My mum is 89. If we go out shopping, etc. we link or hold hands. My wife is 52, if we go shopping, etc. we link or hold hands. My daughter is 13, if we go shopping, etc. we link or hold hands.
Cringe away!
A driver is 100% responsible for deciding what is a safe speed and braking distance for his vehicle.
Just one example: This evening I collected several packages of drinking water from Makro (around 500 litres, 500kg) in my truck.
This load makes a considerable difference to my braking distance, and I have to drive accordingly - leave a bigger gap and start to decelerate earlier.
The driver may not have been "speeding" (i.e. - Exceeding the signed speed limit) but, very clearly (as he hit a stationary vehicle at a red traffic light), he was driving faster than it was safe to do so.
Would a dimmer switch work?
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