Understanding Women....

[stevkob]

12 hours ago, Been there done that said:

.....but it is always subtle, so one wouldn't notice if one wasn't looking for it. Therein stems the "problem", only a few can see it. Females have been very clever about avoiding a debate about emotional abuse. The "metoo campaign" in the west helps to keep the image of "only" men are the abusers. Not to say that real sexual abuse does not need to be punished ofcourse.

 

What a world !

 

I wouldn't say the "average" woman makes a conscience effort to denigrate men but I believe there is an unconscious willingness to correct perceived wrongs from the past. Trying to balance a power base in society, but it appears to me that the pendulum is swinging much to far in their favor. There are many examples to prove this, one only has to look...

 

I will risk retribution from fellow TV posters by saying that one of the reasons they are here is to get away from that underlying men hating abuse. Returning to the original topic, trying to understand women is impossible, and why would you want to? Do you believe that understanding them will give you an advantage?? Don't think so..... the goal posts move month by month.

 

[oldhippy]

2 hours ago, stevkob said:

 

I wouldn't say the "average" woman makes a conscience effort to denigrate men but I believe there is an unconscious willingness to correct perceived wrongs from the past. Trying to balance a power base in society, but it appears to me that the pendulum is swinging much to far in their favor. There are many examples to prove this, one only has to look...

 

I will risk retribution from fellow TV posters by saying that one of the reasons they are here is to get away from that underlying men hating abuse. Returning to the original topic, trying to understand women is impossible, and why would you want to? Do you believe that understanding them will give you an advantage?? Don't think so..... the goal posts move month by month.

 

Some men like women, some men don't.

Some men like women as people, some men like women only for sex.

Some men are frustrated and insecure, some men are not.

Some men are scared of women, some are not.

Some men generalise, some men don't.

 

It is clear what type of men post on this forum.

Must be related to age and country/culture of origin.

And since that can not be changed, I am not going to comment any further.

Utterly pointless.

 

[pgrahmm]

[stevkob]

4 minutes ago, oldhippy said:

And since that can not be changed, I am not going to comment any further.

 

Thank goodness, let's hope he's true to his word

[mauGR1]

24 minutes ago, oldhippy said:

Some men like women, some men don't.

Some men like women as people, some men like women only for sex.

Some men are frustrated and insecure, some men are not.

Some men are scared of women, some are not.

Some men generalise, some men don't.

 

It is clear what type of men post on this forum.

Must be related to age and country/culture of origin.

And since that can not be changed, I am not going to comment any further.

Utterly pointless.

 

I agree that your post is rather pointless, and your remark about " the type of men who post on this forum" is not very polite, and it takes the wind out of your sails, so to speak.

I am surprised btw... once upon a time, a thread like this would have been closed, as it has the potential to be offensive to the better part of humankind

Personally i find the wimmin, specially the pretty ones, to be very dangerous; to be scared of them is just common sense.

When i become familiar with some of them, i know some disaster is going to happen

[thaibeachlovers]

17 hours ago, stevkob said:

 

I'm right there with you bro, and i have noticed it big time. How about the ads for the universities? You'd think men weren't welcome.

 

LOL. Men are NOT welcome, anymore. We are only good for fixing things like plumbing, but not for any other reason. Notice how women are always ready to blame men for anything ( my ex was absolutely classic on that one- EVERYTHING was my fault ), and how they have really good support groups, while men are generally on their own, emotionally.

Once they work out how to have children, and get men to pay for them, without having to actually get married or live with a man they won't need us at all. They'll be quite happy in their lesbian relationships, while men will be wandering around wondering what the h*ll happened.

 

Notice how they are moving into male occupations like motor mechanics, and then wipe out the male culture that existed- can't put up playboy centerfolds or stuff like that anymore.

Remember the tailhook scandal? The Clinton administration used that to destroy the maleness of military aviation and make it easier for women to join. Didn't work out well for the men.

 

I like LOS because, among other things, it's NOT a female dominated society ( yet- but they are trying ).

[thaibeachlovers]

4 hours ago, stevkob said:

 

I wouldn't say the "average" woman makes a conscience effort to denigrate men but I believe there is an unconscious willingness to correct perceived wrongs from the past. Trying to balance a power base in society, but it appears to me that the pendulum is swinging much to far in their favor. There are many examples to prove this, one only has to look...

 

I will risk retribution from fellow TV posters by saying that one of the reasons they are here is to get away from that underlying men hating abuse. Returning to the original topic, trying to understand women is impossible, and why would you want to? Do you believe that understanding them will give you an advantage?? Don't think so..... the goal posts move month by month.

 

Western women in my experience have been so brainwashed by decades of subtle anti male propaganda that we have become the "enemy". What is worse, is that most men accept it, and some are so woosfied that they actually support it.

[mauGR1]

33 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Western women in my experience have been so brainwashed by decades of subtle anti male propaganda that we have become the "enemy". What is worse, is that most men accept it, and some are so woosfied that they actually support it.

I agree with every word, in fact , after my latest " love story " crashed on the rocks, i realised that i've better to regard the whole lot as criminals.

