to me thai womens are all the same, it doesn't matter if they work in a bar or they are normal women, they are all teached to take the big fish. My suggestion is to come here and enjoy your life alone, just hangout, have a girlfriend but do not marry, it will cost you money for sure. I have learned lots of things here to not fall into these traps. They don't care that you feel alone believe me. I prefer to stay alone really, i am happy with myself and i only spend my own money for myself. I know many foreigners even got kids with thai womens, that is more money to lose. Lucky me i didn't make kids, i was not so silly