Stevey

I know ???? it’s mental.

Yes well as my last two post have gone down a storm. I thought I’d bring up an other issue I have with my girlfriend and ask other members is this normal ? I tried to have the place ship shape but she is just not having it. I thought I’d present some of the scenes from the house externally and one of the garden I’ve installed. This 5hit is actually reclaimed and added to from a pile I made out front in the front near the Soi a couple of years ago when I could stand the ants that were nested under all the piles of items. That was quite a heap 3 m long 2m wide and at points a Metre high.

I think you did well. I have to hope my oxygen thief clears off Asap Worst case scenario is he hangs around for the foreseeable and on my future visits he’s enjoying the treed Garden I’ve created with his friends and that’s my view.

I just cannot talk with anyone who cannot accept others lifestyle choices. People are born with their own predilection as far as how they want to be as a human. Everyone is different. Someone who prefers women or men or ladybirds has no choice in the choice and is still an equal human as the next man or woman. Many people have secret desires and project the opposite of what they prefer.

I just don’t see how it’s my fault ? My girlfriend is crazy 35% of the time. Any mention of the the teen ( named Boss) and I get all or one of the Thai translation of ‘ shut up about it ‘ and a bad mood. This has been the situation for a couple of years and she just says she is bored of telling him. Just can’t get her to try and cajole him by just placing sanctions on him , no washing machine use unless you buy your own powder, no food. He appears to be living a life where he can do anything he wants with impunity. When I go up the sisters house, where all the family congregate, every 3rd word from everyone is enquiring after the whereabouts of ‘BoT’ ( how Boss is pronounced) or just saying he name as he moodily sits around on his phone. These boys seem to be revered for no actual good reason. I have a theory that this treatment of these feral young males is the reason why half the society is not developed. Letting 13-year-olds ride round on motorbikes and have absolutely no boundaries is the total opposite of the west where children are kept on a leash, at least in the UK till 17 years old where they are allowed to drive and even then the financial side prevents that happening so we can protect ourselves from these young idiots. While in Thailand, these children have been allowed to run riot from the age of 13 out till the early hours riding illega mechanically propelled vehicles with no lights on at night with nobody commenting, because it’s “not my business” , it’ll be your business when you pull out of a T-junction in the dark and don’t see a 14-year-old boy, hurtling towards you on a Honda wave with no lights on. But back to you saying it’s my fault him having a room that stinks, has bottles of piss lined up, a trash cans worth of sweet wrappers strewn on the floor with two lines of ants travelling back and forth to the sugar. We don’t speak. And haven’t for over a year. It’s like each other doesn’t exist. There is only so many times I can turn the other cheek. If he thinks he can behave badly and then get me redecorating his room what message does it send. Although I’m am open enough to take the advice to kill it with kindness and two wrongs don’t make a right.

What was the outcome ?

A very special woman. Similar I have an Yamaha Mate Alfa that I’ve spent a lot of money in hope of getting it right but I think it’s gotta go, your wife realised she was wasting her time.

Level of Thai : Can read Lazada reviews like this and talk/Gossip with locals. บางทีก็แรงมากแต่ปล่อยให้ราคาและเด็กๆ สามารถเล่นได้โดยไม่มีอันตรายเหมือนลูกพลาสติกและแรงอัดหนักๆ with all due respect, and I mean that, I cannot understand how anyone can assume I don’t speak หรืเข้าใจภาษาไทย It’s actually my hobby and taking a call from Kerry or flash is pretty rewarding.

The Situation Well there is a little update. I’m just sitting here and the little one has been picked up to play water by his older cousin. He was playing with a little water pistol and his 15 year old brother walked out from the house to his borrowed motorcycle, he is replete with all the objet da a teen boy needs. The top of the range fuelled Wave 125 the marijuana leaf emblazoned clutch bag full of vaping paraphernalia, why he has my favourite best scissors I was looking for in there I don’t know ????‍♂️ Just a year ago or so he would be onto his mom every day for 20baht. I never hear that anymore. She tells me he does odd jobs for her sister at her goat farm. But how much money could he possibly e getting ? a hundred baht goes nowhere here unless your buying a bunch of bananas. As far as I’m am concerned £60 pound is a UK workers pocketed wage per day so is equal to 300baht if she’s giving him 100baht for services rendered that £20 and she has not got that money to throw around. It’s puzzling. I can only assume that his friends are giving him the stuff or he is bullying someone or both. He’s a horrible personality less oik. So he walks out the house and ‘Look Dang’ gets him like a sniper right on his shirtless chest. He immediately rares up at his little brother for daring to ‘ Ying ‘ him .. and it’s SongKhran ? The waste of oxygen Dresses and leaves on the ‘his’ bike while getting his hair right in the permanently upcocked mirror. I think let’s have a look to see if my mentioning to the Girlfriend that I’d put a photo of the room a couple of nights ago on the internet for the perusal and comment of a panel of my peers and that horrible@youreavinalaff guy I check the door , not locked as usual? On opening a pleasant surprise. Tidy ! and a plastic bag for rubbish. In the corner you can see motorcycle parts. It looks like because everyone knows he gets nothing from me they’re now amassing parts to build him a death trap. How he sleeps in that room is beyond me. I’ve recently put insulation on the inside of our room to hold the AC cool inside and keep the heat from the wall blocks from bleeding into the room at night. The stored heat in the blocks that usually released into our room and his at night now only releases his way. The AC that cooled that adjoining wall last week was actually cooling his room ( I’m an AC engineer) by thermal conduction if he had a 26degC cooled wall it was cooling his room down, but now unfortunately it’s not. actually, that’s a good idea. What if I put an electrical element somewhere in the mortar and heated the blocks of his room up ?

