fredwiggy

Culture has nothing to do with basic human behavior which all races and nationalities share. People are the same all over as far as wants, needs and insanity. Personality types are the same all over. Culture is a man made thing. Humans and their emotions aren't.

I haven't insulted anyone. I said prostitution is abhorrent behavior, and others have called me names, so where's your logic? It's also not mine to judge, as that's God's place. Some things in this world are wrong, and pointing out the obvious isn't judging. I have no interest in high jacking anything. I'm only responding to some other's replies, which is what this discussion forum is for, and also to give advice, which I do a lot because I know it will help. What's warped is actually thinking prostitution is a normal behavior, and those that justify it are surely users, as no one else would bother unless they are also immoral thinkers. I think many just don't realize what goes into the trade and how sick it can be. This isn't only about a man getting off in a pretty girl but human slavery, coercion, drug addiction, rape, abuse and death. Wake up and read at least the link I provided. Being in denial never helps anything.

Who says?

You really don't read what you write do you? You think promoting a trade that takes advantage and many times has people as slaves is a normal sexual activity? A person that looks at women as an equal partner does indeed understand women, as he has taken the time to be an active listener because why? he actually cares about them and what they need. Sex is of course a normal natural activity but paying for sexual favors is not. Saying everyone pays is a lame excuse because providing for a wife is not the same thing. A consenting adult isn't one who has been forced or coerced into doing a natural thing with countless men for their money, and many times raped, beaten or killed. Is it a hang up wanting to have sex with a woman that actually enjoys your company and is glad to do things to please you, instead of being forced or doing them reluctantly because she needs the money to pay for her children back home with grandma that she rarely sees? I'm a Christian, and have never seen sex as a dirty thing. In fact, being a believer, I know God himself put it here for us to enjoy, but not to make it a sick, dirty thing where force is used to control a woman. God put more nerve endings in a woman's vagina than most other places for a reason, and they aren't there just to give birth. It's sad that so many "adults" think this is somehow a normal behavior just because it's the "world's oldest profession". Gambling is also legal in many places because others profit by it, but it also ruins homes, families and lives when people get hooked and think, "one more roll of the dice and I'll be rich". It's not surprising to me that immorality and being an atheist go hand in hand with many people. I challenge anyone who thinks prostitution isn't harmful to those involved to read the link I provided. It might change some thinking but being "adults", many are incapable of change and only go by animals instincts they have used most of their lives. You can lead a horse to water but.........

Over your head and psychology is a hobby of mine, so you're way outta your league here "bro". But keep replying, as it's amusing just how many disturbed people there are in this world that think keeping women down, treated as objects and not caring about how they live is a normal practice.

Sad that you don't realize it's you and a certain few others who sound foolish. I'm betting not one of you have read the link I provided either from laziness or an inbred thinking that somehow you actually think what you are doing is okay behavior.I'll add the link again for those that won't go back to look. Try reading it and see if you understand what's involved..............https://www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/prostitution-sexual-violence

And what's wrong with keeping up the love, respect and enjoyment of two people? Is that so hard to do? This is a good explanation for you..............Transactional relationships involve someone getting something for giving, and we need those in life. Genuine love relationships, on the other hand, are entirely different. In this case, we give, serve, or do something just because we love the other person. In these relationships, there is no transaction taking place.

My point is why they go into the trade in the first place, and unemployment isn't a good argument. The other reasons are a lot harsher and most involve mental illnesses of both sides.

Yes, there are quite a few people worldwide that think the trade is okay. A lot of People believed in Hitler, Stalin, Kim, Pol Pot and Donald Trump also. I'm hardly pushing religion on anyone. You obviously are only a participant in the trade without knowing the dark side and what the life of these people really is. So much the sadder.

Well, if anyone hurt my child, I'd surely make them regret it with extreme prejudice, as all fathers should.

Thinking a child grows up happy here shows you don't realize just what goes on her as a child growing up. Just the fact alone that up to 70% of girls are molested here by the time they are 17 is enough for me to get my daughter the hell out of here as soon as I can. Watch the daily news for one month and you'll see how many wayward boys act, ganging up on others 5 againt one, armed with weapons. I won't even go into the driving dangers kids have here on scooters. Him staying in Sweden with his boy would be the best thing he could do for his future.

You have no idea just how foolish you and a few others here look. There are those who have commented before the same way I have, if you bothered to read the other comments besides mine. I'm not the one who needs to grow up but perhaps you should look at how you were raised to see why you look at women as things to purchase, and it's okay. All I've been making are points that have escaped your narrow thinking, or perhaps you're comprehension? Yes, there are a few here that might agree with you, which is sad to say the least. Research more, comment less, learn more, talk less, think more, listen more, and someday, who knows, you might just get a right thought and put it down here, because you're either very naive, or really do look at women as just chattel.

You're clueless if you think human trafficking is a small amount of this. Maybe I just happen to research topics and you go by what some other's you know have said. maybe this research is studies done by those in the field, and they aren't making opinions based on just their personal experience. Many prostitutes are brought in from other countries and are forced, some by drug addiction, to be slaves. A lot are coerced by their parents to work to send back money home, which is despicable. Most are coming from broken homes or homes where a father was either absent or didn't treat their wives or daughters with love and respect. I know as much about sex as anyone else. I've had a lot of girlfriends and a few wives I've learned from and read a lot more to learn more. The difference in what some there think and I is that I actually look at women as a partner and not an object for my pleasure. Do you actually think you know about sex more because you buy prostitutes? All that shows is that you only look at women as someone for you're own pleasure, and someone who wouldn't look at you unless you had cash in hand. It's people like you that will never look up or research what makes a prostitute tick because you plainly don't give a rats ass. It doesn't take much. Just a few links would do the trick. I'm thinking you have absolutely no clue just what goes on behind the "glamour" of walking streets around the world. Maybe it's you who shouldn't comment because it's you that knows very little about it? Try this one link. Easy to understand...........https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/why-do-women-become-prostitutes-and-why-do-men-go-to-them/.

