Danderman123

In theory, the electric baht bus would charge after it's route were complete. You sound like some in 1910 claiming that horseless carriages are useless, because of the gasoline running out thing.

As I mentioned before, the deepest secret of a bargirl is her Thai boyfriend, she doesn't want her customer to know. The other day, a lady in my condo was so drunk, her Thai boyfriend had to come pick her up. So, her secret was revealed, and I have been wondering how she would handle the revelation. The Official Story now is that her boyfriend went back to Isaan, and she doesn't know when he will return. So, he disappeared from her life within hours of my discovering him.

As I mentioned before, some bargirls do housework for me. But some do not. The problem comes when I have 2 ladies come one after another who don't clean. My overnight lady didn't even make the bed.

When the first lady was a no-show, I did consider just staying in Samui alone. But I had already promised the second lady a trip to Samui Someday. So, by taking her to Samui, I avoided the expense of a second trip. Gotta watch those satangs.

They are shy around each other. Plus the "no sex drive" thing. But I did go with them together to Dubai and Turkey. And South Africa. And Bali.

This is a bit odd: I go with twin bargirls (not at the same time). One told me some time ago that she lost interest in sex when her third child was born. Okay, bummer for her Thai husband. Last night, her sister told me she lost interest in sex when her third baby was born. Bummer for her Thai husband and her Farang boyfriend.

I don't know what's so hard to believe. One lady failed to show up, so I bought a ticket for another lady. Both had requested to go to Samui many times. But, the second lady forgot to bring a swimsuit.

So, one bargirl I know claims to have broken up with her Thai boyfriend months ago, and hasn't seen him since. For months, the official story has been "no boyfriend" and she has no idea where he is, or what he is doing. Except last night, when she was in my condo and she got so drunk that her Thai boyfriend had to come take her home. Today, she is suffering from a big loss of face. No idea how she is going to explain that away.

The backup lady came the next day using a ticket I purchased for her.

I know an older lady who "visits" me in my condo for overnighters, periodically, over the last year. Lately, she has been asking to go to Koh Samui with me, which I agreed to do. One odd thing about her is that she will send messages asking for money, due to some personal crisis, which I decline. The big day arrived, and she failed to show up when my airport taxi arrived. Instead she sent a message that she would meet me at the airport. Of course, she never showed, and went radio silent. No problem for me, I had a backup lady, who had also been asking to come to Samui, and had a fun 2 days there. But the second lady had previously arranged to come to my condo, at 2 pm today. And didn't show up today. Probably with a customer. She's a sucker for young Farangs with no money. The first lady sent me a message that she didn't go to Samui because I never gave her money when she requested.

Don't bother mansplaining to your Thai lady, if its not about Thai food, Thai singers, or her family, she will fall asleep.

and then she married Rupert Murdoch.

What is a "mang Da"?

you got it

oh, yes, I do ask about their lives before working bar.

Gentlemen, I am only talking about ladies with no common interests with their Farang, and so, little communication. My point is that its possible to have communication with a bargirl, if you talk about her interests - which center on bars and bargirls. Stray from that, and she is ready to sleep. Which means, once removed from the bar scene, things get quiet quickly.

I have many ladies cleaning my place. For free.

As long as the girlfriend is in the bar environment, fine. But, once away, nothing to talk about any more. And, in the bar environment, the meter in her head continues to operate, reminding her of the baht she could be making if she works bar.

Yeah, this is a new take on an old subject. Its obvious from this forum that marrying a Thai lady is fraught with perils, from her going crazy after marriage, financial needs, family demands, etc. But one issue is common among many failed marriages - lack of interest between husband and wife, ie nothing to talk about. You see hints of this in bars where a Farang will buy a drink for a lady and they just sit there silently, until the Farang sees another Farang and they talk about Farang stuff while the lady is ignored. On the other hand, I know a lot of bargirls here in Pattaya, and can talk about the one thing the ladies like to talk about - other bargirls. Who broke up with their Thai boyfriend, who is marrying a customer, who is borrowing money from everyone, lots to talk about. But, take the same lady out of her bar environment, and there is nothing to talk about.

This is a major downside of legally binding yourself to a Thai lady - you never know if and when she will inform you of some million baht debt to a loan shark. There is no way to know ahead of time, and not much you can do about it. If you refuse to pay, your life will be a living Hell.

It looks like a satellite landed in Bangkok and was promptly ignored.

Lots of bargirls might work 10 years, and end up flat broke, for the reasons mentioned above. But, there is some segment who are on drugs or mentally ill, and so are quasi-functional in life. They can hold up in a bar, but outside the bar, things get dicey. Even if you don't hang out with them, there are warning signs like frequent changing of their bar (yeah, ladies will move around during Low Season to find a bar with customers, but not so much in High Season). And they do no-shows a lot. When they get too old or too whacked out to find customers, things get sad. If they are lucky, they can find a man to take care of them.

There are still flights from Russia, but it's seasonal.

I pay Bolt 500 baht to go to U-Tapao, and with the new motorway, it's a short ride. I pay 1000+ baht to go to Suvarnaphumi.

Bolt cost me 500 baht yesterday.