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can those here tell there age, and there partners age, and the age when they met.

should not be a problem unless your ashamed.

what age gaps are we looking at here

Why don't you start.

36 and she's 32, married with children.

second child 3 weeks ago.

did niot really like asian girls much,was a friend at first,was with an italian model before,she cheated,so she got the boot.

again i will add i do believe there are good relationships with large age gaps, just very few

most people i have seen could not get a farang of any age

can those here tell there age, and there partners age, and the age when they met.

should not be a problem unless your ashamed.

what age gaps are we looking at here

i said some are real, no one notice, therefore you put yourself in the unreal catagory by getting upset

when you walk in aroom every head turns, you feel pride, you smile and feel awarm fuzzy feeling inside, thinking you are the man.

little doyou know they are giggling in disgust, others feel pity for your lack of understanding your being screwed

i have thai friends who like old men, they tell me why, the reasons are not nice

people laugh when they see you walking down the street.

giddyup, your telling us more then you know

how many farang girlsrun away to find old thai ladies

it bothers you all because you worry its true

spent time in china, every one knows thai's are on the take and they target old men, come on its no god dam_n revalation.

but i did say some are in legit relationships,you cannot deny most are bs

no oneseemsto notice i said some are legit relationships, if yours were don't worry.

the fact that you are all upset says something

sounds like some are going through a mid life crisis, second childhood kinda stage.

like i said, if your relationship is real, why get offended, must not be if your on the defence.

hardly any chinese girls, but don't count phillipines, they are as desperate as a shit house rat

there are a very rare few real relationships, but they are rare, good for you if your one of these.

but please dont deny its not rare and most are bs

In the housing estate where I live they are by far the majority, so not rare at all. Maybe the big difference is that most of these older guys are not whore mongers, drunks or loud mouthed individuals but just normal people going about their own business, have a sense of community, and generally are quite happy with their younger wives, as I am.

Judging by the attitude of the younger western members here on TV towards elderly people it is no wonder that so many of these elderly escape to a country where they at least can have a fairly happy live on a lot less money than in the west.

And let's be perfectly clear about it, I do hope that all of these young guys that look down on older people will have the change to experience themselves the bias that exist against age.

Yermanee

by the way, i never been with a whore and dont drink and smoke, so that screwsthat theory

i like the elderly, but i detest dishonesty

exactly, and nothing more

In Australia i have seen so many thai's with old guys, but not one jap or chinese.

why is that, and don't tell me it's cultural.

tell the truth one time.

read on, i said some are real relationships, but to those that got offended, you must be paranoid youselves and in a dodgy relationship.

if you were in the ones that are legit you would not get offended, point proven that it makes you paranoid hahahah

there are a very rare few real relationships, but they are rare, good for you if your one of these.

but please dont deny its not rare and most are bs

these relationships are nothing more then business transactions

if a girl was far younger then me, and i am only 36 i would wonder what the hell she wanted, i would be so paranoid.

not only that i would feel a little foolish with a young girl on my arm but each to there own, i would think somethings wrong with the girl, why cant she get a nice young man her own age.

often girls going for older men have many mental issues and baggage.

the problem is these bad isan girls give good isan girls a bad name.

so it's not ok really, people say live and let live ,BS, there actions are affecting others.

pattaya has doctors, i date one once, perhaps she was doing a little side work her english was good

why is this topic even a topic at all.

sure there really are some healthy age gap relationships, for real.

But the reality is most of them are a joke, thats why its talked about so much,and unfortunately thats why many thai girls are looked down on.

If your one of the miracle few to have a young girl thats real, fantastic, realy,but don't deny most the others a full of it and living in a bussiness exchange.

there are real ones,but they are rare, to those that are, enjoy, to the rest lol.

I'm 36, wifes 32, I do knowsame big age gaps that are dodgy, but I believe some a real.

From my experiance all thai girls want the money. Girls with a normal job just as bad as a bar girl so expect to have to pay to stay(with her) If the familys poor you will have to keep them happy to keep her happy.

Re: your girl speaking decent english and living in Pattaya...Most girls living there will be tempted to go out and make a couple of thousand baht in 1 night rather then a 10000 baht wage at family mart etc per month...

If the mother has been wanting cash in the past i would guess she was doing some work on the side there ...

And why would she go to Pattaya and not bangkok if she was educated?

My moneys on she has worked/working the males in the past .Maybe shes working you over now?

If she come onto you initially then its a given shes in pattaya for a reason other then working in family mart.

I've had an issan GF a few times and i would not suggest it to anyone. Its hard work.

But theres also guys who have had a great relationship with them.

Take her for a stroll down walking street and surrounding areas at night, ask her sneaky questions,see if shes familiar or acts abit different.

Good luck with it

Just for the records, my wife is from isaan, never worked in a bar, speaks very well English and earns her own money in a real job. We live in Pattaya.

Suggest you go out more and/or change your social surrounding

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you dated same isan bargirls and got burned, you messed up now you blame all of them, my wife is from isan,she is an accountant, brother an engineer, sister in marketing, other brother a monk and Author of Buddhist books and former lawyer.

they speak english so i guess the brothers were barmen, dad speaks english to,they have never taken from me, you date bargirls give them everything then complain, there are a thousand people like youin every region of thailand.