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I'm not blaming a woman about getting pregnant. It happens from sex, and sometimes after the first time. I'd just like to see them get smarter about how men really are, what they're motives are, how much they will BS for the sex and to what lengths they will go. No condom, no sex. If a man loves you, he will wait, use a condom, and not pressure you. A woman giving sex for love isn't a smart thing. That's what I mean by getting smarter. Most men are not going to stick around after sex, and some that do will for a little while until they get bored. Many, especially here, won't stay after a child is born, another reason women should restrain until marriage. Yes, a woman looking for love will give her body to a man she thinks will stay. Generation after generations of parents have warned their daughters about how men are, IF they do their job, but what happens? Oh, he's so cute, I would love to have his baby, I think he could make a good father, husband etc. Statistics show this isn't the case. I've read hundreds of books and articles about women, how they think, what they need etc, and I still don't know it all and make mistakes because they look so good. Think about how few women read up on male behavior, at the teenage stage, when they're the most ignorant, and just follow what their dopey peers do. I've told my own daughters all about men, but they still made a lot of mistakes and were used, abused and dropped, all because they thought, "what does dad know"? Now they tell me, "I should have listened to you back then". But I'll still tell my youngest daughter, who's 7 now, the same things, and hope she gets it. Not to fear men, but to more understand why they do what they do, and that you can't trust many people in this world.

That doesn't sound right to me. Where do you get your "research" from? I would guess from what I've heard both in the news long before I moved here, and the comments on Thai forums, that Pattaya,Bangkok and Phuket has the most. Buriram is not a large city and without the amount of bars other large cities has. As far as a woman taking your house, that's not a prostitute but a greedy lower class female that's in every country, especially the poorer ones like this one.

Thailand's crime rate is as high in some respects as most anywhere. You just won't hear about it on daily news here. I've walked the streets of NYC many, many times and never saw any hint of crime. This along with living near NYC for 30 years and San Antonio the next 32, both major cities. There are gangs here just like in the US. Human trafficking rivals any place on earth. You see daily here teenagers ganging up on another 5 against 1 all the time. You don't see this sort of thing in America. People use knives, machetes and sticks here to beat others, and this is another thing you don't see as much back home. Crime here has gone up and will continue to rise because enforcement is very lacking, and corruption is much higher here. I felt much safer back home than I do here, and I'm in the country here.

Most of the world's problems are people going against God's rules and making up their own, narcissism, want for power, greed, and other mental illnesses. Religions have indeed made a lot of trouble, because people twist religion to fit their greed and power. A woman wanting an abortion for what reason? No husband or boyfriend that will stay? Not enough money to raise a child? That's the reason we have birth control and if women were smarter about men, the world would be in a lot better place. The woman who can't access decent health care is the governments fault. It is they who should foot the bill for all health care, through our taxes, just like Canada does. No reason all other countries can't do this, unless of course they really don't care about their people and only them and their rich friends having all they need. Scientists yes go by facts and evidence, along with educated guesses that aren't always right. Yes, there isn't any proof besides all of what I explained earlier about an existence of God. There isn't any way all of the world's wonders came to be from some kind of explosion. That's for people who have no faith and believe in what others have said because they for some reason trust them, meaning the scientists and others who explain God away. They also have no proof there isn't a God, or that the universe was created by a big bang, with no one behind it. I don't think God turned his back on us. I think he's just watching us self destruct and is close to coming and ending all of this disaster people have created. Trump to me is an ignorant,moronic example of what happens when someone is given a lot of money and has some people behind him helping him make more. People voted for him,some of my own family actually, because they think since he's a billionaire he should be a good president. He was one of our worst, and hopefully he just goes away soon. I saw him for what he was years before he became president, and sadly, some of my family, who I know are smart people, didn't.

