As an after thought...
Why do you and others who justify this language spell the word as f@cking instead of using the correct spelling?
Do you address the immigration/police/other officials similarly, in any country?
Would you use this word in a court of law, a government office, etc in any country?
Can anyone give an answer to the above?
Normal should be normal globally, to my understanding e.g. Like saying Good morning.
I think, this language is considered normal only by people who live in an environment where it is considered normal - only for a people of a special calibre, that this style of communication is normal.
The civilised world, tend to differ.