payak

if it keeps up im going threw the bathroom like a tornado next time

all da ho's at my hood be minging.

i be kicking it real in the bkk where the GF's is right fit innit.

you know im saying.

If more than a fifty year difference, it might not be true love.

Even though the man is very hansum?

the elephant man is hansum when his pockets are full, brad pitt is ugly here when there empty.

unless its love they have.

How Much Of An Age Gap Is Too Much?

It's their life,and their choice, so wouldn't that question be best answered by the couple concerned?

it would be and will be.

but oppinions are allowed,thats why we have forums, our thoughts will not change a thing but we can and do share them.

i lived in samut prakan at fairtex muay thai camp in bang phli,

not good for children, boring.

if people get defensive the gap may be to great, shows a complex regarding the issue.

if you have or had a daughter, what age would you be comfortable with regarding her partner, there you will find your answer.

I do understand you probably feel that many people look at thailand and judge good girls badly because of their sex tour experiences.

who cares what they think.

i urinate in the shitter now, with the door well shut.

If more than a fifty year difference, it might not be true love.

great im okay then,its only 49 years difference,

there was a time when she was young enough you could change her nappy, soon she will be changing yours.

I'm curious about somethig the age gap arbiters can perhaps help me with: does the correct or acceptable gap remain constant regardless of respective ages?

Example:

Is a 31 year old allowed to be with a 20 year old?

How about a 50 year old with a 39 year old?

Both examples are fine in my book though i must say the first example would have more problems in a serious relationship as thai girls mature late. Many at 20 are not real mature.

I believe there is even a formula for it seen it here once.

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My question wasn't meant for someone as sensible as you! (I was really hoping that someone like the OP or the guy who thinks he has an idea of the age gap between me and my missus would opine. And my question wasn't actually sincere -- I don't need anyone's input on that).

Anyway, I think as a general rule, you are probably right. But you are smart enough to use the word "many". What if the first example, 20 years later, became the second? Would the concerns about maturity be lessened?

And (for those who seem to care about who is or isn't truly in love) what if the 31yo had virtually nothing to offer in terms of financial gain and if the 20yo initially supported him stuck with him over years of hard times and with zero assurance of any future financial comfort? Could it possibly be "true love"?

could well be love, i have always said some are really in love, but no one listens.

they only focus on the part where i write 90% are fake, and we all know most are.

but what you describe sounds sweet, but watch them disregard the part where i said some are in love, you just watch.

10 times in 2 pages before and still on they went.

i'm not against age gaps, just the bs ones.

Oh good! We haven't had this question raised in General for, say.... 3 months or so? It's like a red rag to bull for some. Isn't that so payak?

bulls are colour blind, but these guys can sure find girls with the ability to see green,

"How much of a age gap is too much?"

Too much for what? Or whom?

(For the moment I think I'm going to ignore the rest of the OP -- I know others will come along and say enough).

guessing your age gap is massive

There is no amount that is too much if you don't marry the girl. These old farts (like me) who somehow believe that a marriage between a senior citizen and a very young girl is anything more than financial for the girl are nuts. Nuts.

I can show a girl who is 30 - 35 years younger than I a really good time and not get ripped of by my standards. She gets what she wants in the form of a much better lifestyle for the time, and maybe leaves with a new scooter. (Did that once.) I get what I want and it's a lot cheaper than bar girls per day or month or however it's measured. Even if it wasn't cheaper, I prefer a normal everyday gal to a bar girl even though in honesty I have to admit it's still a financial transaction.

dam_n, finally someone who is honest, and has the brains to see it, i thought this day would never come.

go get em and enjoy.

Its all relative. look at Hugh Heffner and his tribe....anyone complaining over there ?

poor eg but everyone throws it up all the time, thats not a relationship its a bussiness transaction.

it's fine if there realistic and honest about, but not when they delude themselves.

heffner's is not love come on.

Your post is a reflection of how little you know about Theravada Buddhism but I am guessing this is a subject on which ThaiVisa does not invite discussion.

exactly, some thai people misunderstand the religion, nothing to do with wealth.

I don't want your respect, love or admiration. All I want is for the server in the restaurant to take my order in a timely manner and to serve the food properly. I just want the driver to take me from point A to point B so that I arrive safely and not have to be a "farang" fare. I just want the appliance I purchase to last more than a month. I want to be able to take ashower without fear of electrocution. When I walk down Bangla, I don't want to be accosted by touts with trying to sell me a picture with a suffering tortured slow loris, or to step on a live wire, and I want the cops to be crime fighters, not the criminals.

sounds fair, but on here it will get attacked by most.

somehow, and why I don't know,

How can a Thai girl who has a boyfriend who cant speak thai and lives in her country be happy with that???

They realise that many farang are handicapped in this area and accept it.

Can you imagine a girl in your country dating or marrying a man with a similar outlook. If she didn't teach him ENGLISH or he reused to learn, they'd be laughed at.

Here other Thais realise that many farang are too stupid or arrogant to learn a language.

My reply was sarcasm to a stupid Topic

and yet here you are, by the way most of my time is spent in Australia, I don't recall saying I lived in Thailand.

yes, one month staring up at the towers, what a joyful holiday.

most are mentally ill.

the vast majority.

so the majority of you agree, it does not matter if you can understand each other.

ok then,lol.

Not me but maybe most guys just want some to shag and clean the house and not bother them otherwise. To each his or her own.

You forgot 'produce babies' and 'supply the house'

supply the house, for you maybe, but i'm guessing thats not the case for most, the girls are getting houses, at the expense of the fools.

so the majority of you agree, it does not matter if you can understand each other.

ok then,lol.

OK sound like i have to rethink about my words

So why you guys worry so much? They only gonna grab your shoulders..you guys talk like they gonna give you happy ending pee pee

I often go to one suburban Thai place that do this..if you let them massage once and dont tip they get the message not to do again.

I went back to that place after some time and did notice they put up a english sign "mini massage and relax-20baht"..cheeky bugger

Many falang here to miserable to even tip 20 baht to the real thai masseuse who labour over their fat smelly butt for 2 hours, so these guys soon know not to expect much

I say Relax maybe even then you will find you wanna pee longer so to get a longer massage

some of us here dont like to be groped by a man, and more so ripped off, if you dont mind it go right ahead with your man massages, maybe you will get extra.

Could it be that you have something to prove to the other wannabe-alpha males here?

So why did you admit in another thread that you haven't had a girlfriend for 5 years?

All that stuff, but no girlfriend ...... what's wrong with you then?

Bleating on about Alpha-males and you can't get a girlfriend in the girlfriend capitol of the world Bangkok!

PS

I never claimed alpha-male status, I'm a nerd with money.

What do you mean "why did I admit I havent had a girlfriend for 5 years"?

Put simply . . . because that's the truth

I don't have to move a bird into my place to have the fun I seek.

I'm not such a loser that I can't bear to be be alone and need to have someone - anyone - to make my existence worthwhile and, unlike you, it takes more than an a "suck-it-and-see" overnight interview arranged by a young woman's bargirl sibling to satisfy my criteria for a girlfriend/partner/wife.

If it was just a matter of moving in a beautiful girl and limiting our conversations to superficial nonsense conducted in pidgin English then, believe me, I could pick up the phone right now and have a gaggle of truly stunning suitors outside my door in two hours flat but, unlike you, I prefer not to lower the bar.

I guess that's what's "wrong" with me.

love this

oh yes, if you find my spelling or grammer annoying, your wives must be doing your head in.

kind of proved my point, thankyou.