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I met one online, a doctor, and came here to meet her. She told me to stay in a certain hotel, and guess who worked there? You look at a women that's very pretty, and speaks English also, and sometimes things happen. I should have stayed with the original girl. My mistake, but I created a beautiful child, and she's why I'm still here, until we can leave that is.

And you are? Wait, you don't care either way, as long as you get yours right? I'm what's called an empath, meaning I care, and that gets you in trouble when you put your trust in women that turn out to be narcissists or very damaged in childhood.

Along with the thousands that are still married, and working in restaurants they opened with their husband's help. I know of 7 personally in the San Antonio area who own restaurants that are doing extremely well. I've talked with many, both men and women, and they've told me they will never move back here because of the better living conditions in the US. There are some that might have scammed men into moving there and because prostitutes or just weren't good wives then were dumped, so they had to make do. Hard to tell if you don't actually know people personally, as most don't.

Nothing to do with the little head but trusting the wrong woman. It wasn't a scam. She still lives in the same village but I'm in the house because I paid 100% for it. She wants to come back but I have no interest because when trust is gone, so am I.

Obesity is catching up fast here for exactly that reason, and there are hundreds of thousands of great restaurants with food from all corners of the world there. Another thing you won't know unless you visit, or live there.

I left to build a house for my now ex and our daughter. Being used, along with lied to etc, is why I'll be leaving asap with my daughter. I made a mistake moving here but she didn't want to leave her family, most of whom she can't stand.

Better life, more opportunities, better pay, more things to do, treated better by men, not looked at as inferior. I never contradict myself.

No one is used unless they allow this themselves. You've never been married, so how can you comment on what a relationship more than a few weeks means?

You sound a lot ignorant, or you've never actually been to America, much less lived there for 62 years like i did. It isn't all millionaires. That's what Thais think. Wrong. Most people are just getting bay there also. It has great food, more variety of food, great beaches, mountains, lakes, resorts and a lot more to do than sitting inside hiding from the heat and sun. It's cheaper here, and that's about it. Isaan is about the most boring place on earth, and that takes in lot of Thailand. Yes, there are good things here, but a multitude more in the US.

How many Thai women are actually happily married? In case you don't know a simple fact, most women will never know a true, real love in their lives, and almost no one will get it twice. Thai women do prefer their own kind, as shows in marriage statistics,but they aren't happy like you think they are. The Thai divorce rate has been climbing yearly, almost to 45% now. This means a lot stay unhappy also, just like everywhere else. A good man can understand any women if he wants to, even with the language barrier. Marrying someone that speaks none of your language isn't a smart idea, but anyone can learn if they want, although it is a barrier to a relationship, seeing communication is one of the most important things. It's true that most Thai men don't single women in bars. It's also true most Thai men don't want anyone who's had kids before them. Farangs are okay with this, as we think differently about children than they do here.

Thai men left them because they could. The justice system doesn't make them pay for the children they make. Buddhists religion looks at women as inferior, something the men take to heart, especially if they've learned this false thinking all their lives. I never liked barmaids, preferring to find women (2) here in Isaan that were normal workers. They both worked, one in a hotel and the other in a tesaban. You, like you said, like to move on after you're had your fill, not wanting to get to know them better as humans but only using them for their bodies. I prefer a relationship that grows, and hopefully lasts.

What's better? Anything they have here all other countries have, without the death rate on the roads, the inferiority thinking of women, climates where it doesn't rain for 5 months straight then dry for 5. What's to enjoy in Isaan besides drinking? The beaches are nice if you live near them, but that's also most everywhere that has beaches.

I myself watch daily news, from here and all over the world, and my girlfriend does translate to me the daily Thai news . She also tells me how the men are here, what her girlfriends say, what her three girlfriends tell her about the US and Sweden, where they moved. She tells me how her friends here are treated, both by the locals and some by farangs. Look at the lakorns and you'll see a lot of what goes on here towards women, without the heroes installed in the shows.

Yes, some do, and to live a better lifestyle.

I'm for helping out decent women, and if you prefer to call it rescuing, so be it, because that's pretty much what we are doing if we're taking better care of them than they previously knew. And I'm thinking you don't know a thing about the US besides the bad news you hear, from not even going there. Facts are, almost all of the Thais that move there, and it's quite a lot, never come back here. There are reasons for that, and it's not all about money.

