payak

@Payak

Many of us have inexhaustible money supplies, aka pensions.

They pay us every month, we just have to be alive to collect.

It was a great idea while it lasted!

imagine if they cut the pension suddenly

Thai girls need to learn English if they want to have relationship, sorry if that upsets some but its true. I have the money she does not, she wants some relationship and a better life, she has to move more than me, I am the piper, if you get my drift. There are lots of girls where I am who would love to speak to me but cannot because they dont speak my language, all they can do is pour my Chang or Leo and smile, thats what my wife tells me anyway. I taught her English, to swim and look at things from a non Thai way, in return she teaches a bit of Thai.

You only have to look at everyday Thailand to see the amount of English that is mixed in with the local life and ask why does she not understand a bit more? Look at the road signs and the products on sale that are half in English, it is to her advantage to make a bit more of an effort esp with Asean coming up fast it will be more so for Thailand.

It doesn't upset me that you go for the kind of girl that needs your money. Some of us don't. You are the piper lol? Drinking Chang and Leo...you don't sound like a very wealthy man to me.

you have the money she does not hey, see how long that lasts lol.

Sorry, I don't follow you?

nongs saying he has the money they dont, with that attitude he wont keep it.

I wish I had a job so great it made me emotional for 20 years, I dont think I will remember mine in 10.

Thai girls need to learn English if they want to have relationship, sorry if that upsets some but its true. I have the money she does not, she wants some relationship and a better life, she has to move more than me, I am the piper, if you get my drift. There are lots of girls where I am who would love to speak to me but cannot because they dont speak my language, all they can do is pour my Chang or Leo and smile, thats what my wife tells me anyway. I taught her English, to swim and look at things from a non Thai way, in return she teaches a bit of Thai.

You only have to look at everyday Thailand to see the amount of English that is mixed in with the local life and ask why does she not understand a bit more? Look at the road signs and the products on sale that are half in English, it is to her advantage to make a bit more of an effort esp with Asean coming up fast it will be more so for Thailand.

It doesn't upset me that you go for the kind of girl that needs your money. Some of us don't. You are the piper lol? Drinking Chang and Leo...you don't sound like a very wealthy man to me.

you have the money she does not hey, see how long that lasts lol.

if people dont like it when i counter, dont attack.

this is what you guys do so expect it.

i wont leave because there are a few good men here, very few but there here.

out of curiousity does your wife speak great english?? your words not mine im a aussie i dont have to learn thai?? not a dig just curious?

I would not say great, However we can speak without pause, dont have to repeat anything, and I can talk at a normal pace, no baby talk.

I have no problem with bad English, I should have titled the thread no communication between a couple.

If he is grinning then he is surely happy and where he wants to be. Your wife lives with you in Australia, right ?.

off coarse she does,

Sorry I just thought you had a long distance relationship as I remember you saying your wife works at Siam commercial bank. I just assumed with there being no branches in Australia that you both lived apart.

my mistake, she worked at that bank, also worked at kasikorn for a time but i also said we recently had a baby so she is not working now.

will obviously not be working there in Australia, she is a housewife and mother now.

so what most of you are saying is talking to your wife well is not important, that you can use sign language and other things instead.

good communication is not important as long as you are still together and how dare payak raise the issue.

I thought the days of sitting around the fire pointing at your food and grunting was left behind in the prehistoric era.

There is no way you can truly claim to know a person if you cannot converse with them,no way.

Knew a guy who'd been married over twenty-five years. Great wife. Both spoke same native language. Both educated. She was a lay reader in their church. He'd been a board member for ten years, and a deacon. Four kids. Great family, did everything together.

Until that day the FBI came to church and arrested him for 13 murders. He was convicted on all counts.

His wife said, "I guess I never really knew him."

and this is so common right, so its better if we cannot speak, because sitting next to your wife, saying nothing, just sitting there like a grinning fool is far better.

If he is grinning then he is surely happy and where he wants to be. Your wife lives with you in Australia, right ?.

off coarse she does,

I am certainly not homophobic, this is a stupid statement that has nothing at all to do with this thread.

If i'm on the toilet, doing my thing, and someone comes over and begins touching me, and thats exactly what they do, it's rude.

you never touch anyone anywhere uninvited ever.

even my khatoey friends would agree with that, and just because i don't like a man touching me does not make me homophobic either, no connection whatsoever unless you need something to fuel an argument against me because you have no ammo.

I really do have gay friends, parinya the khatoey boxer is a good friend of mine, but they know not to touch me, no need to hold hands together.

It's called a service. If you don't want it, you can just say 'no thanks'. No need to get so uptight about it.

BS total and complete BS like i have never heard, they dont ask, they just come up behind you and do it.

then your trying to shake them of mid piss, thats not a service, they should have some respect and ask

they have been in a toilet for hours, touching everything in there, then come on put their hands on you.

its not about being uptight, services are not forced on you, they must give you a choice first, not just begin.

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I am certainly not homophobic, this is a stupid statement that has nothing at all to do with this thread.

If i'm on the toilet, doing my thing, and someone comes over and begins touching me, and thats exactly what they do, it's rude.

you never touch anyone anywhere uninvited ever.

even my khatoey friends would agree with that, and just because i don't like a man touching me does not make me homophobic either, no connection whatsoever unless you need something to fuel an argument against me because you have no ammo.

I really do have gay friends, parinya the khatoey boxer is a good friend of mine, but they know not to touch me, no need to hold hands together.

so what most of you are saying is talking to your wife well is not important, that you can use sign language and other things instead.

good communication is not important as long as you are still together and how dare payak raise the issue.

