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  1. Perhaps we could do with more people like her down here. The local farang population have treated and rescued a couple of mangy soi dogs, but there are so many of the poor creatures. So I'm afraid it's the dog van taking them to Laos and Vietnam to end up on the table. It's supposed to be illegal, but the authorities turn a blind eye, If they didn't the place would be overrun with rabid, mangy curs a definate health hazard. Cruel I know, but perhaps better in the long run for the dogs and the humans that don't look after them!

    That's why they eay dogs in nam and some parts of asia :)

  2. Here we go again. The problem with you ( OP ) and your wifes application is EVIDENCE. That's what it's all about sadly. Do what the letter is told you to do. Do not apply again, until you have enough evidence. It's doesn't matter what, anything between your wife and you that is documented can be used. Further more, if you have other family ( OP ) in the U.K that can help financially, also add that paperwork. The more the better. You have to make the application some kind of bookwork. But make sure you have worked out everything.

    Report the number of this letter that is given to you, in your next applyment. If you need personal help, can always p.m me.

    I can sit all day at those embassies, and you can clearly see which people have dealed with the embassy before. Some come with a whole package, some with a few loose papers, hold together with a paperclip, that's mostly a failure.

  3. I'm rather well know in the supermarkets and other shopping centre, when I'm entering they give me a big smile already 20 meters before I enter the shop, also for the security guards at my condo, simply because I'm one of the great exceptions who say sawasdee and kob khun krab with them.

    And that's how it should be. I mean that man stands their maybe day in day out, for a few louzy bucks. And he also has a heart and feelings, either if he hasn't got any money.

  4. Is there a better chance if I'd go around in BKK, instead of mailing and calling? I've got about the basic same reactions from almost every foreigner, nor foreigner company, and understand those facts, that's it's very very very difficult to get a decent job out there in LOS, if NOT high educated.

  5. She is not a BG, but works in the tourism industry (and I know that for a fact since she has a licence. I cannot know if she was a BG before. She has never told me! Joking! Let's be honest! No man alive can know for sure what was the dark-side of a woman IF she does not want you to know! She might tell you, but will you know for sure it is not another story! :) In her line of work, she sometimes frequents BGs.

    She does not come from Isaan, but she is a farmer's daughter. She is 30. I am 47.

    I am splitting the B 4000 rent as she used to pay 2000 B for 12 m2 apartment and I would have to pay minimum about B 4000 myself. So this seemed a win-win situation for both of us. I usually pay for food and give her sometimes other gifts when people do.

    I am in the process of buying a car, but she wants me to put it on her name and, when I tell her, I want to put it in on my name, she does not want the car anymore. This makes me VERY suspicious, especially considering she does not have a downpayment. She asks me to trust her, but then when I ask her to trust me to put the name of the car on my name (so that she can theoretically be absolved of all the financial responsibilities and allow her to save some to have a downpayment for land/house and such, which is a good compromise since foreigners cannot own land anyway), she is not interested, saying that she is not able to save money! :D

    Slap yourself twice and give your head a serious shake. Then vote with your feet. 30k is one thing but putting the car in her name spells setup. When will the falang learn? Its no wonder many girls think they have won the lottery.

    Just be carefull, that's all I can say.

  6. Its necessary for a successful relationship that both parties are committed to working on it, to working out any problems. I think that its also necessary for both partners to be willing to make compromises, not one person doing all the demanding and the other doing all the acceding.

    Well said SBK. Thrust and honesty.

  7. My latest project.

    Fiat 600 D From 1962, with suicide doors!

    ( The 500 had a 2 cylinder air cooled, this is a 4 cylinder, water cooled )

    Lot's of metal cancer, but she will be fine. Engine was stuck also, after many years in the field, got it loose again and running, that's also ready to go in again. One side, is now in the bondo, and ready to be sanded smooth ( that's a pain ass job )

    Brakes are all stuck to. With some hard work, it hope to get it done in 3 to 4 weeks more.

    Some pics:

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  8. Got a talk with a Dutch/Thai company today, but not my thing. Into sales again :)

    Is there any hope? :D

    I am afraid, there is no hope for you :D

    I am living in Asia for 25 years. If you wanna be successful, you need to be self-driven, innovative, creative and don't ask others to feed you :D This way the survival game for you won't even start :D

    I am, but I'm not wanting to do things that are out of my field. Plus isn't it any normal you get a reaction back from Thai nor Foreigner companies when applying for a job etc? Is it a good idea, to find the job, when actually in Thailand? Because I don't see any positive development by mail nor phone calls. I really wanna go there, the sooner the better ( GF out there ), I'm willing to take the risks, I did that before.

  9. Yup it's a pain in the ass.

    besides english , think about teaching dutch. the pay though can be measly. your gf may dump you.....honestly speaking, unless she super love ya. :)

    She does love me, but family ( parents ) influence was to great to bring her to NL ( and other factors ), let stand alone some conflict with my parents happened.

    When she went back to Thailand, she did the Exam that was necessary to come here permanently, but then when arriving at parents, their influence part came...

    Now I'm the one that's into the shit, knees deep. And I really love my GF, and not wanting to give up. Yeah, life is a pain. I believe it's like AlexLah called it: it's the hope that kills you, the pain is easy.

    I'm allready 5 months without my GF now. Men has to set a point in life, wether he wants his career to go first or his own family. For me that's family. If there eventually will be no option, I'd rather stay single, and go for a career or something.

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