Stevey

I would like to take this opportunity to Thank you for your support ???? As I and I’ve heard other say men are subservient to women here and I’ve never seen a man here who would stand up to one. She thinks she is the Boss. And that’s how it needs to be for me to be happier. Oh just one last question before I go… have you ever left a 5 year old boy who has only ever known you as a father and as your leaving you say “ Sorry but it’s staying in your life or staying out of your Moms.. goodbye I’m going get another potential wife who may turn out worse than her “

Jack. Yes be very careful. This and people in your position is who I want to speak to. My original statement that if we knew that that girl we once fell in love with would end up talking to us like we were not that anymore would we have continued from the start. I would say now after four years together that I should half left her when she shouted about something trivial weeks after we were together in the village. If you have doubts get out. If finance is the only way to romance then get out. Maybe move up to Isaan and rent a house 3000baht a month. See what people are like and if you like it. Are you ok with people driving at a dog and not slowing down and caring if it gets out the way of not. And they do like to have a Thai boyfriend somewhere. If she’s not the one let her go. Goodluck

???? thanks

Sex is not frequent and it’s not something I’m that interested in TBH. I know your right though.

This @Adumbration is some piece of work. For a statement like that and a total lie someone should be looking into banning his IP or what you lot do.

I should have ditched her when I saw her first slip. But her younger son and I, then 4, were very close. He has seen the love and everything that little Dang has had and I suppose he must be jealous. I’d said and his mom had relayed if he was normal he’d have a new motorcycle and AC in his room but he has chosen this path.

@BangkokReady @ChaiyaTH Yes you are correct in your thoughts about try the kind approach. I’m not really made like that I’m more of a hang’em high type of guy. I’ll help anyone out like that Filipino girl at Savannkhet. But he has repeatedly stolen from his moms bag and we’ve had multiple instances of cash going missing. He just takes stuff that’s left on the side that he thinks he can sell for 20 baht that cost 300. Yes his mom is an evil bargirl who had him then left him with her normal sister while she carried on with Bar life looking for Mr. Right. In her forties she settled for me. I asked her a couple of months ago has he ever had any love from you in his life like his little brother who is five has had from us, she answered no. I keep telling myself it’s a phase and I also had a messy bedroom when I was a boy, but the total disrespect to have a room in our house that is basically like a landfill site and has ants crawling up the wall from outside it’s just not on. And the lies, they just don’t stop. I heard his mum a few nights ago questioning him about where her power bank was. One thing about her is she’s got the most incredible memory I’ve ever come across in my life. She can remember a phone number that she only saw once 3 months ago, and then looks to me like I’m stupid when I say, how did you remember that. She knew that power bank was in her bike and she knows he took it. And she knows he stole my expensive charge block and iPhone charger lead that I left in a power outlet while I slept. what can you do, refurb his room buy him an iPhone 12 and a new wave and give him 500 baht a week pocket money. Nothing will change. He’s heartless. Stepped over our dying Dog of two years with distemper like it was chicken he’s never seen before not a dog we’d got as a puppy that had run up to him every day when he go home from school. what concerns me is how he funds that amount of stuff in the wrappers.

Well, the truth of it is, I was tricked. She made me believe she was a keeper. For a few years in to us getting serious and staying with each other long-term things were ok. Before that it was visiting on holidays, Then a year ago or so the mask started to slip. Complaining about his behaviour et cetera fell on deaf ears. But there’s his younger 5year old brother that keeps me around, who’s great fun and dare I say worth it.

It feels so good to enlighten the uneducated though. Seeing their little face light up like the moon ???? does every month. And that was the over fifties in the class, I mean shop.

Can anyone beat this boy’s bedroom that I am being forced to live with girlfriend won’t address it. The boy has done what he wants since forever. last time I went in there there was a mountain of cigarette butts in receptacles of one form or another. Truly vomit inducing stuff. Mom won’t address it. Any suggestions on way forward greatly appreciated.

We might be related all of her massive family of women are hell Harridan Shrew 8itches from hell

Thanks for interest. No I was thick. Then I wasn’t and now I’m getting thicker. Although the reading writing and rithmetic will have not been self taught. Having a half arsed class on crop rotation or an art lesson has had zero plus effect to who I am. Unless you count bitterness. School was just a holding pen.

I hadn’t thought of that

Some interesting points you’ve made there, and yes you’re agreeing with me that he’s time and do seem to be subservient to the bossy shrews. yes I do come across as condescending I agree. But at least the locals now know the only words they’ve learned of English ‘ stupid ‘.

Well to be fair to me. None of the knowledge that I have acquired there is in my brain can be attributed to the UK education system. And I can truly say that if I had never gone to school from the age of 5 to 16 1/2 I would not be any different than I am now everything that I consider to be of worth that’s in my brain is self taught or researched.

Great post. I have no idea why she won’t sanction a small pool. Yes either do it while she’s at work or pay her to let me have it dug, what a Simp move

Lovely to make you acquaintance. Are you the same guy who said you “speak ‘Good’ Thai “ in a previous thread I saw today ? I like to say that I can speak Thai, I receive calls in Thai from drivers et cetera and I go to the vets and the Hospital where no one can speak English and I speak Thai. I can stop anywhere I’ll speak with Thai people. I even listen to my 5year old boy who cannot speak English tell me last nights dream but I’ve never had the outright audacity to say I speak “good“ Thai. You’re obviously one of life’s winners, and I commend everything you say to the house.

Some of the most stupid people imaginable. Two days ago I explained to about seven adults in a village shop where the light they could see on the full moon was coming from

Although I agree with you that I chose wrong. I’m stuck with the 5hit house now. And I agree that alot of the Falangs here bring it on themselves, like Colin. My point is that I she a lot of strong minded shouty women up here and that goes for the young ones who try to emulate the older mothers. If guys mixing with these women in what ever settings they are procuring said women knew what they heading to they would think twice and maybe head to Scunthorpe to procure a life partner

When I first came to this village in NongKhai , I met Colin a Falang and LLS in diving. He trusted his wife and he recently had his bank account of raided of his 6.5Million baht savings plus she lent money on all land they had bought plus small apartments in BKK and his tractor and both SUVs house just repossessed as she had lent cash on that too. How do people lose so much gambling? They have an 11 year old, although he cannot speak Isaan so cannot communicate. He’s too cleaver to learn apparently.

How much has that cost you ? I selected an option in my price range. I stay in a village where nobody can speak English and women appear to rule the roost as they sit around eating SomTam and shout orders at children. I’m sorry but these lot do not have the intelligence to be in charge, they just are and the men are too frightened to stand up to them. I can only take your word that your missus who I’m sure is lovely , is lovely.

I never had that much fun paying for all those small beers as the ‘ permission to stay ‘ Tax

I’ll call her that the next time we have words ????

Everywhere I go in the area I hear shouty harridans. It’s learned behaviour. The men are quiet and henpecked and the women are always shouting at kids.

Oh … what the love of a good man someone to fix a leaking pipe ?