It's not a threat. It's making them aware because once you're dead, you don't come back, although some believe you do. Like another said, and I was thinking about before he wrote it. What's so hard adding God to your life, giving you hope? It isn't brainwashing them to teach them that there is a creator and he wants us to follow his laws. Laws which make sense, all of them, even if you're not a believer, besides the first four, which deal directly with God. I only go by what I learned reading the Bible and other teachings. God wants us to believe in only one god, him, and not to put any false gods in front of him. Makes sense if he's the creator. Like I mentioned in another post, if there were these 100's of gods, you would certainly see a competition of sorts, a pissing contest if you may, with them trying to one up the other to show who's the better god. Like Greek mythology, where they were at odds with each other. God has us rely on faith, which is why he doesn't show himself until we meet him after we die. If there isn't a God, how did the universe come to be? I don't believe everything scientists say as I'm not gullible. They get paid for research, and are right about things and some others are guesses, theories, whatever. Muslims might contradict some things in Christianity, but they still believe in one God.

Judging a whole "race" by a few individuals? That's actually being prejudiced against even people of your own nationality or country. Doesn't work well when you need friends. Most will never find real friends here.

I used to work for a few gyms that had pools, and you really don't want to swim in them nor use the hot tubs. many reasons including someone who doesn't know how to regulate the chemicals, hundreds of people going in the pool after exercising, mold growth from a humid, closed environment, Cryptosporidium and other germs. I have seasonal allergies in every place I live. I lived in New Jersey, the Garden State, and stayed there until I left at 28. I was allergic to some things there but was never checked. When I moved to Texas, I went to a few allergy places that did studies. I found out I was allergic to cedar (juniper), thistle, dogs, cats, deer(which I hunt), mold, some trees and others. Most were mild besides juniper, which hits thousands hard every year. Testing is the only real way to find out, and avoid, what is giving you problems. It can be simple things in your home, like mentioned, or a seasonal thing. Like spidermike mentioned, air here has been bad for a very long time, and will only get worse until some politician starts having respiratory problems and decides to enforce the burn laws. Here's a link for the gym pools............https://www.cdc.gov/healthywater/swimming/swimmers/rwi.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=allxx9EzoxU

Actually, it's as far from ridiculous as it could be. People need to repent of their sins, know they were wrong, and ask forgiveness, just like any other relationship. In this case, God created everything, including humans, and gave them a choice. Believe in who created you, or put false gods in front of him, or deny there is any God. Your choice, free will. Good deeds are great, but he has his rules, which makes sense because he created everything and knows us better than we do. If there is a God, what's more important? Treating others well and forgetting your creator, or treating others well, and believing in him? God, if he has indeed created everything from just his mind, surely can do much more, including knowing your heart. Hypocrites can't fool God. Believing in God and then doing whatever you want, including hurting others, isn't how he wants us to live. We all sin, but some of us have a conscience and don't like our own actions. Doesn't take much to believe that we were created and didn't just happen by chance, which means we have a creator, and if so, that entity is in charge.

Do you have proof of this? No? Then your opinion means nothing, so it's best to keep your doom thinking to yourself, because those who believe , believe otherwise.

Actually anyone having sex without some form of birth control is stupid in a way. If you don't want the girl (woman) to get pregnant, and don't want the responsibility of a baby, use birth control. If she doesn't, you do. Pretty simple, and the world's population would decrease tenfold. Teens, and some adults, have a lot of trouble saying no. Yes, the woman has the power so to speak, because stopping a man when he's charged up isn't easy, but it's in her hands as far as allowing someone all the way.

I know that would usually be the best choice but I had to live here, and do, at least until I get my daughter out of here. I couldn't leave back then with my daughter because she was too young to consider taking her. I know what she did with her two previous daughters and know it's only time before she gets to be a burden she won't want. She knows my daughter will go to the US, it's just about when, and that has to be in less than three years. I'm not afraid of someone with a knife. A gun , yes. I just told her to put it away the first time. Her sister got in between us the second and the same the third time as the first. It seems to happen alot here, them going for cutlery. You see it almost daily on the news, either knives, machetes or sticks. I didn't pick well this time but my daughters future is a priority so I'm here for now.

