Human beings are mostly deluded about their reality.
The govt is a (for the most part) benign system of control (not as democratic as it claims to be, but still mostly benign.
For now, anyway. It can in the future descend into an evil dictatorship, but your complaints are laughable about the current state of affairs.
Anyone who gets a decent education and works decently hard has a good to very high standard of living.
Most people who struggle have drug issues or are extremely lazy.
Most people screw up their own lives through their own mistakes.
Like I did for a while. I don't blame govts for my bad times.
As Elon Musk pointed out, a cell phone is a supercomputer in your pocket, but people don't appreciate the advances that society has made and enabled this tech to be available so cheaply.
As one example of how people are deluded about their reality. THEY put cheap computers in your pocket and you're still complaining that they're an evil dictatorship.
People don't appreciate much.
One reason relationships fail as well. People start taking their partners for granted, etc ...
Govt can't help you unless you screw your head on straight first.
This endless bickering about political candidates is nonsense.