Wow! What an old view. We haven´t updated in many decades, I can read. So, you blame the women because the government gives them all they need, so you have nothing to offer them. I assume you also are out of the belief that when a women do not share your bed, they should cook, clean and wash. ????????????
Welcome to the 21st century. You know, the years where you can have exciting conversations, and share ideas of life. The time when you should treat a women as more than just a dependent companion in bed. But, somehow I think you will not get that.