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Nothing hidden and nothing insulting. Just speaking plainly.

What proof would you like to see and will you donate 1000 baht to charity when you see it? I don’t back down from challenges, so let’s make this happen.

I would tell you to your face. It’s my speciality. No hidden insult. I just say what I mean. I even illustrated it with pictures. That’s what many think. It doesn’t matter to me how you feel about it. We are simply discussing it. That many think that ‘pedoes’ go to Asia for small women, in the absence of young girls. That’s a fact.

“I had to pick a girl” means that I’m gay?? Are you a moron? Friend is my peer. Girl was my date. No wonder you couldn’t find a decent woman in your own country… thick as a brick.

What does ‘age gap’ and ‘happy and healthy relationship’ have to do with “height and weight”? Don’t be silly now. Discuss sensibly.

Why so desperate to disbelieve me? I don’t care if you believe or not. But I tell to illustrate that there are lives and perspectives beyond your view and your understanding.

Yes. Because he knew that I would neither enter a bar, nor pay for any company. Actually, it was my birthday and I was quite annoyed that he planned to spend it with his Thai friend. It was my upset that prompted him to make the suggestion that we all go out together. So I had to pick a girl. The difference is that I didn’t expect to have sex with her. He was willing to pay for that, but I only wanted him to be there for my birthday. The only way was that double date. I just tell the truth; no problem.

My memory works. As I stated earlier, the amount is irrelevant. Your claims of a ‘millionaire lifestyle’ are just laughable. You sound as if you are still early twenties. Just a silly kid, being silly.

A guy a decade older than his date appears perfectly respectable. It’s not so much about the age, but if you actually have something in common other than sexual attraction(for you) and your money(for her). If you actually can create a healthy and happy relationship, the age gap is almost irrelevant. Ten, twenty, thirty years… up to you.

That’s how you think. Don’t assume that it’s the same from everyone else’s perspective. Allow me to give you a really obvious example… In the NDR/AJ/DW video report being mentioned in the news of late, there is a man trundling down Walking Street perhaps, with a tiny woman in tow. Now it’s very likely that she is of age. But how many people watching would rationalise in that way? They see a girl perhaps not even reaching the waist of a man and reach the obvious conclusion. It doesn’t matter if she’s in her 20’s. It matters that you picked such a tiny woman.

Then you are still immature. I tell the truth. Make a note and ask me the same in ten years time. The story will be exactly the same.

I think the previous time that I sat on a Pattaya bar stool may have been in 2006, for a friend’s birthday. He paid for that, for a girl to accompany me to the cinema and for a meal afterwards. A double date. I stayed friends with the girl for many years afterwards. She would visit. No money requested nor given. Yes, it’s absolutely normal when you have absolutely normal relationships. When you have financially based relationships, money perhaps flows in just one way. I tell the truth.

‘Millionaire lifestyle’ is someone who lives in a (£400 a month) 50sq.m apartment without even a sea view and who HAS to work?? Baht millionaire perhaps. You are just a 🤡

Aaahh…. now it’s a “dumpster forum full of misfits’ 🤭 Is that why you joined? To be the ‘Lord of the Dumpsters’? It must be galling for you that no one here gives a 💩 about your income. That you need something else here in order to stand out….and you haven’t got it. Pity. Pitiful.

I don’t think anyone here of any standing would think that I’m a Troll. That would be somewhat ironic when so many complain about the world being too ‘politically correct’. So why complain when people speak plainly? Saying what they mean and meaning what they say. I speak from my perspective and you from yours. That’s how it works. To a lot of people, your penchant for tiny, childlike women would raise eyebrows. That’s just a fact, whether you like it or not.

LOL… how old are you? Show me where I generalised. In stating that the ‘easy, cheaper and readily available girls” are ‘easy, cheaper and readily available’? It’s a truism.

What a dull cliché. Does that mean that you will give 1000 baht to everyone who told the truth? I guess not. You think because it doesn’t happen to you, that it doesn’t happen. In my life, it is absolutely normal. It’s not that I would accept that it happens every time, but sometimes I just allow it to happen. You’ve just created an existence wherein it doesn’t happen.

I agree with you for when it comes to harmony. It’s also possible to strike that balance with women who are not Asian 😊 The biggest problem I have usually, is jealousy; sometimes to the point of paranoia. I cannot accept that. There has to be trust in a relationship or it won’t work.

To be fair, it’s the easy, cheaper and readily available ones who fit that description. I don’t want to generalise, like so many here do, about Asian/Western woman.

Again, nope. Of course I’ve met some difficult women. But I’ve also met intelligent, attractive, wealthy etc I could post pictures and video that would put most of the pictures people pull off the Internet to shame. But mine are real people. Someone might record a classical piece on piano for me. Take me to a concert where I’m not paying. Something interesting and stimulating. Not going to happen with your Thai friends. They are a compromise. Not of interest to me… at all.

You make the USA sound awful. But you must understand that the world is not just the USA. Even the girls that I met from the USA were super generous. I mentioned to one that I was thinking of touring the USA and she posted me a tranche of stuff that might have been useful to me. Another recently bought an apartment in San Diego and has invited me to visit. Another side to the mean and mercenary picture you have in your mind. It’s your ‘reality’, not mine.

Where’s the sick bag? Such a repugnant post. Obviously your ‘good looking Brit mate’ didn’t know how to pull a decent woman. Not in London and not in Thailand. Birds of a feather?

Not everyone here is from the USA. I’m sure you are right about the mercenary attitude of some women. But I have not had that experience. In fact, in most of my relationships, the women have been very generous. Both in spirit and financially. If your friends are having issues, maybe they should look within. Women are people, just like them. Sorry, but to me, these people sound like losers. The fact that they think they look good and have some money obviously didn’t help. They are missing something. Failed there and so lowered their expectations. Sorry, but I like to have something in common with my partners. To discuss and and make decisions together. To work together towards whatever goals we set. Not…. oh she still has the body of a kid and she’s smarter than the average monkey. That’s a pet, not a partner.

I obviously read them in order to reply to them 😊 Is there something written between the lines that you would like me to ‘see’? I already do. Two pathetic specimens who think money sets them above. It doesn’t. You can have lowlives with money and you can have good people with money. Money is not the differential. It’s the person that makes the difference. But you talk almost exclusively about money. That marks you out as an inadequate character. That you lean so heavily on money as a person. Is there nothing else to you?

Show me a post where I have talked about bargirls… Have you detached yourself from your brain? Your last two posts here make no sense at all. I don’t have anything to do with bargirls, so your comment of “literally can’t stop talking about bargirls…” seems like a psychosis on your part. Can you back that up with some actual evidence?