And you and your clueless "friends" are making a mountain out of a molehill, because it isn't happening that much by farangs but daily by locals. I miss no points and see lies and made up stories for what they are. Brown nosing or farang bashing, especially towards nationalities other than your own. How do "we" all know about the high rates of farang alkies hitting their Thai hookers? Where is this news coming from? Again, 4 farangs hit women here, and of course it's newsworthy, but a few hundred locals doing the same to their hookers, girlfriends or wives and you'll see one on the news that might have killed her. I\ll never stick up for anyone hitting, abusing or taking advantage of a woman, and they need to be punished, but that also includes the majority of the male population that gets away with it daily.

What you don't see, by your posts, is that at least some of us are taking care of Thai women here, while you go from one to another to another, using them and only seeing them as meat.A woman that's been with a Thai man that's left is the norm, and not a whore because she wants a chance at a better life with a farang, who usually has more money, is a better provider, the chance to leave a third world country for one that's better in almost all ways, a father figure for her children instead of a local who only stayed for the sex and didn't provide for the child he made, the chance for better schooling, and seeing their mom treated better has a more positive effect on their future than a dad that was never there. As far as your ridiculous post, as others have attested, daily abuse, rape, neglect and beatings happen to Thai women nationwide. Farangs get news because we are a tiny percentage of the population. You see it daily on the news, a tiny fraction of what goes on all over. For every story about a farang hitting his woman, there are a hundred about locals. You'll never see this on local news because there are only a few networks here and most of the news is about snakes, gold thefts, traffic accidents and people ganging up 5 against 1 hitting him with sticks . And not all farangs are old and fat. Some take up with women 35 years their junior and that's all about money, and it happens all over the world. Many are less than a 20 year difference and a lot of farangs take care of themselves and aren't all drunks. By now everyone on here knows what you think of women, and looking like you are somehow sticking up for them isn't what you're all about. Using women one after another is also abuse, and it lasts longer.

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Isaan lawyers have an English speaking attorney, along with translators. Based out of Korat but will travel, extra costs of course. There are many lawyers around. Siam is another. You and her will need to go to the amphur to sign. I'm thinking there are process servers here. If she doesn't agree on split 50/50 of marital assets, you'll need to see a judge, and having a lawyer helps. The house will go to her unless you fight for it and want to live in it meaning if you paid 100%, otherwise you could sell and split the profit. No kids no problem. I'm guessing your son is from a previous and since he lives alone that doesn't matter anyway. If you divorce and want to stay in Thailand, you'll need a retirement visa or work visa. Do you have any of her family that could give her your thoughts?

Depends on what you consider young. Teenagers ,no, most couldn't care less about their future health, children and driving conditions. Those past 25 and into their 30's , 40's and beyond think more of the future, their health, and their safety.

They could ask for more. Always hot and humid, with little respite, with the need to spend most of your time indoors. Less chance of food poisoning from a lack of monitoring of stalls. Sunny most of the time, the need to avoid to prevent skin cancer. Smiles hiding prejudice and hatred in many. Safer roads for himself and his family, which will never happen. Better schools for any children he creates. A culture that doesn't look at women and girls as inferior, hoping they will re-incarnate as a man. Harsher punishment for those trafficking drugs and humans. Less emphasis on what some foreigners do wrong and more on what the rest do right.

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You're lost if you can't understand equal pay for equal crimes. What gives a country a bad reputation is how it treats other foreigners, and it's money lost when those foreigners tell others what happened to them, and it gets passed along to thousands. People getting a slap on the wrist for murder while others go to jail for having one joint happens, and it has always been wrong.

Exactly what happens with migrants in the US. They are always arresting the workers and deporting them, daily, and who's hiring them? Rich, white landowners who are too cheap to hire US citizens. Sadly, a lot of Americans do not want to pick fruit and vegetables, so the migrants needing money are ready and willing. I don't blame them for wanting to work, especially jobs locals don't want, but do it legally, meaning the one's who hire them also.

People doing the same crimes are to be dealt with equally, no matter the country. Anyone going scot free for a crime that incarcerates another is a misuse of the judicial system and corruption, and not a good thing for international relations. There's a lot of hate crime worldwide and Asians are punished for the behaviors of their peers in situations like these. All people should behave, everywhere.