You must be lost? I have not lost any house. Why are you posting about a need to prove manhood. For most people this is an automatic function in life. Just because you get older and starting to become impotent, does only mean you are changing. Not the world around you.
Your comment is delusional at best. What you are talking about is people coming to Thailand, and falling in love with the first girl that touches them. Usually a bar girl. Another option is to be stupid and do things too quick. Before I built a house, I was living together with my wife for a little bit over 10 years, renting and still having a good life. Today same, but now in a house having a good life 5 years after. So, nothing has changed.
The only ones who have the specific problem you are lifting out in the light is stupid losers that can´t protect themselves, no thinking capacity and living a life where stupidity rules. Unfortunately, it seems like the world is full of that kind.