Tell that to the Jews (6 million dead), or Russia (20 million dead).
Pol Pot wanted to eliminate the family structure to create a Utopia where government knew better than the parents, and he ONLY had to kill 1/3rd of his population...It didn't work.
I'm sure the millions they all killed never thought, "Huh, well, I'm glad society hasn't broken down".
TO EACH his/her OWN after they become an adult, but leave the STATE out of parents' and their kids' lives (aside from abuse), and I would argue that allowing my little boy to get a tatoo, or smoke methamphetamines, or get his willy lopped off all fall under the title of abuse.