Maybe it's because she has more money than I? But she won't laugh for long, as things you do always come back to haunt you, especially if they aren't quite right.

I don't make opinions. I just see things as they really are. Of course God's in my life, as he should be, but moral thinking isn't because of him but because I was raised to think that way. Some sadly aren't, and think women are only here for their pleasure. They aren't.

And you're basically just a child thinking adult.

Every time you post it shows how much you little you really care about these women and know how they actually live their lives. No ones emotions get harmed? An empath is a person who can put themselves into others shoes and try to feel what they feel. A narcissist doesn't give a sh*t either way. You, and many like you, either really don't care about the women they use, or are totally clueless how they got to where they are, and what's going on in their minds now. They might smile because that's their "job" to please a man but do you really think they are happy what they're doing? Women can love sex as much as a man, and there's nothing wrong with it but this is a totally different ball game entirely. I'm sure many here just don't realize what makes a person a prostitute, nor do they care. But keep on trying to bolster your side of the argument, because it shows me a little more each time just what a woman means to you, along with some others here. The more I hear excuses for that side, the more I see just why this world is in so much trouble. A man is someone who treats everyone around him well. He doesn't use them, abuse them or look at them as objects for his pleasure. A boy sometimes never grows up. This is what a male has to do when he gets older. Make choices that don't hurt others intentionally. There's nothing wrong with two people having sex, as long as one doesn't go home hurting afterwards, or feels ashamed. A conscience is what a man has. A religious psycho? Maybe a man that can't stand seeing women or children hurt instead.

You actually think because many do something that it makes it right? Majority rules but it doesn't mean it's right. How do you know what lifestyle I have from a few words typed? Assuming is done quite often here, and it's not something that works. Having a hooker laugh at me because she opens her legs for money isn't something I'll worry about. There is a higher power many don't think about nor care to believe in, but it's coming, and Karmas a real bitch. You, and others thinking this trade is okay when prostitutes are killed almost daily, and abused much more often, shows your level of thinking. If you have children, is this the attitude you teach them?

I didn't judge you. You're the one who said you don't care about their life. I'm nowhere near confused. Just a moral thinker and believer that women aren't playthings. You're actually comparing other businesses with a woman selling her body to men? That's mentally troubled. People aren't inanimate objects. But maybe to you and others like you they are? The problem is exactly what you said. Most people don't care about who they are dealing with as long as they get what they need from them. And you actually think this is okay, especially when it affects a human being? That's classic narcissist thinking and that's all I need to know. It might be good for you to look up what a narcissist is, but if you are one, you'll never admit it, and therein lies the world's problems.

Actually I'm right on in my thinking, as others who have posted can attest. You and your cronies will always find excuses to buy, and use women, and that is sadly obvious to the men here who look at women as partners.

No one is proud of selling their body over and over to many strangers, period. There again are many more ways to make a living. Who doesn't have a better choice than paying for sex? Any clean, well mannered man who treats women well can find a decent woman. Wanting what you can't have happens to most everyone but maturity makes you deal with that. Actually I'm a lot more in touch with what's real than you'll ever be, because I look at women as equals and not to be used or bought.

You said it........... I don't really care about their life any more than they care about mine. .............You just want a body to get off in and either haven't the nature or skills to find a normal woman so have to resort to paying for one that most likely despises you and probably all men. This kind of thinking again is what's wrong with the world. All about me, no one else matters. Sadly, there are so many like you that the world will only continue to fall.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but it's you and your thinking that's off. There is always a right and a wrong with any two people, if one is a victim. You actually think all hookers are consenting adults? I really think some here don't know what human trafficking and prostitution entails, and are blind to what actually goes on. An addicted girl being sold to a john isn't a consenting adult. Many prostitutes are under aged. Is this consenting or a victim? It amazes me the arguments some use to try and prove their points regarding the trade.

Are there no other jobs available? I feel bad of course for women who are left with children by men who had no place having any. What is the better choice? Just getting by working a low paying job or having more selling your body to men, some of whom might abuse or kill you, or in the very least, expose you to a disease which might alter your and your kids lives? No excuses as there are millions of single moms that don't feel the need to prostitute themselves to make ends meet. Many of these hookers leave their kids at home with grandma anyway, and rarely see them, enjoying the freedom in a tourist town, so again, no excuses. A child does better with a mother at home, working a legit job and not exposing herself or her kids to random men who might do them or her harm. I really don't think many her actually think what they are saying before they post, mainly because they are buyers of women and think it's okay because of course, they get off.

I'm not assuming anything. I'm replying to others posts. They might be lying about everything they post but I'm only reacting to what they write. if it's lies why bother posting them? Your thinking that sex workers and clients are doing a good thing is wrong, and it isn't my opinion. Out of touch with reality with what evil there is in this world might be your shortcoming, as it is with many others who's heads are stuck in the sand. This world is a bad place in many ways because people think bad actions are okay as long as they benefit from them, and not caring what effect it has on their victims.