Everything posted by Danderman123
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
All of her bargirl friends see her posts, plus her Thai husband. She claims her Farang boyfriend isn't on Facebook. I have never seen a bargirl post repeatedly about a customer they are not with, or doesn't send money. It must be puzzling for the bargirls to see. I did have a bargirl in England post about me recently. She is with her alleged English boyfriend, so it was a signal to her friends that he isn't the boyfriend and she wants to come home. Not necessarily to see me, but to go with customers.
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Being Single VS Marrying a Thai Lady
She does get the occassional marriage proposal from 2 week millionaires.
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Bar Girl / Prostitute.
I appreciate those guys bringing their wives to my condo. Even moreso when the lady is blind drunk and needs to go home.
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Bar Girl / Prostitute.
I know lots of bargirls who claim they are just doing it for their family but give their money to their Thai man.
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Bar Girl / Prostitute.
Au contraire, Thai men love their money.
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Being Single VS Marrying a Thai Lady
One Thai lady I often write about is actively pursuing me. She is 40, but gets a lot of customers. She has a Farang boyfriend and a Thai husband, but tells me that she is tired of both of them. Somebody might suggest that I go for it with her, but I know her too well: I do hear her talking to her husband on the telephone, not very pleasant as she screams orders to him, which he ignores. She secretely gambles, so she has no money. She used to play cards, but her game was raided by the police and she went to the monkey house. She gets drunk every night. After an hour or so, she is pleasant, but after that, either becomes an angry drunk, or unconscious. She claims she lost interest in sex 10 years ago. Bummer for a bargirl. So, its much better to remain single and not have to deal with the consequences.
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
There is one bargirl who constantly posts about me. I could understand a bargirl trying to "woo" a customer via Facebook, but this one has a Farang boyfriend and a Thai husband.
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Suvarnabhumi immigration when with Thai spouse
This has been the case for me, if I am traveling with a Thai, I go through the Thai passport booths. Note that this is different from the AutoChannel system, which seems to be resting at the moment.
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
Not on my bucket list, although there are a few Toms who look quite nice. Oops, I forgot, I used to have a girlfriend who is now a Tom, actually 2. They both executed the same maneuver in bed - effective with a lady, painful for a man. The first lady I ever barfined LT in Thailand executed the same maneuver, and turned out to be a Tom, although you wouldn't know it by looking at her. But, I don't intend to "turn" a Tom, and, in fact, ladies who go with Toms are not much fun.
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My new Thai gf (35/f) invited me (42/m) to visit her family in Isaan after < 1 month of dating? I feel uncomfortable but agreed. What do you think?
Pregnant with a kid, sure. *His* kid, maybe not.
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
Cashiers operate under different contracts than bargirls these days, with the primary distinction that they don't get to take unpaid days off. So, a bargirl at the end of her 10 day contract can choose not to immediately start a new contract, and then can go back to Isaan for a few days. But the cashier just has 4 days a month for holiday. If she takes a day or two off, then she doesn't have enough time to go home that month. I went to Malaysia with a cashier last month, obviously a quick trip. And that alerted other cashiers to the idea of taking a holiday instead of the usual trek to Isaan. So now, a cashier told me that the head Mamasan of a chain of bars wants to go on holiday with me (along with the cashier). It's not smart for me to say no, but I know the Mamasan has a Tomboy waiting at home for her, so maybe she will change her mind.
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Stupid me! I lent a lot of money to a Thai woman.
Here's a different perspective on this topic: A lady friend mentioned to a Thai bar owner that she needed money. His response: "I can help you". He proceeded to hand her 50,000 baht in bits and pieces. 6 months later, he asked "when are you going to pay me back?" So "help" was Thai code for "lend" in this case.
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How to deal with a card game addicted wife?
It's not just cards, there are cellphone slot games for hardcore addicts. Plus, Numbers, although the latter doesn't cause huge losses quickly. Numbers addicts post their winnings on social media. If they don't post, it means they are losing.
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My new Thai gf (35/f) invited me (42/m) to visit her family in Isaan after < 1 month of dating? I feel uncomfortable but agreed. What do you think?
I recently went to the village with a lady, respectfully sleeping the first night with her in what passed for a hotel, got up in the morning, went to another village with another lady, left there and met another lady and went to her rather remote village (actually just a house out in the middle of nowhere). It didn't mean anything.
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My new Thai gf (35/f) invited me (42/m) to visit her family in Isaan after < 1 month of dating? I feel uncomfortable but agreed. What do you think?
Why are you giving her money if she works for an insurance company? More to the point, in Thailand, a lady takes money from a sucker, and gives it to her Thai boyfriend. And, no, taking a well financed sucker to the village is a major red flag. She wants to gain some face by showing she has captured a walking ATM.
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
No, posts about posters here are pointless and boring. So, this topic is about odd habits of bargirls. Last week, a bargirl turned up missing, ie she went radio silent for a few days. Her family contacted some of her friends, and one of her friends informed me about her being missing. After another day passed, I made a Facebook post asking if anyone had seen her. Within a day, I got a message from her sister. She didn't ask whether I had found her sister, she just asked to borrow money. This is is Thailand. BTW, the sister was okay, her cellphone had failed.
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
I should also note that this topic is about bargirls, and the Thai boyfriend is probably the biggest thing in their lives, outside the bar.
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Electric baht busses for Pattaya......Good idea or Bad idea.....
range anxiety was also an issue for horseless carriages....
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
Easy to go to Samui from Pattaya, flying out of U-Tapao.
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
It's the "deepest secret of a bargirl" thing. The bargirls all say " I no like Thai man". Hah!
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AOT Unveils Expansion Plans for Don Mueang Airport
Now, if they could just extend the airport rail link beyond Phaya Thai.....
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
He probably went to 7/11, which is long enough for her to report her boyfriend is "gone".
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
In this case, the lady has admitted that he's the boyfriend, and provides intimate details. But the official story is always He's Gone Now.
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Indiana Jones and the Dial of Destiny review: Uneven and erratic despite a game Harrison Ford
It was much better than I expected. Probably the only flaw was non-introduction of characters with no background information. They just appeared with zero indication of their motivation, apart from some scraps later on. So there were some "who are they?" moments. Apart from that, the movie was pretty good. Better bone up on your Greek history, though. I gave my Thai lady friend a briefing on Archimedes before the movie. Sure enough, what I told her featured in the movie. Unfortunately, she had zoned out during my briefing and was totally confused by the historical references.
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Odd Habits of Bargirls
I wish. So now, it's the morning after, and I can't clean the condo because the overnight lady is still sleeping at 12.10 in the afternoon. And I have a lady coming at 13.00. Oops.