I am about to turn 50 and I have to admit that perhaps I was wrong about not having children. I wanted to live a bit selfishly all my life, mostly because I watched my parents fight. I promised myself at the very early age I was going to be alone. My childhood life wasn't actually bad, but I always wished I had 2 parents with me. My father was abusive and sometimes I thought I would turn to be like him. I do have a very short temper, so I was right about that.
I left for Thailand 10 years ago. I got married 3 times. Marriages didn't work out because I don't want children. I can now see women's point of view. Even if your children turn out to be selfish, ungrateful bastards, at least in your old age you the illusion of having something that belongs to you. Because let me tell you, right now I have money and I don't even know how to spend it. I just need food and a place to live. The rest of the "stuff" I find completely meaningless.
My father died last year. Most of my family is getting sick and I know my mom even tho I am not with here is still happy to have me. She tells me this every time I speak with her, She doesn't need anything else besides the fact I exist.
This is a very short version because I know a wall of text in this forum does not go very well with posters.
My wife is 43 years. I am seriously considering Vitro right now.