Many of the theories about how long ago things happened are theories, by scientists that might just be mistaken. It's possible. Only way we will know the whole truth is when we die, and you can ask God, if he lets you in, depending on if you believe in him or not.

Having money isn't changing much besides having them in a little better school. They still have to live here. Many of their peers are boys, raised without fathers or with absent dads who don't teach the main things a man needs to learn about a woman. Buddhism looks at women as inferior, hoping they will re-incarnate as a man. This starts the ball rolling with them thinking women are secondary, which they aren't. Generations of thinking men are superior, something which rings true in all Asian nations, has women thinking they deserve better, which they do, as they see from hearing what goes on in western countries. Of course there are chauvinists everywhere, but it's a little stronger in Asian culture. Thailand allows men to get away with not paying for the children they make, although it's a law, but rarely enforced. This attitude says women are the sole responsible parent. People allow children to drive scooters here at age 8, which is illegal and very dangerous, and not enforcing that they wear helmets. No one can deny this as you see it every day. Most of the people that die everyday are not wearing helmets and who lets them do this from an early age? A high percentage of teenage girls here are molested, and many of this happens in all schools, including the higher paid ones. Crimes against women are not enforced like they are in western countries like the US. If you rape there, you don't get to pay your way out of it. You go to jail, and are labeled a sex offender, something which anyone can find out about. Having the men leave after childbirth without supporting them tells the moms they need to go to work elsewhere to send money home to grandma, who's watching the kid(s). This happens here more than 35%, more than any other country by far.In other countries, the man(or woman) is held accountable or he goes to jail. Human trafficking is huge here, and no one is safe from that and forced labor. Corruption is huge and it factors into this trafficking with some officials.

A lot like I said are actors, until they get what they want. Some are feminine by nature. There are women that are feminine but can go off to protect what is theirs, meaning family. I've known a few women that acted sweet like you say, but were hiding a narcissistic personality that wanted full control, and came at me like a monster when they were angry at others but I just happened to be there. The last one here came at me with a knife three times, for the same reason,or for a minor argument when she was in a bad mood.

But not a good place to raise them.

The definition......... molecules formed by atoms consisting of antiprotons, antineutrons, and positrons. Stable antimatter does not appear to exist in our universe. "standard theories say that matter and antimatter were created in equal amounts after the Big Bang" Again, we believe God made all things happen, including the "big bang". .

Again not my intention and I'll separate from now on, seeing it bothers some.

The three wives I've had were attractive. One was feminine, although she could go off. The first wasn't feminine and I had three kids with her. Turmoil throughout, but I stayed because of the kids. Until the divorce which ended a few problems but brought out more. Another story. The next was a girlfriend I had a child with, who had depression and was hurting from her childhood. She gave me our daughter and went away. She was okay as a woman but her history had her not being feminine because of fear. Her emotions were kept inside for most of it, unless she was angry. The third wife was here. A very pretty narcissist that kidnapped our daughter until I divorced her. Strong willed, liar, sneaky, manipulator and not feminine at all. Many others I dated ran the gamut from very feminine to tom boyish to plain mean.

This is from Wikipedia. It mentions a few of the things I consider feminine behavior..https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femininity

The best time to learn English or any language is 5-7. She speaks English well but her school only promotes Thai grammar and little English. I'm teaching her English on paper and she's learning history from me. I work with an English school here with a Thai owner that has been to the US many times, and learned there. His words."If she loves that child, she will let her go with you as soon as possible so she can keep up with other children her age". We have to leave before she is 10. She will be 8 this Fall.

I just type and post. it isn't my intentions to be rude or inconsiderate. I just want to get my ideas out and post them. I do understand what you're saying.

When I said acting like a lady, I meant being one of course, not like an actor in a movie. A lot of women aren't feminine but are gorgeous yes, but it also goes the other way. If a woman is empathetic, emotional, caring, nurturing and compassionate, she is being feminine. I changed my wording.

Scientists, about half of them, don't believe in God but have theories, such as the big bang. We believe all that happened was God's actions, and didn't just happen, as I said. Matter has to come from somewhere. Everything in the universe is matter.