Hummin

Most girls have a story to tell, some do and some dont, but my wife says, the girls know what they are doing, and no surprises. However some families is rotten, and we know there is alot of mental health illness among many of the bar girls. And the only option they have, is become a sex worker to manage to get some income. It is not completely black and white, you will find all kind of people with different backgrounds. Anyway, as said before, never been to much a bar girl monger, even I got to know many of them. Most of the girls I became friends with was decent nice girls with dreams and hope as everyone else. But of course very narrow view of point, because you just dont become friends with those who are deleted, addicts or go crazy every now and then.

If you stay long enough, you meet girls who are sponsored, but bored waiting, and they can not really trust their sponsors even they send money and ask them to wait. I never understood the mentality of sponsoring a girl they met on holiday, and expect her to wait for them coming back be it months or god knows. They get bored, and to many of them is hooked on the game of hunting customers, not only the money, especially when they already have sponsors, it is the game that matters to them, like a hunter, flirt and attract their pray, playing their game with lies and stories. Not to forget, many of those who are sex workers, have a big appetite for sex, and enjoy the control it gives them, because it is they who is in control, not you, when we speaking about real experienced ones.

I have lied and said Im just a poor backpacker, but they didnt believe me. And when I said I never had a girlfriend, they didnt believe me either, and when I said I never drink before, they got me drunk and I woke up with 3 girls in my bed next morning and nobody asked for money! True story, but I hanged out with these girls for months after and they got their pay back, and not to mention all the letters I translated and also wrote for them. A very good investment in me by the girls. They also fixed a decent cheap appartment for me in the same building they where living. Btw I was 34 years and handsume. Good old Patong days, and no smartphones yet, and internet cafe was a good meeting point.

Not only gf, lover, chef, cleaner, cook, driver, caretaker, nurse, economic responsible and shopping. Pick your choices wisely. Others get a partner for life and a best friend which I believe it is how it should be.

To some, finding a good lady in Thailand is like winning the lottery! I guess the same goes for the thai girls looking for a good wealthy man! Some is lucky, some is not

Thats good for you, well done of your friend. Myself would never introduce any lady to a man, neither my wife. To risky

Stopped going through Pranburi now, to annoying on two wheels,

North of Chumpon you bicycle all the way up to Hua Hin on very little trafficked roads. Have seen a few groups on those roads several times with full crew following.

My girl friend is different is a common joke among expats and male tourists who is visiting Thailand frequently, and Im wondering where is the best place to meet a girl friend in Thailand, who you are willing to invest in? If Im going to guess, most I know is together married or not, with girls who chased foreigners to get a decent life. Non of us ask each other where we met, and we really do not care, but my guess, most of us met a girl who for sure have a history. Common for everyone, they speak decent english, know western culture and food, and very few have higher education. Not everyone is from Isaan, just to mention.

Sex is like drugs, you chasing that feeling you once had, and once and awhile it appears, but really not same as the colours you have painted it with for years. Im lucky to find a wife who like sex, like to play, and push the limits, if not, I would not have bothered marry. I would still be chasing that moment, and never give up! Anyway, who calls the dentist, when you need a plumber? Chasing good girls, is like, oh, I forgot

Or said he was a successful businessman ????‍????? Not only bar girls lie, customers lai as much if not more! And lies is a cultural thing foreigner’s in Thailand have to live with. What to expect when the prime minister lie on Tv to them, just to comfort his people? It takes awhile, but if you are really interested in living in Thailand, then you should start learning how this culture phenomenon is, why it is and how not to become insulted every time you discover a lie. To me it seems many thais live and act like a lagon, a tv serie, a soap opera. Their emotional reactions is ery much like what we see on tv. So take your time and watch those soap operas ???? We had finish tv theatre in Norway when I was a kid every thuesday, alot to learn about finish society, but not so complicated as Thai ????

This is not good, the commercial block parts of my picture, and my option to click for next picture without going back and click on the next one I want to see.

Thats a twisted truth, I did spend alot of time with the girls as friend living in the same building, and those girls who had sponsors did not go out with older Men. However another story, but as quick they have their financial needs fixed, they enjoy life, and I believe to work as a sex worker, and also be good at it, you must like sex and have an appetite for it. 100% of the girls I met who had a bf, left alone in Patong, Pattaya, Ao Nang, cheated on their bf’s or sponsors. I have maybe met 25 in my life in that situation, so,,,, Butvall of them did not solely work bar, some was selling insurance, appartments, working restaurant,

I had many thai girls on my side, but I always paid the bill! The travels, food, gasolines if she had a car, hotels, but not necessary salery. A caddy who regularly came and visited me, never took or wanted money, but I guess her sponsors already paid her well

Or like Pompoi man? No like young man, young man only <deleted> <deleted>, old man no <deleted>, good take care

I have never done that before!

Check out this area north of Chumphon, beautiful roads and very little traffic. A few beaches I could live. Festet knappenål https://maps.app.goo.gl/PZ1DZwScnWzooaBZ9

Im not sure you have a good life at all! Maybe you are the one who is stuck? Isaan ot Pattaya? Hm, why else spend so much energy telling others do not have a good life? Poor mans joy

It is a continuous issue on this platform.

We know for sure there will be many turning points in the clima. It will be warmer, more rain, snow in the mountains, and another ice age will appear. But not in our time? Maybe we are wiped out by then? Anyone believe humans will change the next thousands of years? Our 3 major book religions have something like 4 billions members? And very few of them is willing to admit they are brothers in blood and faith. Pretty much same same as patched and uniformed Harley Davidson bikers! I think I have to watch Life of Brian once more, just in case I missed something

I bet there is a Cambodian this time!

There is no borders of where to find the bad guys, like Manhattan and Bronx back in the days, but anyway, interesting observation.

My experience meeting up with the lads who drink more frequently than me, is after a few drinks, they ending up on the same conversations as last time we where there, same politics, cultural differences between the west and asia (basically how stupid thais is) and last but not least of course solving world problems, and that means all of them. In the meantime I ride another interesting route, went to an Island, offshore for work, planted new crops and hope they will survive, but I just cant talk about that. That is so far from their reality and not interesting at all. When did people talk about the last book they read to their friends? Nobody do that anymore, not even talk about movies, I mean good quality movies, As long I keep up with football\soccer teams I have something to talk about for a few minutes, but not really my sport. Drinking and socilizing I find very shallow to be earnest.

I agree to drink moderate, but Im not happy to be part of the kind of socializing drinking requires for some or I would say most, because it is always alchohol involved when people going to meet up. Me and my wife enjoy alchohol when travelling. To release stress I have other methods, and no alcohol needed.