In their world, lying and deceiving are arts... Of course men can do that too, but , in a competition, wimmin would win hands down.

[sanuk711]

104 years ago today, suffragette Emily Davison died after throwing herself in front of king's horse. History remembers her as being influential in giving women the right to vote.

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What history doesn't remember is her husband, who didn't get his tea that night............

[Ulysses G.]

On 11/19/2017 at 10:52 PM, Gruff said:

Men and women are only alike sexually, in every other way they are from different planets. Perhaps that does mean the joint role is only for reproduction.

They are different sexually as well. Men masturbate more, use more pornography, are more reactive to visual stimulus, and experience sexual desire more casually.

[stevkob]

 

Interestingly and possibly at least food for thought, there is a name for men who hate women.... misogynist but there isn't any name for women who hate men.... at least if there is it isn't widely known.

Google had to provide me the answer.... misandry. Never heard of it before today.

The above I think provides a good example of how unbalanced the situation is.

 

[thaibeachlovers]

On ‎11‎/‎25‎/‎2017 at 2:42 PM, sanuk711 said:

104 years ago today, suffragette Emily Davison died after throwing herself in front of king's horse. History remembers her as being influential in giving women the right to vote.

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What history doesn't remember is her husband, who didn't get his tea that night............

 

Just imagine the world if men had stayed the course and refused women's votes.

I doubt it would be anything like ours now, but I have no idea what it would be like.

[thaibeachlovers]

4 hours ago, stevkob said:

 

Interestingly and possibly at least food for thought, there is a name for men who hate women.... misogynist but there isn't any name for women who hate men.... at least if there is it isn't widely known.

Google had to provide me the answer.... misandry. Never heard of it before today.

The above I think provides a good example of how unbalanced the situation is.

 

Lesbianism was never criminalised because Queen Vic apparently refused to believe it existed. The situation has been unbalanced a very long time.

BTW, only men can be wrong or bad, which is why you didn't know about misandry.

 

Even men were accusing a certain politician of misogyny despite the fact he loves women. They don't even understand the meaning of the word.

There are women in the public eye that I and others despise, but that alone doesn't make us misogynists- we'd have to hate ALL women.

[thaibeachlovers]

7 hours ago, Ulysses G. said:

They are different sexually as well. Men masturbate more, use more pornography, are more reactive to visual stimulus, and experience sexual desire more casually.

I have noticed that young women are just as much into sex as men are, but when they get on a bit or have a child that desire magically vanishes like smoke in a mist.

They also get turned on by dangerous men, but try to marry good providers to bring up children with. So good men doubly disadvantaged as they miss out on the great sex and have to put up with only getting laid on their birthday or when they buy her a shiny bauble that cost a lot ( sometimes begging results in a mercy s****, but not always ).

I once fell for a woman I'd been going out with a long time platonically, but when I told her, she said I wasn't her sort and gave me a very passionate kiss goodbye. I really wish she hadn't kissed me as it just made it harder, but that's wimmin for you.

 

PS, women I felt zero attraction to were often trying to hook up with me, but the women I really liked not at all- what the **** is that all about?

Edited November 26, 2017 by thaibeachlovers

[chickenslegs]

 

[thaibeachlovers]

7 hours ago, Ulysses G. said:

They are different sexually as well. Men masturbate more, use more pornography, are more reactive to visual stimulus, and experience sexual desire more casually.

Also, they don't understand why men masturbate; denigrate men that use visual stimulus, even if it's only Playboy; and are less into casual sex unless it's with a famous musician or a powerful man, in which case it's knickers off instantly. 

[Gruff]

On 11/26/2017 at 12:35 AM, Ulysses G. said:

They are different sexually as well. Men masturbate more, use more pornography, are more reactive to visual stimulus, and experience sexual desire more casually.

 Their lying, manipulation and deceit seems to have influenced you away from the likely truth.

[Ulysses G.]

1 hour ago, Gruff said:

 Their lying, manipulation and deceit seems to have influenced you away from the likely truth.

Sounds misogynistic. 

[stevkob]

I hear whats her face Marple the now fiance of Prince Harry accused Donald Trump of being a misogynist, I couldn't help laughing at that one. Trumpy loves his women just look at the long line of them left behind as he saw another size DD.

 

 

[Gruff]

3 hours ago, Ulysses G. said:

Sounds misogynistic. 

Men do the same so it could be i am Misandric as well.  Not much hope in life for me!

Edited November 28, 2017 by Gruff

[nausea]

Briffault's Law and Freud; experience tells me these two guys had it pretty much pegged.

[thaibeachlovers]

On ‎11‎/‎29‎/‎2017 at 6:16 PM, nausea said:

Briffault's Law

Just looked it up. He sure got that one right. No wonder they don't teach it in school though, given most teachers are now women.

[mauGR1]

On 11/29/2017 at 6:16 PM, nausea said:

Briffault's Law and Freud; experience tells me these two guys had it pretty much pegged.

Thanks, i've never heard before about that Briffault dude, i think he nailed it.