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Dart12

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  1. 1 hour ago, Gsxrnz said:

    Wokeness has arrived in Thailand.  Only a few years ago and the headline would have referred to Ladyboys or Katoeys, not transgenders.

     

    I mean, I don't care if they are considered to be chicks with dicks, or blokes with tits, but losing control of the language to wokeness in (of all places), Pattaya - well, it's just sad.:coffee1:

     

     

    First thought I agreed.  However, it did not go west and say "Man attacked by 20 women"

    which would be teh case in the western media now.  And if you dared say otherwise, you are phobic and committing hate speech.

    See how they attacked JK Rowlings for standing up for women's rights as an example.

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  2. 17 hours ago, avidorn said:

    You're not helping! (Well yes of course it does, having more points of reference, I just don't want to hear that. ????)

    It's actually why I'm not leaving the country until I have a retirement visa, despite wanting to go back home for a visit.  

    If you have to, despite having money in the bank...save yourself the stress and fear and hire an agent for the first conversion.

    there are both pluses and minuses to the money game in thailand.  Use it to your advantage in advance f you got it.

    I personally could not stand the idea of being held in detention and denied entry after flying across the world, etc and having to bargain and make phone calls.  Maybe some get a kick out of that thrill of last minute spy chess games.  Idk.  Rather go the wealthy route and have a red carpet laid out lol.

  3. 1 hour ago, avidorn said:

     

    Think they're okay with returning visa-exempt immediately after a year of study? I feel like that or some other issue would be the main risk, which is the concern about exiting and returning.

     

    So no Chaengwatthana and instead the IT mall, eh?

    I have the same concerns when that time comes.

    I've heard many horror stories about reentry from an ED visa.

    And that getting the retirement visa ends all those concerns about re-entry issues.

    If the normal application doesn't go well and you have to leave.  You many want to use an agent and a border where they are sure you will get back in with no hassle.

  4. 22 hours ago, Kaopad999 said:

    I agree. I'd go as far as saying that they purposely choose a more liberal/left-wing leaning group of girls in order to stir controversy.  Fruthermore, he wasn't in any way disrespectful. He came in and was very honest about his views and what he expected from a relationship, which says a lot more than many men who would just say anything in order to get in the girls' pants.

     

    USA
    2 Men make same  effort to connect with woman:
    Man Not My Type = now harrasment
    Man My Type = I'm gonna steal a baby outta you tonight and lock you and your piggy bank down for 18 years min
     

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  5. 5 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

    Were the messages from guys in Thailand, or were they bogus stuff from guys all around the world just wanting to bs or chat?

    Guys all over.  Usually "wow you are so hot/pretty/fill in the blank compliment" kind of beginning banter.

    Throw is some penis pics lol, fetish people, rude people (begging and/or demanding meet ups).

    I should see if there is a chatgpt app that would syphon all those DM's and organize it into a book to sell online lol.

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  6. Unfortunately, a beautiful woman 18 to 30 can just post a single picture on FB or IG or Tik Tok and get 1,000s  if not 1,000's of incoming DM's.

    If she' is educated, now she doesn't even have time to answer them.

    No need to be on a dating app for them.

    However, if they are for example, my gf dating app had almost 8,000 incoming MESSAGES (not answered), no idea how many were clicked before me. 

    This isn't "liked by" This is incoming messages.  

    Same with random white knights  DMing their best shot.  

    Deck is stacked against the male still digitally.

    I won't concede it being against us in person though ???? when there is no clutter to break thru.

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  7. 2 hours ago, BangkokReady said:

    I'm sorry to have to sound like a doubting Thomas, but I find it very unlikely that an 85 year old man is attracting women in any other capacity than a financial one (other than women of a similar age).

     

    As you say, it's the "getting rid of them" that is the problem. This is very likely because the ones that don't want money now, are merely playing the long game and hoping for money some time in the future.

     

    Some women actually target the older gent, hoping to quickly get married and then for him to die and leave her all his money within a couple of years.

     

    I don't wish to be rude. I simply wanted to provide a different point of view.

    Anna Nicole Smith marriage method 101

  8. 3 hours ago, ChaiyaTH said:

    For sure you have to stop trying to be some fake perfect dude. Hiring marketing people to make a dating profile? Hiring people to manage apps? WTF, I would also run away in that case. The ladies might even think you are a nigerian scammer.

     

    And in terms of the more professional ladies, they usually not bother being on such apps, you have to meet them in real. So change the location, go where they go etc.

     

    If you look for something precise and are critical, chances are you never find it here. In fact, many girls are single for the same reason here.

    When single I've thought of doing the same:  hiring someone to reach out and handle replies to a certain point. 

    It's a full time job being on an app, at least here in Thailand, to start talks and get any traction...also to weed out all the customer seekers (which still takes time).



     

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