I thought the days of sitting around the fire pointing at your food and grunting was left behind in the prehistoric era.

There is no way you can truly claim to know a person if you cannot converse with them,no way.

Knew a guy who'd been married over twenty-five years. Great wife. Both spoke same native language. Both educated. She was a lay reader in their church. He'd been a board member for ten years, and a deacon. Four kids. Great family, did everything together.

Until that day the FBI came to church and arrested him for 13 murders. He was convicted on all counts.

His wife said, "I guess I never really knew him."

and this is so common right, so its better if we cannot speak, because sitting next to your wife, saying nothing, just sitting there like a grinning fool is far better.

How did we get from discussing the pros and cons of a lady's English ability to talking about arranged marriages ...

He's always got a hidden Agenda to his OPs,which translated is: my Wife/GF is the most wonderful creature on the planet,everybody else have got problem woman,because i'm a young handsome man,and only get the best.Shortly he will be on the: Old man Young woman theme.

Don't encourage him,this is only another Post of the same ilk!

if i have a hidden agenda i'm not exactly 007, because i'm pretty in your face about what i think right.

hence the reason I am often banned and am back on here again today after 4 days, hardly hidden, what you read is what you get so dont think to much.

if I want to discuss whatever it is you think i'm discussing you will know, it will be up in lights, loud and clear.

competition, are you serious.

the girls you get we dont want, you weed out the greedy shallow ones, we take the rest.

saw a black french guy selling hip hop clothing at the markets in lad prao.

I wasn't addressing you

me, sorry mate.

its liars i hate, why do people get angry here, if your relationship is legit you must not have an issue with this surely.

If you don't like liars then Thailand must be hard for you.

I am in a totally legit, financially compensated relationship.

She provides the housing and land, I provide the cash for those little luxuries (like a bit of meat with a meal).

Any clown can get a financially-compensated girlfriend or wife in Thailand.

Nothing wrong with it but what's so laughable is that you hold it up as if it's some kind of achievement.

never claimed to have achieved anything, many have what i have.

i wish them all well, to think i see it as an achievment is strange, could you be thinking that because you aspire to acheive this.

i like short time, sometimes long time

OK sound like i have to rethink about my words

So why you guys worry so much? They only gonna grab your shoulders..you guys talk like they gonna give you happy ending pee pee

I often go to one suburban Thai place that do this..if you let them massage once and dont tip they get the message not to do again.

I went back to that place after some time and did notice they put up a english sign "mini massage and relax-20baht"..cheeky bugger

Many falang here to miserable to even tip 20 baht to the real thai masseuse who labour over their fat smelly butt for 2 hours, so these guys soon know not to expect much

I say Relax maybe even then you will find you wanna pee longer so to get a longer massage

some of us here dont like to be groped by a man, and more so ripped off, if you dont mind it go right ahead with your man massages, maybe you will get extra.

I am bisexual and I don't want to be groped by a man or a woman or a transgendered person while taking a piss at a bar

if it was a woman i would not mind, she could even hold it for me and i will massage her for free.

your life insurance is popular here

its liars i hate, why do people get angry here, if your relationship is legit you must not have an issue with this surely.

If you don't like liars then Thailand must be hard for you.

I am in a totally legit, financially compensated relationship.

She provides the housing and land, I provide the cash for those little luxuries (like a bit of meat with a meal).

thats why i live in Australia, also full of just as many liars, its not a thai problem only, but i stick to myself with my family.

and select few friends.

Does this mean, then, that an older man doesn't have the right to get pissed off if his financially-compensated wife/girlfriend is "unfaithful" with a younger man?

No problem, as long as she doesn't mind me buying a younger woman for the night.

(and reducing the wife/gfs compensation accordingly.)

at least tommo knows what they want, and what he wants,

I would agree with that. If there is obsession about this topic it is with our younger members as the old guys figured it out eons ago. When I was 25 I was attracted to 25 year old women. I haven't changed I still like 25 year old women at 65 and I'm sure I will at 85. One of the keys to success is consistency in any endeavor.

The young guys who are 25 will also still like 25 year olds when they are older. They may just not know it yet. I do like 30 year olds though. I find them a bit more relaxed with life.

But the young guys believe, the 25 year old chicks are exclusively reserved for them. And get quite aggressive if they experience that their "true love" chick prefers an older guy with higher status and/or money.

probably very true, i believe this would bother many young guys. seriously your right.

but i'm happy to see 2 people together regardless of age if there in love.

and if i lose a girl to an older guy over money she was not the kind of girl i would give a second glance so the old guy would be welcome to her.

because he would now have a girl with him for cash, good luck, it would free me up to find a nice girl.

Everyone knows and has for years. What amazes me is that you don't know we know. The only people I have ever met who don't know the old guys know are young guys who post on Thai Visa.

I'd stop short of saying everyone (humans are capable of astonishing self-deception and denial) but I think the gist of your post is probably right: the average old dude with a much younger wife who is with him for reasons not entirely about lust or romantic love knows what's going on and presumably counts himself lucky that it is.

It's the young guys who seem to have a hard time working out something which is really quite simple.

I agree with you. What the young guys don't seem to get (and this has been raised ad nauseum) is that the old guys don't give a dam_n why their young wife stays with them. If it's for the money, so what? All this rubbish about old guys thinking that their 25 year old girl friend is with them for their good looks and charm, is exactly that. Rubbish.

ok then, if all the old timers know the girls are using them, why do they go to pieces when its pointed out.

then deny it.