can not say no!

Reliable Staff is the hardest part when you start your business, and then your customers. Who is your customers, and what are they willing to pay for the standard and equipment you offer? 2500,- pr month is a decent gym price +, and 150,- + for drop in with towel. Year membership 18 000,- + It is a tough marked. Next location and rent? Many businesses owners have been turned over by the landlords, so that is another issue that can complicate things as well having big enough buffer to reinvest in equipment. When a treadmill brakes down, you need reliable service or replace it as quick as possible. Well Maintained equipped, and proper clean gyms attracts people, as well wifi and entertainment, sports channels, music. Offer girls special campaign deals. The locker/shower rooms must be delicate, clean toilets, and massage close by and of course safe parking, all depending where the location is. Marketing budget and active on social media. 10 sessions card for short time visitors.

Maintain what I have, health, wife, farm, animals, and continue to have two feet in my orign country and Thailand. If not possible, make a healthy choice for both of us where the future looking most promissing. But if you look at my end of 60'ies, beginning of 70'ies I would be moving out from Isaan if not moved out because of heat or other reasons I have no control over. Right now life is good, and satisfied with what I have.

It is a saying about people who look down on others, and feel sorry for your wife and what she have to struggle with.

The same old story, but someone is going to take the bate as long she do not give up. At once a friendship or relationship ending up paying debt, you should think twice. Well done

psychosis can act like intoxicated, so obvously mental ill and need help, as this was a scream for help. If he intended to kill himself, he would just jumped without notice.

Good luck with that! That bridge would be gone at once you leave for Thailand. How old is your kids?

How do you think your kids will react? You know them best, and Im sure you will regret when you will finely become grand dad. Your financial future aspect will count in as much as your ability to stay in contact and be close to them and their life.

What matters in a marriage, is to be happy! So the man who is happy with his wife wins no matter where she comes from or what she have done! Simple as that ????

I really do not think some do know what it takes to be good married in Thailand and what it really involves. Most women who chases foreigners have a reason one way or the other. If a good match, it involves an educated man for an educated woman with no previous history. Sin sod is very much alive even in the high so ranks, you have to prove you are worthy somehow to have the respect you searching for. At the end, most complicate simple matters but still have the need to kick downwards to justifie themeselves. It just the nature of it

and still you have this affection for bar girls even you have a good lady? Creating new treads complaining and even want to emigrate to Phil for new easy girls because you do not get what you want home? All you want to appreciated and give nothing in return or do what it takes to maintain what you have.

a phd in physics doesnt say much about her personality, and why she choosed you, and why she thought you where a good choice at the time for her.

Just another tread where girls being trown under the bus, who often are the reasons many single men comes to thailand, who find a good life and a good future with a lady from the "tourist" industry. Black and white comes to mind as someone mentioned earlier. We come a long way with making sober good healthy decissions and common sense of what is good and bad, and if not sure, you are sure! Simple as that What surprises me, as many as those who ending up with a lady of night, are happy as those who choose a lady they believe is better than those they talking down, but trying hard to justifie their own beliefs and actions. Some is more broken down than others, thats what we talking about, and in nature of being broken down, abused both by family and their failed actions, tends to find the same men who also have a long history of failing and who also repeat their mistakes over and over and still complains about everyone else is making their life hard and complicated, and not willing to accept it was all their own decissions leading them to their struggles. Still life can feel like a lottery, some few win,