I think you are lost, I think you have no idea how a war works. I think you should do some homework on how wars were ended in the past dealing with aggressor countries......
My own mother, who passed away at 85 years, still had thoughts of the Germans bombing London and her dodging the fall-out, bombed out of 2 houses too.
Civilians are always caught up in any conflict, with this one, you are defending the aggressors, Israel is doing its best to end it, for the sake of its own nationals who have been subjected to Nazi style atrocities.
If you want to point fingers, then point at the rulers of Gaza, it's their big mistake, and is totally of their own doing.....🥴