I don’t really see where I’m ranting. But I do stand by. My earlier claim you are a piece of work alright ????

???? Your quite the piece of work aren’t you ‘ Your avin a Laff ‘. Don’t worry I a big boy I can take what ever you can throw ???? I’m not touch typing this on an iMac in my study with a smoking jacket on. I’m writing this gold on the fly quick on an iPhone sometimes a paragraph turns into my life story and then I have to go back and check spelling and punctuation, coz that matters for my rep. Ask me any question you want. The lad is 5 and a couple of months. I arrived in his life at 1 year old after splitting from his mom for a few years prior. She who got a Thai boyfriend after a few years and had the baby I wouldn’t have with her. 5years ago , still split, she contacts me and says she having a baby. The boyfriend finding our correspondence starts sending me some messages about her saying she was a 5hithouse and a gambling addict. Later she has the baby and says she is single, from the correspondence I get from the Thai boyfriend it does seem like they are split up and she is single with the new baby. So that will be 5 years ago. For a year I help her out with B5k a month on receipt of the baby in the hospital bed in arms shot. After a year I give up my job as a white hot supermarket fridge engineer and embark upon a four month holiday. At the end I go up to Isaan and see her prior to a motorcycle trip round the North of Thailand. We rekindle things and I see the about to be 1 years old boy for the first time who at this point owes me B60k on account and she was destitute. That was 4 years ago. After getting there as often as I could over the ensuing year or so Covid arrived. Never really felt a lot for the lad over the time. But he did some funny stuff and I went along with the ride. In 2021 Jan31 I’d done a year in a food factory fixing machines and amazingly mixing in close quarters with a 1000 workers with no masks or vaccines I was still alive. I gave that job up and got on an Emirates flight from Birmingham Airport. The only one that day. The next day all flights were grounded again due to Grant Shnapps. So lucky I got out of that hell hole. After the 2 weeks quarantine eventually I got to them up north. It has been a long year. The last time I’d had seen them and the dogs , my beautiful Gati, in the flesh was when I’d left them as people were talking about a virus in China in Jan 2020. To my amazement and my girlfriends Dang who had been quite passive on the LINE calls ran all the way to the Soi to hug me. He took some time to feel safe alone with me without his mom being near to 3 years old but overtime and now we are inseparable. He’s 5 now. Little Dang. A few months ago I moved all my stuff out and stayed at a friend’s. One of the most terrible experiences I’ve ever had. It was a spur of the moment decision and she had been angry for weeks. Because she is/was a gambler and always if she saw money languishing in the account she would empty it with out asking. It would only be 3000 baht or so but many times I’d go to the ATM on a Sunday or other time that Transferwise would take ages to send money from the UK and I’d find I had no money in my pockets or any way of getting from the Kasikorn account, other than ATM Barclays, no thanks. So I would transfer what I wanted and draw it out immediately and give her money as she needed it and pay the bills. Well because I was now gone she was playing it like well if I’m not getting a salary you needn’t return. It hadn’t gone as I thought it would. But I had had enough or her mood. Which in hindsight I’d created. She had Got herself a job in a local factory becaushe wanted to work. And I was able to see Dang after school while he stayed with her sister. I’ve never had a child of my own but this was a terrible feeling for both of us. We agreed a Salary and after a few days her mood improved and I moved back in. Dang was happy and he and I realised that she is a psycho like my own Mother. But I had to go thru that separation to realise what was important. Okay right , I will now open the floor up to questions.

How remote is your village ?

Well as people may have gleaned I’m not normal. When I looked at the mess last night I thought ‘right ‘ I’ll get a 300baht vinyl poster with the photo made up and I’m going down his new college he’s started in town and I’ll stand out outside and show his whole school as payback for the disrespect and smell we’re having to endure. But I am having second thoughts reflecting on some of the more thoughtful members. I a softly softly catchy monkey approach

Yeah she is like a teenager

If you saw him you wouldn’t believe it was the same person. He’s quiet and not just tall but the tallest person in the village nearly. He very good looking and has the most impossibly beautiful girlfriend. All the kids revere him. i suppose it’s all about turning the other cheek and being the bigger man. Although I don’t think I should have to just restricting his money supply from his Mom should do it. Clean room get pocket money “Mair ow Sao Baht ! “ “ Look ! Kwarm Sa-art Horng Gorn .. laiw-Ja Hai Sao Baht Ler-yee !! I’ll look up Alain , I’ve seen him BBC4

I’m considering it. It’s funny I saw the local excavator man in the village go by a few weeks ago. I’d been on at him to give me a price for a 4x4 x2m deep pool in the front but he’s said he was up to his eyes in work. Well this day he rolled by in his ranger 4 up with pals on the lash and scrawled in the dirt of his Ranger 4500 baht for a day and he had a slot tomorrow. I told him I’d have to clear it with her once and he laughed and said “ you’re the man ! “ and although I actually paid for the land to get it from her brother that means nothing.

