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my wifes sister has an amazing thai man, truefriend tome and gentleman to her.

he is one of the hosts on the soccer show, names mote, maybe you seen him, fantastic guy to her.

never bought a single thing for mine, took her family to dinner once.

I've got one word for you: Security.

When looking for a partner any girl from a humble background is first and foremost concerned with security (financial, emotional, etc), with looks, age, nationality, etc a distant second, and just an added bonus.

And let's face it, I'm pretty sure there's no shortage of western men here with girls from a humble background.

Pick a decent girl, as the OP claims to have done, give them the security, treat them well and everything should be fine.

Just my opinion.

If looks are such a distant second like you say i wonder why 1 in 3 Thai teens want to use diet pills or go for plastic surgery. Kinda contradicts a bit.

why dont thai dramas have old fat bald farang, because thats not the thai viewers fantasy.

the fat bald farang must tell themselves this to feel secure.

all people like good looking guys and girls.

give 2 people the same money, one old and fat, the other young and handsome.

obviously she will go the young man, unless she is mental.

nowget a girl who is not so interested in material things, just wants enough to get by and a loving family, she will go for love first and like anyone looks are a bonus, she will choose the one she is more attracted to and looks play a big part at first.

That would be right, especially if the young man is out on the piss with his mates every night.......there are many opportunities for young handsome men to lower their appeal.....for some it is second nature

so true, but not everyone goes wandering. there can be healthy age gap relationships, but they are often questionable.

do see many young ones playing up, but see that with the elders to.

i do knowsome thai girls that will not touch a man thai farangover 5 years there senior.

anything more then ten they say would make them vomit, not for every one.

all people like good looking guys and girls.

give 2 people the same money, one old and fat, the other young and handsome.

obviously she will go the young man, unless she is mental.

nowget a girl who is not so interested in material things, just wants enough to get by and a loving family, she will go for love first and like anyone looks are a bonus, she will choose the one she is more attracted to and looks play a big part at first.

there are amazing girls here, but be wise choosing, take time before commiting, make sure you know them.

none of this 1 week and marry madness.

and during the long dating process, give them very, very, little, see if they stick around,

or get one who has a family better of then yours.

do that and you will never cry

It is entirely possible to buy one and still retain control over your money and assets.

You might be a very handsome man, but some of us aren't very attractive without our wallets.

AS long as its you they love and not the wallet, but if your happy no one can judge.

as for handsome i was a model so i believe the handsome man comments lol.

sorry if that sounds egotistical

I didn't realise self improvement was so easy

Apparently I just have to shag a Thai woman for free and I become slim, young, well dressed, and all my hair grows back......amazing...

It would be very shallow if i said looks make a relationship, but even more so if i said money does, am i wrong in saying loveis important

my wife works our money out on paper, the budget.

she was an accountant, but the money stays in my account.

not a trust issue, just no reason for my money to be elswhere.

as for my wifes mum, her thai husband moved to england, became a chef, paid of there own house.

i have borrowed money from my wifes family several times, never had them borrow of me.

have been with a dodgy girl in the past, always had her hand out, she got tired of me.

there are amazing girls here, but be wise choosing, take time before commiting, make sure you know them.

none of this 1 week and marry madness.

and during the long dating process, give them very, very, little, see if they stick around,

or get one who has a family better of then yours.

do that and you will never cry

It is entirely possible to buy one and still retain control over your money and assets.

You might be a very handsome man, but some of us aren't very attractive without our wallets.

AS long as its you they love and not the wallet, but if your happy no one can judge.

as for handsome i was a model so i believe the handsome man comments lol.

sorry if that sounds egotistical

i think youve read my post wrong, i dont take care of my wifes family, well ill say it another way, my wifes mum helps my wife with the pigs and we pay her 10% of what we take a month, so really the mother in law is working for my wife, so you could say we are helping the family, but she is helping herself, and by the way her and my wife doa great job while im not there to keep things going,

everyone is differant, and theres nothing wrong with me today, im at work to be honest, im on nights on a power station in scotland, just sat in the office building for my future,

take care all,

and remember dont fall into thwe trap

looks like thisfamily and you are working in harmony, you all benefit, good relationship.

no traps really, thai's are terrible liars, a blind man could see there lies like a flashing neon sighn.

i'm not saying they all lie, just saying they are very bad at it.

me and my wife have an 8 year old and and 8 day old child, we rarely fight, 5 minute tiffs, respect each others culture in the home and don't interfere.

I know same very honest thai, but not many, just use common sense.

there are amazing girls here, but be wise choosing, take time before commiting, make sure you know them.

none of this 1 week and marry madness.

and during the long dating process, give them very, very, little, see if they stick around,

or get one who has a family better of then yours.

do that and you will never cry

when you put a deperate and broken young woman, with a desperate and broken farang, and i mean this respectfuly.

you are bound to have failure at best.

they give the girl everything, break up, then say she screwed me.

they gave all in a moment of lonely induced madness, inspired by the trophy wife syndrome bought on by never being able to find an attractive girl at home.

Handsome manseems to be a powerfull line.

seriously though, took our 8 year old there, jomtien and koh lahn, we had a great time.

out of certain soi's it's ok.

common sense and you willbe fine

most girls in pattaya leave there children in the village so thats no problem.

most farang have children older then there girlfriends, so thats no problem.

she spends because she can, and she can be sure you will give her more, so why would she change.

you gave her the power, taking it back now of a thai woman is near impossible, needs to be handled from the start.

600bht dishes for dinner, be carefull with a girl like that, is her heart with you or in your pocket.

not true, before my thai wife i was with an italian model, did not even like thai girls.

so same can get girls at home.

the host you say, in thailand you will always be the host unless you grow a set.

a good thai guy will not let you pay or put you in a situation or near family members that ask you to pay.

so why pay, let them pay for theres.

i pay for the wifes mum, although she,dont ask, the rest can forget it.

what is BBQ Larb, I know Larb but BBQ larb is new.

the sweet shy girl could have supported herself if she really tried, but she is not so moral or sweet after all is she.

her dogmouth proves that, with the sweet parting words she gave you.

kick her in the nuts

have sex with her one more time first, then go.

get one in why you can, record it if you can, you may need it to either blackmail her later,or wanking material when your single