fredwiggy

Aldoprime is rust inhibitor but I don't think that will help him

Only problem with that is that narcissists rarely respond to therapy, and they are the biggest problem the world has.

You might want to read more posts before you reply. I haven't said a word about Thaksin, and he doesn't affect me so I don't care, unless or until he does.

It's been violent here since the first king was in reign. TV has news travel faster

Too much power to the wrong people

That was sarcasm. He's always been an idiot, though it's taken far too long for some, including some of my family, to get it.

Have to live in their house to know what's going on. People lie

They're prosecuting because he broke laws. He should not be exempt, as he's only a citizen now and not "special" anymore. And even if he was still president, that doesn't mean he can do the same things other corrupt politicians do and get away with it.

There is still some great music coming out these days, especially in the progressive rock, blues, southern rock and folk rock genres. I grew up from the 50's through the 80's, when most of the best music came out, so that has been a great thing, seeing I'm a music fanatic. Concerts were cheap. Seeing JFK killed on TV, and my mom crying, when I was 7, I'll never forget. Everything that happens now was happening then, only with much less media coverage, besides the mass shootings which are happening. People there have gone crazy, although I will move back home asap. I was almost to draft age when the Vietnam War ended, with the draft stopping in January, so I was happy about that. Gas was cheap until the nonsense about it running low, and the gas lines, which brought about rage and some killings. R&B music had some memorable tunes I still love to this day. I had my first cars, and should have kept the VW beetle even though the engine seized, and my friend and I had to push it back to my house 2 miles away, over a highway median, dodging traffic. We didn't think about getting old back then, only having fun and finding pretty women .

They all were fine with sex, cooking and helping around the house. It was how they treated me, especially seeing i do more than my share of domestic help, including taking care of the kids. Mental illnesses, including narcissism, which isn't curable, and depression, which is treatable IF they will agree, hurt relationships. It's not always the man's fault when things go wrong. Women who have been hurt by their parents, especially fathers, are likely to bring that pent up anger into their adult relationships, because they are looking for the perfect dad that was never there, and never will be in any man she chooses. My ex here had 10 brothers and sisters, from an abusive, absent dad, and a narcissist mom that had kids to boost her low self esteem, but pushed them aside one after the other when a new child was born. Neglect is as bad as abuse, and it makes new narcissists.And I might add, she to this day wants to come back, but I don't go back to someone who thinks she can take my child and hide whenever she gets mad, hit me because she was mad at her mother, and lies all the time.

Divorce if they won't act the part of a partner, then find another hopefully that will. There are reasons a woman won't give sex to her man, and if you're not there, you don't know the story. If you cheat, there's harm done. If you are giving a woman what she needs, and it isn't about money for a normal one, she will respond.

If they are a good woman, they are as good as you can get. That to me is a regular woman. One not paid cash for.

He wanted to exchange for items equal to the bin bags. That's an exchange, as you can for anything for equal or lesser value, depending on their policy.

If you treated them well, as i always do, and they don't respond, they aren't the right choice.And I'm guessing since you said, better than they deserved, they had problems.

I didn't see anything regarding him stealing anything. Just exchanging for other items or a cash refund.

That's first world, I fixed it for you

Up to age 80 in some cases, and on SS.

Doesn't take 30 years to understand what goes on here. Just personal experience in a lot of situations. He said insisted, and that could mean two things. In a gentle or harsh manner. I have insisted many times to speak to managers in a variety of situations, but was never rude or harsh, and they found someone who could help. Maybe the workers did yell and shout in Thai, maybe not. I've seen it happen many times with Asian women from all nationalities, both here and back home, so I know it happens. Maybe exaggerating, maybe not. But bringing back anything for an exchange isn't wrong. If they say no, and you keep going on, that's wrong, because it wasn't expensive or broken.

I don't assume. Finding, and keeping, a good relationship, is the hardest thing we can do. Most fail, and a lot just stay for many reasons, but harmony between two isn't easy to find. People come from different backgrounds, different parenting environments, and are two different genders, which leads to many problems, if you don't understand what to look for. I have made bad choices in women, but always wanted a good relationship, and did my part trying to understand the opposite sex and what they need. When you have the right person, things are easier. When you have the wrong partner, no amount of knowledge or attempts at keeping the relationship will work. I'm still hopeful, and will always treat a woman like I want to be treated. If they can't respond, or are damaged, it will mean looking again.

And I was just joking. Well, first hand experience beats heresay.

How long was your sentence?

Not a possibility, as I pay my bills first. Lived there, paid for a house 32 years, before moving here. I would have stayed in that house if she moved there, but she wanted to stay in a country where she had no relationship to speak of with anyone in her family. When I go back, I'll rent to own, and then mortgage, just like everyone else does that re locates.

I did read the article, and a few thousand before that, and lived it with many girlfriends and a few wives. If you read my previous reply, I stated more reasons, which included harmony. Harmony means both are in tune, which does mean happiness and having fun also. Couples that laugh together stay together, because of harmony and shared interests. People stay together and say many things, after an affair. A lot stay together, especially the women, because of financial reasons, and have to live with the fact their significant other felt the need to go elsewhere for sex. If you are in tune, and have harmony, and communicate the right way, you won't look elsewhere. People that cheat are unstable, and look at their partners as objects and not as a partner. Narcissistic personality disorder, something not easily cured, is the reason they cheat. Another is drug addiction and impulsivity. Sex addiction from past trauma. People lie about their relationships not to lose face, and saying things are okay when inside they are hurting, is a defense mechanism.

I don't need to tell myself anything. I'm well aware of the dynamics of relationships. I've been in some good, and some bad. I don't think you understand what I wrote, because it's true. Relationships end for those and other reasons. I just mentioned some that are in the front. If you have harmony, that means you are both on the same page, in sex, children, whether to have or not have, financial decisions, where to live, basically future plans. People stay together, if they are both stable mentally, if they are friends and lovers, allowing both to have space, not letting anyone into your personal lives, no abuse, cheating or neglect, and communication. People leave for bull**it reasons all the time, because they were never taught by their parents, either by word or actions, how to relate to the opposite sex. Children learn from day one how people relate to each other, and if they see conflict where one is the victim and another the perpetrator, that's what they think is normal, and their future relationships will suffer. Some are greedy, and money ruins that relationship. Some have addictions not dealt with, and that ruins more.

Sex doesn't keep people together. Harmony does. When it's not there, or there is deception, abuse or infidelity, all relationships end, even if you stay together.