Jesus Christ you really are fighting these peoples corner. I’m not married to anyone and never have been. you are trying to paint me as someone I’m not. Firstly I’m a great guy and that’s not coming across in your character assassination. Secondly I have a great respect for anybody old or young that comes across as respectful and Jai Dee. The old 75 year old basket weaver next door gets no respect as his chickens are released at 10am and proceed to <deleted> all over out external floors and eat anything on table tops that have not been cleared away safely, whole pile of sliced and ready Papaya for SomTam gone. Mai pen lai. He cares for himself only. I draw the worst out in people because I won’t let any bad deed go unpunished. Take for instance outside the school. My girlfriends son who has only known me as his Por. So what that makes me to him I’m not sure. Maybe someone can educate me, there’s a lot of it going on in Thailand. So I’m no shrinking violet and have zero embarrassment much to the surprise in the moment that those who happen to think they can act out in life like there are no consequences. An other example. So the same old guy who my girlfriend calls to buy my Heineken bottles and had recently given her B20 for 6 sackfuls she’d saved also sells plastic glasses of fizzy pop and ice 5 baht a pop outside the school. I’d took him to task on several occasions previously about giving us the last dregs of an already opened 50 times bottle of coke or what not. And after we’d had another beer and plastic bottle buyer come and give us 40baht for a fraction of what she’d given him. I wasn’t having it anymore. I told him I didn’t want the dregs and there was an unopened bottle ready to go right there. He challenged me saying it was just for a kid. Mai pen lai. I gave him his 5 baht as the little’n had started drinking it. Later thrown away as it had zero bubbles. I do believe I told him he was a prick and pranced after giving him a look I normally give before thinking about attempting to knock someone out. I don’t like to be bullied or see someone bullied. But because of the way society is here people get stiffed because no one will stand up for themselves. On all three side of our house we have families taking liberties and my girlfriend won’t say a peep in fear of been seen as a trouble maker while I have told people what I think of them in in unintelligible Thai many times. Great fun. You sound like a right walk over.

No help at all

Despair? I’m just bringing up the issue of a feral teen who has left so much garbage on the floor that ants are making a road to his room up the outside wall. I’m very happy with Dang 5 years old. He’s on half term and we go everywhere and have some great times, never been happier ????

You may mean well and that’s to be commended but this is a feral boy who was ejected from the local Wat at 11 years old as a boy Monk and spent all last year not going to school and online gaming with friends all night and sleeping all day. But he passed because I paid for a large greenplastic storage box for a teacher as a bribe.

? You agree you believe it is an available stockpic in google images ?

Women are devious and if your job is lying then it’s easy but when the mug is invested the mask can slip.

???? Ooh I’d give my right ball for a week in Scunny !!

Oh, I could tell you a tale about Colin, so I could. Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools: Colin lost everything to my girlfriends cousin a notorious 1980’s bargirl who he found on the internet 20years ago. He is one of those guys who didn’t get his bird from a bar and he told me proudly once that he met on a Thai dating site back in the day. Only thing is I met someone who knew her and all her friends and acquaintances who told me that she was a Soi Cowboy bar girl in the eighties. Colin to this day thinks she was a business woman dealing in textile import exports in Bangkok. Anyway we ended ‘up to get her’ no, up together in the village and had some great nights on the piss over a few year. Then a couple of years back he tells me she had raided his bank by forging his identity and setting up internet banking and transferred all 6.5mill out to another account Two years later the house, cars land and 20 apartments in BKK were gone but although I got took for a bike that my miss lent the green book to his Missus to lend 20k baht on but it never got paid and the shop took the bike coz I refused to pay it and he believed his missus who stole everything he had that she had paid the shop I still respected that he has managed to find work and may have actually earned that 6.5million back by staying in a ship working for a year unbroken. Although she owes that much money that’ll go and he’ll end up back in Scotland working in Tesco’s collecting trolleys

I’m assuming you have never spoken like that to anybody in person ? look lighten up. I can’t remember any post I’ve made here where I ‘ have had a go ‘ at other members. You’ve obviously got your knickers in a twist because you don’t like anything bad said against the people you love. And I’ve learned, because I’m special, to communicate with the locals. I love more people here than I dislike that’s for sure. And I’m also well aware that we are different people. These Isaan people I have met seen to have no emotion. The funerals I’ve seen and not a tear shed. One that stands out was a family member 50 year old sister to another 9 siblings. I watched after they’d burned her in the day on a Boraan style open wood pile. They had a Gaan Sop party on the night like it was 1999 and the mother just sat and chatted. you would never of known it was a wake. I still can’t get my head round it all