A lady I know is being bankrupted by the upcoming ordination of her son as a monk. He is doing the 9 day express package, but it's still going to be a big event with 80 guests.
The lady claims the big event is necessary, but the cost is driving her to tears (no, I am not paying a satang for her).
The question is whether such an event is really necessary; if so, can it be pared back?
But also, I noticed that many life events in Isaan require big expensive celebrations, centered around a temple. This seems to force much of the population into poverty.